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Suggestions for Bad Hips

Discussion in 'Tilted Life and Sexuality' started by genuinemommy, Sep 26, 2012.

  1. genuinemommy

    genuinemommy Moderator Staff Member

    Do you have bad hips? Know someone who does? I'm curious for any and all suggestions for how to minimize strain on my hips while maintaining a moderate level of mobility.

    I'm 16 weeks pregnant but my tendons have already started loosening, and my hips constantly feel like they are out of joint. There's a dull ache most of the time, though other times I feel incredibly stiff and have a difficult time walking around. It seems to be less of a problem if I keep active, if I lay down on my back (nap, rest, etc) then things just stiffen up and I find myself worse than before I tried to rest. The stretches I have been trying also seem to make things worse, though now that I think about it the stretches I have tried may have been putting undue stress on my joints. I've spoken to my Ob/gyn and I'm planning on taking his advice on visiting a physical therapist. But in the meantime I figure I might as well start a discussion on the topic, see if there are some people out there with some advice.
     
  2. b2653009 Slightly Tilted

    *raises hand* I have bad hips and knees. I did a lot of damaging stuff when I used to dance and figure skate. Forcing flexibility on my prepubescent hips...baaaad thing. Now every morning I have to crack my hips as normally as people crack their knuckles. Stretching helps, but sometimes I have days where the pain just won't go away. I'm not too active nowadays, especially with my bum knee. I'd like to be again, soon.
    I'll probably start back into it with Yoga and working on my flexibility.
    I wish I could give you some advice! Have you done any googling on the topic?
     
  3. Plummie

    Plummie New Member

    Location:
    Lexington, KY
    Did you notice you were having problems with your hips prior to pregnancy? Or did this just come about as a result of it?
     
  4. Indigo Kid

    Indigo Kid Getting Tilted

    First of all, Many Happy Congratulations on being pregnant! How wonderful!! When are you due? :)

    As for the hip pain issue, I've been having a lot of pain there too lately but mine is from age not pregnancy. (Darn!) My Dr. said to sleep with a thick pillow between my legs and that helps quite a bit. When it's unbearable I rub the white "Tiger balm" into my hips after a warm shower or bath. But check first with your Doc to make sure that's safe. Eating more bananas helps too, due to the potassium content.
     
  5. Baraka_Guru

    Baraka_Guru Möderätor Staff Member

    Location:
    Toronto
    First, congratulations (again)!

    Nutritionally, have you considered ensuring a minimum omega-3 intake? That can help with inflammation, plus it's supposed to be good for the baby to have an EPA and DHA intake during pregnancy.

    Omega-3 Fish Oil and Pregnancy : American Pregnancy Association

    Good for hips, good for baby?
     
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  6. PonyPotato

    PonyPotato Very Tilted

    Location:
    Columbus, OH
    Obviously, my advice is going to be to get into see that physical therapist as soon as possible. Preferably, try to get a referral to a womens health specialist, or at least someone who has a lot of experience with pregnant clients.

    Soon, you're not going to be able to lie on your back. Start now by lying on your side with a pillow between your knees to get used to it.
    Is it actually your hip joints that hurt? Or is your pelvis? A lot of people will cite hip pain but it is really their pelvis and/or lower spine that is the issue.

    If the problem is joint laxity, do not stretch. Strengthening exercises (high reps, low weight for endurance) will be more beneficial for you than stretches.
     
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  7. fflowley

    fflowley Don't just do something, stand there!

    And watch out for well intentioned advice for "bad hips" that actually is bad advice for you.
    Yours is a very specific situation, different from most out there with "bad hips".
     
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  8. Charlatan

    Charlatan sous les pavés, la plage

    Location:
    Temasek
    My wife went through this when she was pregnant with our daughter. Her pelvis started to adjust early (earlier than it did with my son). I will have to ask her but I am pretty sure she just made sure to take her vitamins (including Omega 3s) and to stretch.

    There wasn't much you could do for it. The condition isn't permanent, it's just your hips making room for a baby's fat head.
     
  9. genuinemommy

    genuinemommy Moderator Staff Member

    Thanks everyone!
     
  10. Idyllic

    Idyllic Vertical

    Congratulations!

    Along with all the vitamins, and stretching, swimming will build muscle strength to help support the hips and help to hold the femoral head in socket, especially frog and kick treading.

    Good luck, how awesome, I loved being pregnant, it is so exciting.
     
  11. rogue49

    rogue49 Tech Kung Fu Artist Staff Member

    Location:
    Baltimore/DC
    Congrats. :)

    My wife has bad hips due to her RA.
    Often a heating pad will help.

    My mother who's an L&D nurse has suggested laying with pillows leveraged up against your body as you lay...sometimes this actually helps.
    You might want to consider how you're sitting, walking, lying, etc...each has a different impact, and the length of time you're in each.

    But there is also special yoga for pregnant ladies, this may allow you to stretch but for what you're capable of for you in your situation.

    Of course, speak with your doctor before starting any program.
    Unfortunately, since you're pregnant, there's not that many meds you can take.

    A child-birth prep class may be able to give some pointers.
    But it is different for every woman.

    Lastly, certain things you can do to distract from the pain.

    I wish you as much comfortable as possible during this wonderful but challenging time.
     
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  12. amonkie

    amonkie Very Tilted

    Location:
    Windy City
    Usually whenever there is lower back issues, the first thing I've heard my PT and trainer friends recommend is core strengthening. By making sure the right muscles are supporting your body, it takes the pressure off of those may be filling but really shouldn't be.

    I have hip issues because my right leg is shorter than my left, and my hips are off by about a half inch. Just that much of a disparity is enough to completely change my gait and alignment. A PT worth their salt, and Pony can correct me if I'm wrong, will want to see your posture/gait and see if that is contributing in some way.
     
  13. Charlatan

    Charlatan sous les pavés, la plage

    Location:
    Temasek
    If you lay on your side, a pillow between your knees can go a long way.
     
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  14. SirLance

    SirLance Death Therapist

    Congrats!

    Have you talked with your OB about this? You may be lacking calcium. It might help to have a pillow between knees or a wedge under them.

    Is this your first pregnancy?

    Definitely talk to the doc. You should avoid NSAIDS and other drugs if you can.
     
  15. genuinemommy

    genuinemommy Moderator Staff Member

    Yes, I spoke to my OB about it.

    I haven't taken any pain pills. I'm used to managing chronic pain from a disease I have been fighting the past 2 years (that supposedly left me infertile). Any "pregnancy safe" pain drugs haven't worked on me for a while, taking nothing is just as effective.

    This is my first pregnancy to make it through the first 3 months. So, yeah... this is all new.

    Physical therapy was the OB's suggestion, and I have found a specialist in pre-natal physical therapy that I'm planning on visiting - I have left a message with their office and sent an e-mail - waiting on hearing back from them with an appointment time. Update: I have an appointment for Friday morning (next week).

    I have taken PonyPotato 's advice (both here and on my blog). So many of you have suggested sleeping with a pillow between my legs - I have been doing that for a while and it wasn't really helping much. So I doubled-up the pillow to make it a more substantial size and it seems to be helping quite a bit, if nothing else it makes it so I can lay down without as much pain.
     
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  16. Hektore

    Hektore Slightly Tilted

    Congrats gg, I'm sure your quite thrilled about this.

    As for your hips, I'm sure your PT will go over everything but stretching the 'problem' spot isn't always the best solution. My lower back is quite injured and though stretching it helps a bit it's actually my legs that need to be kept loose to eliminate the pain and function normally.
     
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  17. Japchae

    Japchae Very Tilted

    When I broke my pelvis, my hips were in incredible amounts of pain. A lot of massage and physical therapy. The stretching made everything worse for awhile.
     
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  18. genuinemommy

    genuinemommy Moderator Staff Member

    I spoke with my sister about my hip pain last night. She experienced something similar with her hips at about the same timeframe with all of her pregnancies. She didn't do any physical therapy, it wasn't a financially viable option for her at the time. She ended up on bed rest due to her hip pain. She also ended up with permanent damage to her hips, which now that she has 5 kids, can't afford to deal with. I'm definitely glad I know that this early loosening of joints runs in my family, and what the end result may be if I don't get the proper care.

    I'll see the specialist on Friday. Really looking forward it.
     
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  19. rogue49

    rogue49 Tech Kung Fu Artist Staff Member

    Location:
    Baltimore/DC
    I'm glad you figured out that there is a pattern within your family.
    I've found that doctors seem to pay attention to and work to resolve things better if given something to refer to.

    Like, without it, they are unsure of what to address and their solutions are ambiguous or non-attentive.
    But now, that you can state your have some sort of family/genetic pattern, it's relatable...and then they'll tackle it more specifically.

    This is true for yourself, it's like a check on your sanity. "It's not in my head".
    Then you could seek a specialist even beyond your primary and OB/GYN.

    And it's further proof to the insurance companies too... :rolleyes:
    As now you have a valid argument for appeal if they "disapprove" a course of action.

    Sad that people/entities are skeptical, that you have to prove things always.
    But sometimes they won't acknowledge something is the matter until they are given an excuse or another point of reference.
     
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  20. genuinemommy

    genuinemommy Moderator Staff Member

    Not sure why I glazed over this one earlier. I take flaxseed oil tablets, have been taking them fairly regularly for around a year. The doc also gave me a sample of an algae-based DHA supplement. I think I'll start looking for something more effective than the flaxseed. I'd like to find a substantial vegetarian alternative to fish oil, if possible.
     
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