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This Magic Moment

Discussion in 'Tilted Life and Sexuality' started by AlterMoose, Apr 22, 2012.

  1. AlterMoose

    AlterMoose Slightly Tilted

    Location:
    Pangaea
    Particularly anyone in a commited lifetime relationship, more generally anyone who's been in love: do you remember the specific moment you realized you were seriously, irrevocably, unavoidably IN LOVE with your significant other? Can you describe it?
     
    AlterMoose, Apr 22, 2012
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  2. rogue49

    rogue49 Tech Kung Fu Artist Staff Member

    Location:
    Baltimore/DC
    She started staying over at my place more than hers
    and I when came home from work and called out in a faux cuban accent, "LUCY, I'm hoome..."

    Plus when I went away on a trip and we nauseously kept texting "I miss you" to each other constantly.
    Yeah, it was pretty disgusting. :rolleyes:

    And even though I love her dearly to this day, she's still a PITA and pisses me off.
    "LUCY, you have some 'splain'in to do" (**and vice versa, I'm sure)
     
    rogue49, Apr 22, 2012
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  3. Plan9

    Plan9 Rock 'n Roll

    Location:
    Earth


    /divorced guy humor

    ...

    Mmm, I think I fall in love with a woman when they're in a tough situation and they push through and make the tough-but-right life decision.

    It's nothing romantic. It's anti-romance. It's sawing-your-leg-off-with-a-pen-knife-to-escape-the-crushing-boulder stuff. Shows real strength.

    I love my current girlfriend because she's persevered through more physical pain than any woman I've ever known. She's iron-hard inside.

    I don't fall in love with women based on the things they do for me as much as the things they do for themselves.

    TFP often says "You've gotta be good as an individual to be good in a relationship."

    I believe it. All strong relationships are two individuals working together.
     
    Last edited: Apr 22, 2012
    Plan9, Apr 22, 2012
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  4. AlterMoose

    AlterMoose Slightly Tilted

    Location:
    Pangaea
    Mine's kinda dumb, but it's mine. And I'm kinda dumb, so it fits. Senior year of high school, been dating the girl for a while. Playing in the pep band during a basketball game. I know I'm falling hard for her, can't stop thinking about her. We're playing 'Hey Jude' of all things. The song has no particular meaning to me, really. A few measures before the Nana-na-na's at the end, it lands on me like a fairly large stone. I'm in love. I'm in love and I want her with me forever. That was 1996. We're marking our 12th wedding anniversary this week-end.
     
    AlterMoose, Apr 22, 2012
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  5. fflowley

    fflowley Don't just do something, stand there!

    There was definitely something special about our first date.
    I recognized it then, but didn't really do any specific thinking about it.
    It was just nice to have met someone that I was interested in and I wanted to get to know her better.
    On our second date, I introduced her to a very dear friend. One that knew me as deeply as close friends can get.
    Afterwards I asked my close friend what she thought of my date.
    She said, " I think I'm going to dance at your wedding."
    We got married 3 years later. That was 13 years ago.
     
    fflowley, Apr 23, 2012
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