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Alzheimers is terrible and i've always thought worse for those surrounding the person than the person themselves (atleast once they are totally gone and they don't remember anyone). Before that to realize that you can't remember your wife's name or your own at times? Myself I wouldn't wish that and for the sake of my family i'd request some type of home to save them the agony of what will soon follow.
I can't say being in a home with a diaper and tubes is what I would call quality of life either. I've always made it clear I don't wany any of that, just let me go and scatter my ashes.
I thoughts are with you Raenna I know these are the types of disicions & what if's? we dread as we get older w/ regards to family.
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