Sex is natural but feeling comfortable about it is not. This is perfectly normal. I always go into sex just trying to focus on what feels good and to get my partner to communicate the same. I even found a spot on my wife (13 years married) last night that she had never noticed was actually an intense turn on spot. It was actually on her back right where her arm joined her shoulder just to the side of the shoulder blade. Just approach sex as one of the ultimate enjoyment things in life and you will relax that much more. Just be sure and use protection while doing this. While sex is natural, so is pregnancy, STDs etc and that can ruin the event for sure.
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