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Man, a lot of people are blaming you. I feel for ya. I don't think there is anything interwoven in our DNA to choose bad women. I've had friends/girl friends who ultimately haven't settled down. You can either be accepting or jealous. It really comes to a cross road right there. If she is cheating, because she has lost feelings for you that's one thing. But if she just wants to "play"...well fuck play with her. Maybe you guys could find new things sexually about your realationship, who knows. I may be coming from far left field on this one. But I've just witnessed in my own life with a friend, not a wife granted. But i'd say you have to come to a decision one way or the other soon, if you're gonna say stop/no, then do so, if you're gonna say "can I play too?" Then you better do that as well.
Good luck whichever way you choose, but I wouldn't blame yourself. That's like blaming yourself for having a bad car off the lot, if you don't know anything about cars. And I'll be honest with ya, any guy who knows women is fooling himself...
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