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Old 03-10-2004, 08:40 PM   #20 (permalink)
motdakasha
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Originally posted by CheeseButtons
I am still a virgin...and i was really nervous. I felt bad, and the girl felt bad as well...needless to say it sorta cut the evening short.
It's called performance anxiety and totally normal. Don't be ashamed and don't let it get to you. However, if this keeps happening to you, it is most likely a cycle of guilt and anxiety. Physiological causes for sexual dysfunction are actually more rare. Either way, if this is consistently a problem for you, see a doctor or therapist. Otherwise, the more you don't worry about last time, the better you're likely to do the next time.

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Originally posted by theguyondacouch
Was that really needed?
No.
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