Question about female orgasm???

The other night my husband and I were having sex and I "think" I was building up to an orgasm. The only thing is he finished right before I was able to go over the edge. Well, he stuck his fingers inside me and all of the sudden (unbeknownst to me) I started gushing. First time I've ever, in my whole 34 years of existence, done that! He said, " YES, I did it! That was awesome!" -LOL- I felt like I was having an orgasm but I'm not too sure, because when he interrupted me with his "oh so proud of himself" words, I looked down and saw what was going on and totally lost focus. I was in shock of what had just happened. BUT, before I lost my focus it felt SOOOOOOO good! So, I guess my question is, is that what a vaginal orgasm feels like? I actually have quite a few questions and I don't even know where to begin with this or who to turn to...

I googled female vaginal orgasms and it brought me to this site, so I thought, "Ehh, why not ask?" sorry if this is not the appropriate place to post this. (I'm new to this site)

 

I can't begin to answer your question; but I'm totally impressed with google bringing up this site for that query.

 

Welcome to the asylum, kdluvsbd! Looks to me like you found the perfect spot to place this post!

I can't personally relate to the things you felt, but your description sure sounds like a vaginal orgasm... with a bonus! Hope that next time, hubby can restrain his exuberance and you get to finish the experience (although, I can totally relate to his reaction).

 

Well, google didn't take me directly here, but rather, to some posts that were asked on this site at some point in time. (I think???) I've been searching through google for some answers, hence this post.

 

If you're not sure, you should probably try again to make sure. Then try again after that. Keep trying until he develops carpal tunnel syndrome, then make him switch hands.

Yes, it sounds like you had an orgasm.

 

LIKE, LIKE AND LIKE AGAIN!

 

Sounds a hell-of-a-lot like female ejaculation to me.

Have yet to be successful in achieving that with my partner.

*high fives kdluvsbd's husband*

 

Aw crap, what happened to my post?
Well I typed out a post to you and I don't know what happened to it...
I'm currently reading the article now, almost finished. (short version, not that it long or anything.)

 

And welcome to the forum

 

Damn, the wikipedia article didn't help any. Well it did but it didn't...

So basically, there's not enough research out there to tell if a woman can ejaculate or not? What?!
Um, I'm thinking, we can! Because I know I didn't pee myself! Felt way too damn good!!!

 

Thanks, I read that too.
I found another site that is very informative but apparently I haven't posted enough to put the link in my msg. Haha.

 

Most women are capable of ejaculating-- it's just a matter of the stimulus. Basically, your body gets so excited that your PC muscle clamps down hard and you ejaculate fluid from the Skene's gland that Snowy posted about.

A common spot to cause ejaculation is your g-spot. Which is what it sounds like your partner hit. That also works for me. Some women have their g-spot slightly rotated or deeper or shallower than expected, so it isn't hit when someone's intentionally attempting to cause ejaculation.

Some women ejaculate from anal sex. I've also heard that anal fisting has nearly a 90%+ success rate of causing ejaculation.

I know from my own experience that being spanked extreme hard on my ass or vagina will cause me to ejaculate, as will too much external vibration.

One of my exes had a girlfriend that would ejaculate if he spit in her mouth or degraded her in other similar ways.

It's just about knowing your squirting stimulus.

Also, in case you couldn't tell from the list above, you don't have to orgasm to ejaculate.

 

This might be a bit flippant for this thread but my first thought on reading the the thread title was John Belushi on Saturday Night Live in a Weekend Update sketch. The one where he talks about how the female orgasm is a myth and he has had dozens of volunteers for his research. Of course Jane Curtin's response is something along the lines of "Have you ever thought it might be you buddy?"

 

Thanks everyone for your help and knowledge on the subject. Knowing that it's normal makes it ALOT easier for me accept it. Also the fact that it makes sex/lovemaking much more pleasurable helps too! (I swear I can't seem to stay away from my husband now. I'm like a kid with a new toy... Lol!).
Thanks

 

This is so good

 

I feel that I should add the standard disclaimer that I heard from a professional dominatrix on another forum: during anal fisting, make sure you're in up to the wrist as the recipient approaches orgasm because the anal sphincter can clench down hard enough to break bones in the hand.

 

Call me vanilla ice cream, but I think I'll forgo the waterworks to avoid having a fist in my ass.

 

Yeah, forgot that. I've had some close calls on fingers.