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QOTD #54: Have you ever shared this community?

Discussion in 'General Discussions' started by genuinemommy, Feb 16, 2016.

  1. genuinemommy

    genuinemommy Moderator Staff Member

    Have you ever shared this community? The TFP, that is. Have you ever told someone about this place and invited them to be a part of it? Why/ Why not?

    I recently shared the existence of this place with a prolific poster on a mommy-forum that I frequent. No idea if they'll come here or not.
    I have shared it before with friends, and they saw it as a bizarre place for me to be a part of. Usually it gives people a completely different perspective on me. So I don't share it often. And I'm pretty picky about who I tell. But I do share. I am invariably disappointed when they decide not to be a part of things here. Probably because I feel I'm sharing something intensely personal by telling them about this space.

    What about you?
     
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  2. Chris Noyb

    Chris Noyb Get in, buckle up, hang on, & be quiet.

    Location:
    Large City, TX
    No.

    I've posted way too much personal info here. While I know a few people who might enjoy TFP for it's open discussions and the overall maturity shown by members here, I don't know what they might say to whom re my posts here. That might sound a bit paranoid, but I'm also looking out for my wife's privacy because she's in a position where some things could bite her a lot harder than they'd bite me.

    And I generally try to keep my internet forum involvements separated, regardless of my content.
     
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  3. Borla

    Borla Moderator Staff Member

    I feel very similar to the few people I've invited.


    @PlaysWithPixels is someone that invited that drops by occasionally. There is one other person I invited who signed up but only posted once or twice IIRC.

    Small communities with a mature (i.e. long time as members) user base are often hard to join as a newbie.
     
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  4. CinnamonGirl

    CinnamonGirl The Cheat is GROUNDED!

    For the most part, no. It's my little corner to not worry about offending anyone or being judged. It also seems like the people I know who would get into forum posting I wouldn't necessarily want to share this space with; and the people I wouldn't mind sharing this space with aren't generally into forums. Kinda weird how that happened.

    I did share the forum with @ZombieSquirrel a few years back. She wanted to know about some dude I met here ;) I also put up stickers a few times, both here and in Atlanta.
     
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  5. Borla

    Borla Moderator Staff Member

    Could you uninvite her please?


    Thank you.




    :p
     
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  6. genuinemommy

    genuinemommy Moderator Staff Member

    Hey, I know you secretly like having her around to pick on you!
     
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  7. I asked you about it saying i was bored at work and needed something more than Facebook...I secretly wanted to stalk some weirdo that was hitting on you.

    I know that was at least 5.5 years ago, because I remember asking when I was in Ohio. I stuck around because you fuckers need me. Especially that @borla freak.

    I don't think I've told anyone about it...
     
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  8. Borla

    Borla Moderator Staff Member

    Don't let her find out. Her head will swell.
     
  9. It won't ever be as large as yours though....
     
  10. CinnamonGirl

    CinnamonGirl The Cheat is GROUNDED!


    haha, yes. I remember now.

    ***

    For what it's worth, I stumbled onto the forum because of my ex. Who also introduced another Ohio lady that we're friends with. I don't think he comes around much anymore, though, if at all.
     
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  11. Borla

    Borla Moderator Staff Member

    Weren't you the one saying to stop bringing up my manhood?
     
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  12. Charlatan

    Charlatan sous les pavés, la plage

    Location:
    Temasek
    When TFP started, it was a lot more anonymous and I shared a lot more personal thoughts and things that I've done than I would share with most of my face-to-face friends. The Internet as a whole was a lot more anonymous.

    These days, I don't share the TFP in part because of what has been associated with my user name elsewhere in this board (and previous incarnations of the board that still exist), but also because this is just a different set of friends.
     
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  13. arkana

    arkana Very Tilted

    Location:
    canada
    Without me, there is no Baraka_Guru.
     
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  14. Borla

    Borla Moderator Staff Member

    So it's YOUR fault? :mad:
     
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  15. Charlatan

    Charlatan sous les pavés, la plage

    Location:
    Temasek
    Are we paying you royalties?
     
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  16. Japchae

    Japchae Very Tilted

    No. I shared it with my husband for a short while. It didn't go well.
    This is a place where I have been able to be a little more open in the past than I had been. I came here because I needed advice on things I couldn't talk to my face-to-face friends about. I'm not as open as I used to be, which I'm learning is a good thing, given some of today's issues. But, I also don't really want to share some of the friends I have chosen here with some of the idiots I associate with elsewhere. This place is kinda my safe haven.
     
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  17. snowy

    snowy so kawaii Staff Member

    Yes, but they didn't last. It's okay, though.

    If people didn't mention this forum, I wouldn't be here. I'm here because an ex introduced me many years ago.
     
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  18. snowy

    snowy so kawaii Staff Member

    Hot.
     
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  19. fflowley

    fflowley Don't just do something, stand there!

    I think my wife and other friends would be shocked that I'm on here.
    Not by the content but because I'm very introverted, and don't use Facebook/Twitter etc. and generally keep to myself.
    There are a couple of people I would like to invite but I see worlds colliding........
     
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  20. redravin

    redravin Cynical Optimist Donor

    Location:
    North
    Back in the day I turned some friends on to TFP.
    My friend who I hunt vinyl with used to come on the music forum a lot.
     
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