Look, my first time I couldn't get it up either. It's TOTALLY a nerves issue. Basically every time I've ever been with a new person it's been at least a little bit of an issue. (no pun intended)
I know the thoughts you're having are something along the lines of, "What's wrong with me?", and it feels like a permanent thing. Look, my nearly-first time, we had to call it off for lack of engorgement. My actual-first time I was plenty hard enough and lasted about five seconds. Any performance-anxiety hangup you can develop, I developed.
And now, fourteen years later, I have a very complete and satisfying sex life in which I perform admirably, if I do say so myself.
It's not a problem. As you relax and get comfortable with each other it'll go away.
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