same goes for me the first couple of times I tried it and it's still a "problem" because your ass wasn't designed for sex. But as time goes a long you'll get used to it, though. But until then you can do either of the following things:
- warm yourself up with a butt-plug. It'll lessen the feeling of you have to "go" a great deal if not removing it completely!
- Masturbate heavily! Not only will it reduce the side effects you're mentioning but it will also make your "exit hole" wet fast because it'll arrouse you a LOT! Furthermore there's not reason why you shouldn't masturbate during anal sex. It'll give you mind-blowing orgasms and you should be able to have as many as you want!

hope this will help! 
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