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Public sex

Discussion in 'Tilted Life and Sexuality' started by J-Ring, Apr 17, 2012.

  1. J-Ring New Member

    I figured before I discuss this I'd just rant about this couple who decided it would be ok for them to have sex at a house party. Of course they were in a seperaye room but it's not like the owner permitted it and who are you to fuck at somebody elses house when you won't at your own because you still live under your parents roof? All kinds of wrong right there. But since that was sort of public I guess I wanna discuss that.
    Do you guys like doing it in public or public places? Have you ever done so? What do you like about it? And I guess have you ever heard or seen others doing it, and have you ever been heard or seen doing it?
    To be honest I've only ever been caught jerking off. I like public sex mostly because it's got this sense of danger to it.
     
  2. ASU2003

    ASU2003 Very Tilted

    Location:
    Where ever I roam
    I would have no problems catching a couple having sex at my house or anywhere else. Good for them for getting it on. They should have been more covert about it though.
     
  3. CinnamonGirl

    CinnamonGirl The Cheat is GROUNDED!

    An ex of mine had a thing for sex in public places, and for the most part, I went along with it. We never got caught, exactly, but the one time in the park, I'm sure it was pretty obvious what was going on.

    It hasn't come up with anyone since him. It was a bit of a thrill, but not enough that I'm panting to do it again.
     
  4. rogue49

    rogue49 Tech Kung Fu Artist Staff Member

    Location:
    Baltimore/DC
    Well, I've never done it "out there" public.
    But cars. check. (even while driving...hmm)
    Work. check
    Bars. check.
    A friend's house? Nah, too weird.
    My parents house not in my room. Yep.

    So, basically I guess my limit, so far, is not doing it in front of people.
    But where I could "get caught", no problem.
     
  5. Strange Famous

    Strange Famous it depends on who is looking...

    Location:
    Ipswich, UK
    When I was immature (or more immature than I am now) and a young guy, I used to have this fantasy of having it off with a really beautiful girl in the middle of like a tennis court sized stadium with all my mates and acquaintances watching and chanting my name in time to my strokes.

    I doubt I would have liked it really, but the idea used to appeal to me.

    Ive never had a screw in a car (i'm a big guy and it'd be too cramped) but I once fingered a girl on a coach.
    Ive never had a screw at my work.
    I got a handjob in a nightclub once
    Yeah at a friends house, but in a room where I was staying, not like in front of the man or anything.
    My parents house, not in my room - yeah, but when my whole family was on holiday so the whole house was my house then, had it over the kitchen table, didnt I?

    Also once in the woods at night (in winter)... that was nice, but nice cos of how it went rather than the location.

    On the whole I find it nicer to be in my own home/room in my comfort zone so I can take my time and enjoy the experience. The dont think I'd like people watching me really, and the idea of getting caught would be more worrying to me than exciting. I'd do it in public potentially if the only option was not at all, but if I could choose between in a room with just the two of us or public, I'd take the room every time.
     
  6. snowy

    snowy so kawaii Staff Member

    In college, it was kind of a fact of life as one ex and I had roommates who never left the room, so we would try and seek out other places to do it. It wasn't necessarily any place where we were out where everyone could see, though. Now, however, it doesn't do it for me.
     
  7. AlterMoose

    AlterMoose Slightly Tilted

    Location:
    Pangaea
    Did it in a restroom that was technically public, though it was in an out-of-the-way tunnel in them middle of the night. Chances were next to zero that we'd get caught, but it provided the illusion of risk. In a field, with line of sight to the main road; the rock in my back was uncomfortable. And at a new year's party. It was Y2K; the world was ending, so what the hell. The host did walk in on us; he was most gracious about it. These days, not so much thrill.
     
  8. ottopilot

    ottopilot New Member

    Location:
    Waddy Peytona
    Pulled off to the shoulder on I-65 South outside of Nashville in a full-stopped traffic jam in the back of the Cherokee.
     
  9. Zen

    Zen Very Tilted

    Location:
    London
    I was about 18. It was beyond midnight. My girlfriend and I had been trespassing on some uncultivated land 'this' side of a very deep and wide ditch ... almost a small river ... which separated the royal Mid-Surrey Golf Club from the towpath of the River Thames. There were many high grasses and trees flanking the Gold Club, and we had got into a habit of visiting there with food and matches. We'd make a fire and cook all kinds of great food. My GOD did we get sooty and smoky. Between three trees, we fixed a massive polythene sheet and sat under this roof when it rained ... and the fire was just inside. Dark, warm, 'dirty' with too much soil and ash to feel comfortable in clothes.

    One evening, we forgot to get dressed after a not-so-innocent smooching session ... we'd accidentally rolled off the blanket and on to the damp soil and mud. Our clothes might have got spoilt. "Commando" and then some ... we were blackened and streaked all over. It was strange to see each other like this. We were 'supposed' to be either clothed or 'half nekkid for smooching'. To glance down and see my pink nipples pouting through the gray/brown drying mud, to glance up and see her blatantly not staring at me, though hers pressed through the dank wetness of our shared nature as the fire dried us ... Ohhh!

    In one thought, our hands snapped out to each other, grasping, cracking the dry-baked clay from our chests, as if releasing well-cooked stolen hedgehogs. We dragged each other to our feet because we had heard the hissing of the sprinkler system on the short grass around the 17th hole ... it was soaking round the hole, drenching, and we could not resist, we ran and threw ourselves on the alertening abrasiveness of the short grass. Yes, we made love and contrary to the Law of Bathos the sky was clear and the stars were bright, for there were no clouds and there was no rain but we were soaked and pounded as the moving fountain approached, owned us, receded, returned and owned us again.

    It had cleaned us beyond bathing, for it went in through us as we went in and through each other. And it cleansed us beyond baptism, for there was no sense or need of Witness beyond ourselves and the silent stars.
     
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  10. dodger01

    dodger01 Getting Tilted

    I guess a big issue is "Public Sex" or "Outdoor Sex", big difference.... Public sex can be very erotic what with the chance of getting caught. Sex outdoors is completely different.....
     
  11. J-Ring New Member

    Yeah by public sex I simply mean that there is a very real chance you may be caught, seen or heard. To be honest I have voyeuristic fantasies and would not mind being watched. I fuck with my blinds open for the passerby outdoors to see. They could only be so lucky to pass by at the right moment.
     
  12. evaderum

    evaderum Getting Tilted

    Location:
    California
    When I was in sixth grade we had a class trip to disneyland. On the way back, riding on the bus, we passed by a park on the side of the freeway, where there was a couple having sex, most of the bus saw it and kinda laughed. Except for a few people who missed it and kinda went huh, what's going on, and got all confused.
     
  13. FelixP

    FelixP New Member

    Public sex is great, mostly because of the thrill factor already mentioned above. Even fooling around on the beach can be fun.
     
  14. Levite

    Levite Levitical Yet Funky

    Location:
    The Windy City
    My first serious GF, when I was in high school, had a bit of a danger-loving streak. She was a year older than me, and not from America, so she had a bit more willingness to just put new ideas into the mix and tell me what to do, which I was really fine with. She introduced me to B&D, role playing, rough sex, anal sex, and also to public sex. Mostly, I admit, it wasn't all that public: lookouts on Mulholland Drive (which overlooks LA in the hills), little-used beaches up north of Malibu, a nature preserve off Topanga Canyon-- places that were technically public, but where it was very unlikely anyone would spot us. But there were a couple of other instances, such as the roof of the Griffith Park Observatory, or the back yards of some mansions in the Hollywood hills, where we were technically breaking and entering, and could've been in a mess of trouble if caught. We had anal sex in the balcony (back when there was still a balcony) at the Chinese Theater in Hollywood-- minor miracle we weren't caught. The bathroom of a club in West Hollywood, where it was utterly unnoticed, given that more people seemed to be using the bathrooms to hook up than for actual bodily functions-- at least we used a stall. We passed a couple of dudes having a snog with mutual j/o at the sink on our way out. I once quietly fingered her to several orgasms at Pink's Hot Dogs, and she returned the favor by bringing me off with her foot under the tablecloth of a rather nice little restaurant in Mid-Wilshire.

    The only time we were seriously caught was when we tried doing it at a park in the Beverly-Fairfax area. We figured it'd be relatively safe since it was pretty late at night, but the cops were patrolling, and we got caught mid-foreplay, mostly naked, by an older policeman. Fortunately, he seemed to be more amused than anything else, and lectured us about keeping it in private and being responsible while I scrambled to get my pants up, and she set herself in order much less hastily. She took it entirely in stride, and found it amusing. I blushed to beat the band, and the whole drive back to her place, she kept cracking up and singing "He could see your willy, he could see your willy!" while I turned red again.
     
  15. martian

    martian Server Monkey Staff Member

    Location:
    Mars
    On this subject, I will say only this: sex in the back seat of a 95 Toyota Camry is incredibly uncomfortable. Sex in the back seat of a 92 Chevrolet Beretta is downright impossible.
     
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  16. CinnamonGirl

    CinnamonGirl The Cheat is GROUNDED!

    False. You just have to be a little creative, and very flexible. :)
     
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  17. Speed_Gibson

    Speed_Gibson Hacking the Gibson

    Location:
    Wolf 359
    Reminds of that joke or the variations thereof they throw out there constantly in Mallrats: "He wanted sex in an uncomfortable place." "The back seat of a volkswagon?"
     
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  18. curiousbear

    curiousbear Terse & Bizarre

    If there is a viewer who would just watch and not act on it, don't judge you, wont take a picture/video and post somewhere... Just watch or even play along with himself/herself/themselves... Yes I would do it too
    I cant keep blinds open while at it because what if the passerby is a kid? Or a young teenager? Or someone like your mother-in-law? So the fear wouldn't let me do it
     
  19. Borla

    Borla Moderator Staff Member

    I wouldn't say that either of us have a specific thing for public sex, but as I think of various experiences we have had our share of relatively public encounters for sure. If anything she might lean towards it a bit more than me, though she wants it to be reasonably safe from being directly caught and confronted.

    In the woods at a state park a couple of times.
    On the beach at sunset. We thought we were alone, but after we were done we realized there was an older gentleman sitting on the beach access above where we were. As we were walking back to our condo we passed him (my wife was red-faced that he had been sitting 50-60 yards behind us and we didn't know it). I said "it's a nice evening, isn't it?" He looked at me and said "apparently it is a VERY nice evening". :D
    A BJ in the back row of a movie theater (matinee, so not many other people around).
    Road head on several occasions, at least a couple times other drivers noticed.
    In a backyard pool of a friend's house in the middle of the day (they weren't home, we were housesitting) when at least 3-4 other homes had a view.
    On our back patio at night, several neighbors have a view, though it was completely dark.
    In an automatic car wash with another car behind us (had to pull over and finish, the car wash wasn't long enough).
    On an old country road a handful of times, once or twice bent over the car, a couple other times in my Trans Am with the t-tops off and the stars shining bright above.


    Several months ago she tried to convince me to have sex with her in a Bass Pro Shop changing room when I was shopping for deer season, but I turned her down because I'm getting old enough to care if I'm arrested for public indecency.............though my buddy and his wife thought it was hilarious when we told them and I said it was a perfect storm of everything a man could love in one place at the same time.........
     
  20. Remixer

    Remixer Middle Eastern Doofus

    Location:
    Frankfurt, Germany
    Never done public sex, but I gotta admit, the thought has always excited me. Not doing it in front of anybody (I'm not an exhibitionist), but simply the risk of getting caught.

    I really want her to give me a blowjob while sitting in a Fine Dining establishment. Or in a back corner of a movie theater.

    Once on a (relatively long) train ride late at night to a friend's place, she was sitting next to me and I put my hand down the front of her pants and rubbed her mons pubis and her lips increasingly faster and with more pressure until she came. That's as far as my related experience goes.
     
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