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Me and my boyfriend have been dating almost 8 months and the majority of that time he has been away at college, I am still in high school. He comes home as often as possible on the weekends and I go up there occasoinally. I know I see him a bit more than you are seeing this girl Niki. But the distance is still there and it hurts, I know this. The best thing I can tell you do do is decide what you want and what she means to you. And go from there. The best thing you can do is what you are doing now. Talk to her as often as possible on the phone and online. Another good thing that me and my boyfriend do is write letters, I know it sounds old fashioned with the up-to-date e-mail but it still has a special meaning when you get a letter from the one you care about. Also something I do for him since he is away at college is I send him "care packages". You know express mail some cookies or brownies, add somes pictures of yourself and maybe something personal of yours like a sweater or t-shirt she can wear to have a part of you with her. I hope some of this is helpful. I wish you luck in whatever may happen. :-)
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