Kudos on getting one in the first place. If you're anything like me, chances are you won't get off until you're comfortable with things. That takes time and patience.
The best way to get comfortable is to focus on what feels good, and communicate with your partner. Nothing makes sex better than open, honest communication between partners. Make sure that she feels the same way about recieving pleasure from you, and your experience will improve.
I personally love making other people feel really good; it's fun to focus on my partner. They tend to appreciate the attention, and show their appreciation in remarkable ways.
