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Really, REALLY good sex!

Discussion in 'Tilted Life and Sexuality' started by Xerxes, Jan 15, 2013.

  1. Xerxes

    Xerxes Bulking.

    OK, So I recently got my whistle wet and I am missing the long term gig I had a while back with the ex. I don't know but my most recent ex, just did it for me. Maybe it's me nostalgia-ing so fucking hard right now but I swear I enjoyed myself the first time we did it.

    Maybe I should stop pining opver my ex. But that's a different thread.

    Through my limited experience I believe that good sex has to be with someone you really like and is intimate with. I like the current girl I'm with now. It's not serious by any means, but we're both exclusive. We both only typically only date the one person at a time and never go for one night stands.

    Ego boost plus, she says I'm her best. Best out of two, so not saying much, but still ... HU-MOTHAFACKING-ZAH!

    So, really good sex, how exactly is it for you? Has it gotten progressively better? Was it one time and you don't know how to get back to it? Do you have ups and downs? Was it with one person? Are you still with that person?

    Bonus points for stories.
     
  2. GeneticShift

    GeneticShift Show me your everything is okay face.

    The best sex I ever had was so amazing and so meaningful and so full of love that it made me cry, and I will be the first lame person to admit that.
     
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  3. clarksdale

    clarksdale Vertical

    Location:
    Minnesota
    Right now I'm having the best sex I've ever had and I'm not a young man (61). My wife and I take care of ourselves, so we are still visually appealing to each other. She said to me early on "I'll try anything once." And I've heard others describe themselves as "trysexual" - we'll try anything. That's kind of us. I've learned how sexy candor is. We are completely honest about what we want and desire and imagine. I'm not saying we've tried everything, far from it. But even talking about it is a huge turn on. I never thought that at my age I'd be experiencing this, so, hey. I try to live a life of gratitude, and though this isn't something I'd offer up at the Thanksgiving Day ritual of telling others what we are thankful for, privately it is probably number one. My only sadness: it could have been like this sooner under other circumstances, and if I'd had the courage to be more open and honest.
     
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  4. Poetry

    Poetry Totally Sharky, Complete

    Location:
    Los Angeles, CA
    Best sex I've ever had, hands down, was with a near-complete stranger.

    We met online when I was 21 or so, had sex once. Met up again, through the wonders of the internet, when I was 26. Hooked up twice then. Met up again (thanks internet!) last December (I'm 29 now).

    First three times, the sex was awesome. These last two go-rounds have been fun, but not as good as it was in the past.

    I still know very little about him, but I'm learning.

    Made love once. That was interesting. Also good.

    There's different types of sex, you know? I can name a number of different guys that were the best at "x" type of sex. If I had to pick one lover, as much as I love rough sex, I'd probably go with a gentle lover (who wouldn't be the first guy I mentioned). It's all different flavors.
     
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  5. clarksdale

    clarksdale Vertical

    Location:
    Minnesota
    Perhaps the best sex of my life will be tonight. We are going to a classy strip club and have some couples lap dances. Another first!
     
  6. snowy

    snowy so kawaii Staff Member

    I have the best sex ever all the time. It's pretty awesome. Last night was reallllly good, but I know that soon enough, I'll have another encounter with my husband that leaves me thinking that. He's reliable that way.
     
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  7. Shadowex3

    Shadowex3 Very Tilted

    I'm in the opposite boat, on paper I've had sex more or less two/three times tops and the experience ranged from unpleasant to outright painful. I always hear people talking about how amazing sex is and for my part I'm just left thinking "Yeah you guys are basically trying convince me that getting pepper sprayed and kicked in the nads is the most awesome thing ever".
     
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  8. Xerxes

    Xerxes Bulking.

    HAHAHAHA! This is exactly how I feel about beer!
     
  9. Should NOT be having sex on paper. Nasty, NASTY paper cuts!:(
     
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  10. blowm16 New Member

    Have had sex with around 20 different women but been married for the last 12 so has been almost 15 years since I had a different partner. My wife is ok in bed - she used to try, now just does it out of duty for me. It is funny because when I met her I was fucking a girl who gave great head and would give up her ass but whose pussy did not get wet and had a horrible time cumming at all. Part of the reason that I chose the girl that I ended up marrying was that she was multi-orgasmic and sometimes came in less than a minute from when we started fooling around - and we did that a lot! The irony to me is that while neither was the best fuck I ever had - that belongs to the girl I dated through most of college but just grew apart from - but that ease of cumming is now a problem. She is done in less than 5 minutes and just wants me to be done. I need 10 - 15 minutes of stimulation to cum. That is the problem. She would rather masturbate and go to sleep than fuck or get me off and she never gave head to start with so that is off the table. No idea what to do about it - get my weekly fuck in and jack off for the next three days, then take a break for a couple of days so that when she is likely to want to fuck, I am horny and that speeds it up a bit. If anyone has any advice on how to make this work better, please share. I am not going to leave over it and have talked with her about it a number of times, she just doesn't make it a priority and when I try to, all I get is "all you care about is sex" as a response and then I get none at all for weeks. :-( Not my best life decision outcome.
     
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  11. Zen

    Zen Very Tilted

    Location:
    London
    Hi, blowm16

    I do think you are on the right track to be talking with her.

    What do you reckon on the following throught that came to me as I read your post:
    This bit:
    "and when I try to, all I get is "all you care about is sex" as a response and then I get none at all for weeks."

    That 'all you care about' ... that's what I'd direct my attention to. WHAT are the bits that you are NOT caring about ... and I don't mean YOUR answer. She's got to answer that question, and you've got to ask her in as helpful a way as possible.

    Not "Eh! I want sex, but it's not all I care about ... see here .... WHAT stuff that's not sex do you want? C'mon ... tell me now ... and I promise, I'll fullfil but meanwhile ... can we get on with some more fucking ..... please? "

    No, not that. Pardon me .. I'm exaggerating ... I don't reckon you'd do that, but I'm pushing for that if you ask, you don't make it like rules and conditions. IF she's missing stuff then you've got a slow but sure job and obligation to Find Out, and if it's within your power, to provide it. As long as it's not something totally out of order.

    IF she can't or won't let you know, then simply continue trying to find out ... different ways of asking her or encouraging her to let you know. For all you know ... YOU might need to learn new ways of asking her questions. You might. Thing is, if you can just do that, and if you can be successful, then you and she'll be getting on a bit better anyway. That's gotta be good REGARDLESS of whether you and she are having the sex that you like.

    You want the cherry on the top of the cake? Gotta check that the cake is built ... or there's nothing to support the cherry.
    I mean ... if you're going "Aw .. let's have a cherry". She's more likely to go "that's all you think about .." if she's aware of all the cake that's MISSING. That SHE thinks is missing.

    Note .. it might NOT be missing. SHE might be feeling insecure for no good reason etc etc .. it might be 'all about her' ... or 'mainly' about her .. BUT you're not going to find that out UNTIL you've thoroughly explored and exausted the 'it could be about YOU' possiblities. Those are the ones you CAN work on thoroughly, and let's face it, you are the one who's wanting to change the status quo, so you are the one who's motivated who actually WANTS to change. So you'll change yourself so much quicker than you'll change her. Heck, it should take a few months to a year, max if you get your info-gathering and self-change mojo working well.

    And if you get her to give you the information you need to change yourself ... then you'll be streamlined ... you'll be changing the right things. And regardless of sex, you'll be building a better relationship.

    AND here's a worrying clincher: What If after ALL that ... and I'm talking about you doing stuff that will take you a year or two at the most to do it thoroughly ... what if after all that ... she's still totally 'NO' and 'All you ever think abouut ' and holding off for weeks at a time if you bring up the subject? Well, one thing's for sure ... YOU will be in a far, far more well informed position as you decide what you want to do next. If she stays exactly like you've described her today .... YOU will have still grown and developed to become even more self aware ... and you will have therefore given youself the best possible shot of making the wiser decisions regarding your life with her.

    Take care
     
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  12. snowy

    snowy so kawaii Staff Member

    Maybe last night was the best ever.
     
  13. ralphie250

    ralphie250 Fully Erect

    Location:
    At work..
    My wife and i have been having really really good sex the last few weeks. Maybe it's cause we're trying different and new things
     
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  14. Indigo Kid

    Indigo Kid Getting Tilted

    OMG! It's been soooo long I forget what it feels like! (Isn't that just sad?)
     
  15. Seaver

    Seaver Vertical

    Location:
    Dallas
    Best sex I ever had was with a girl I was in an 8 month only-sexual relationship with. We never really got along outside of copious amounts of alcohol and sex, and I always made sure to exit when either one of those showed signs of slowing down. It was always the crazy sexual brawl over who gets to dominate, who's going to fuck harder, who's going to cum first because fuck it all and both end up collapsing in a lump of exasperated happiness.

    That being said, I'm now in a relationship with a light-sub who makes me so much happier... and the sex is still pretty damn awesome.
     
  16. nose spray

    nose spray New Member

    That happened to my first serious girlfriend, of which we both swapped v-cards. She started crying, covered her mouth, freaked me out, and I left the room.
     
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  17. GeneticShift

    GeneticShift Show me your everything is okay face.

    Mine was happy crying though, promise.
     
  18. nose spray

    nose spray New Member

    I guess I should have specified. I'm not a rapist. I was 17, she was 16, I think, yeah. We were "in love" and I had just got my own place and started college. We had played around a bit for a week or two prior to "the deed" going down. So finally, we were both nice and buzzed and she said she wanted to bang. I, of course being a 17 year old high school graduated virgin, wanted this more than nothing else in the universe. So we started, I was going slow, etc etc. Her emotions got a hold of her and she just busted out crying and put her hand over her mouth trying so hard not to cry....it freaked me out, so I went outside and had a cigarette (yeah, badass 17 year old, huh?) and then that was it. The next time, it was a par-tay.
     
  19. mixedmedia

    mixedmedia ...

    Location:
    Florida
    I have to think long and hard about this. No pun intended. I've had lots of great sex. With people I no longer know and with people I wish I'd never known.
    But, if I'm really, really honest. The best sex I ever had was when I was fifteen years old and having an affair with a 30ish carnival worker. He gave me my first orgasm during intercourse and he adored me. He pushed me up against the wall and fucked me behind a biker bar in Cocoa Beach, FL. And it was all so dangerous and inappropriate. But it was sweet. He loved me and I broke his heart. If I had known then what I know now, I probably wouldn't have stayed with him, but I wouldn't have so misjudged the quality that that relationship had, either. I had no idea that it was one of the most decent relationships I would ever have. I had no fucking clue.
     
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  20. Rebel CR

    Rebel CR Vertical

    Location:
    Cell Number 99
    i have some fantastic tandem pelvic thrusting with ex's but i get bored easily so it can be short-lived

    even worse, i haven't being seeing anyone for months so i'm a near born-again virgin these days :(