1) Women are just as bad to people as men are, women also talk about them afterwards. Dont act that women dont play catty, they do it exactly like men.
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when guys are just talking amongst themselves, there is a degree of freedom and deviancy in their speech which is probably, somehow, related to some kind of competition (whose the most deviant, maybe?) or just general group mentality in that you don't act normal when in a group of guys
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No its not competition. Being a man (contrary to popular belief) is difficult. We have to be strong but sensitive. W have to be rich. We have to be an ass to get the girl, yet we have to be a nice guy so that she wont ditch us after the 3rd date. We have to be complete opposite things at the same time, yet because we also have to be stoic we're not allowed to complain. Oh.. and we cant say sexist things about women or we're a mysogonist (sp?)... but it's ok for women to talk about men...
What "guy talk" is simply us blowing smoke. Around guys we're finally able to relax and say the shit that goes through everyones head yet to avoid being labeled we hold it in.
No, we dont expect you to find guy talk amusing. Thats why "guy talk" is around guys. We dont enjoy hearing women talk about their roommate and their fights, and we dont enjoy hearing women talk about other peoples clothing (especially on how ugly the cloths are). Yes I've learned a whole lot on hearing girl-talk, but I can only take so much of it before I cant stand it anymore.
Guys and girls are different, just like we like action flicks and yall like chick flicks... just accept them and love each other for them.