I've never felt the need to 'go'...but fallenangel's tip abt clit rubbing during is a good one, and bouray is correct in that sometimes it just doesn't work as well as others.
I find the more i stress about trying to make it work, the tenser i am and the more difficult it is.
So, relax, and try not to put too much pressure on yourself.
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