Was He trying to Dominate/Punish???

Wasn't sure where to post this ...
I went to my lovers house, (both single) after not seeing each other for over a month,(I would not go over due to being mad at him).We spoke and hung out for awhile,then proceeded to get into intimacy. He did something he's never done.He asked me a question during it.
He bent me over the bed,Took me very hard and fast,As rough as he could,while he asked me repeatedly " Aren't you glad you came over ? " as he proceeded to pound the hell out of me..He also grabbed my hair,Nothing new with that though.
I got the sense that he was punishing me,though not sure why,Am I wrong in my hunch?

 

I think you need to discuss it with him before you discuss it with us!! Especially this is some edgier play that, without strong communication could go into some very bad areas.

 

Already working on that He's a touchy one so wording it correctly is crucial.

 

Just my .02. If he's 'touchy' and behaving that way with you out of the blue, I would recommend rethinking that relationship. Your instincts are telling you that something is not right.

 

Yikes. I second that.

 

I agree with the first two responses. Discuss this with him ASAP to see where his mind is, even if he isn't comfortable talking about his feelings.

For the question asked, my gut reaction is yes, he was punishing you with his penis instead of his fist. To me his "Aren't you glad you came over?" comments while violently hammering you translate to This what you deserve!!. He was releasing some repressed anger.

 

And that is fine if the conversation has been had and trust has been established. If she trusted him she wouldn't be wondering what the hell is going on.

She can talk to him and he can make it sound all nice and rational after the fact. And I'm not saying that she should break it off with him. Just be careful, be aware and listen to your gut. What he did was not appropriate and this is me talking here - the one who loves that shit.

 

Just my opinion, but I doubt you'll get a straight, truthful, compete answer, especially after the fact. But I don't know the guy. He may be a straight-shooter, for all I know. Judging from context clues here though....