New head technique....Hmmmm

My wife of 22 years recently started giving great head. In the past it was OK but not great. The great head is great but I began to wonder why it suddenly got great. Definitely a different technique going on. Do women spontaneously get better at giving head or did someone give her instruction?

 

I was going to suggest asking or thanking her new boyfriend.

 

About the only thing she watches on the internet is Ellen so I don't see her getting a lot of dick sucking instruction there. I was kinda wondering about her new BF.

 

If anyone is interested in locating it (accessible through the Archive thread in this version, IIRC)...

In the previous version of TFP there is a long thread dedicated to blowjob techniques.

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It's possible that your wife just happened to decide to try a different technique. Maybe she discussed with a close friend or relative. If you think she wouldn't have viewed porn, it possible she could've found advice regarding giving oral sex to guy on a mainstream website. For example a lot of respected medical websites don't shy away from addressing sexual issues and offering instructions (some more clinically than others).

 

It might not be the only one, but a quick check and I found this thread
Calling all men - Perfect Blow job?


Edit: which also leads to this other thread, which is probably the right one
The Ultimate Blow Job Guide

 

Wow. That old thread brings back a lot of names from the past. So many people have moved on.

 

I've heard other guys say that very thing - "The worst BJ I ever had was still great" and I think often it's just an attempt to keep some kind of door open. "I'm not very good at it ..." "Well, that's okay, the worst I ever had was still great!" What's a partner to say to that?

The worst blowjobs I've had were ... dayum ... just not good at all, and not at all likely to make me orgasm. Some were too loose, too tight, too slow, too fast, too jackhammer-like, too dainty ... etc.

I think it's just like for a woman receiving really bad cunnilingus - bad fellatio can be the anti-sex that you can't wait to have end. With good technique, however, even though you might want it to last forever (might? okay, definitely), the skill pretty much keeps that from happening.

My wife's clit is extremely sensitive - and it's very easy for that to make oral sex bad for her. Techniques that work with most women make her brain explode, and not in the great sense. More like in the jolt-from-electrodes sense. So, I've learned to back off with my tongue and dance around her clit, grazing it lightly from time to time, spending more energy on her labia, and on stroking her g-spot with my fingers. Doesn't seem to be the typical formula, but once we got it sorted out, it works great for her. Sadly, no other guys, and only one other woman had really every tried to figure out exactly what worked for her. Would it work for other women? Dunno - can't say I've had an opportunity to test it with anyone else.