Kissing your partner just after giving or receiving oral sex

OK folks, I'll start the thread.

How do you feel about kissing your partner/being kissed by your partner just after oral sex?

Ladies, do you mind?
--Maybe as long as his (or her) face isn't covered in your juices.
--Maybe you don't mind, or even like it, when their face is covered in your juices.

If you perform felatio, does it bother you if they turn their head away to avoid your kiss, or otherwise send a clear "No thanks!" message? Why, or why not?


Gentlemen, do you mind?
--Maybe as long as the BJ didn't include you ejaculating.
--Maybe you don't mind knowing that just a few seconds earlier your semen was in their mouth.

When you perform cunnilingus, does it bother you if they turn away to avoid your kiss, or otherwise send a clear "No thanks!" message? Why, or why not?


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I have no problem kissing my wife after she gives me a BJ. I find it quite intimate and a turn-on.

She has no problem with me kissing her after I go down on her (and I have a Balbo beard which makes thing even messier). She's usually enthusiastic.

 

Hmmm.....maybe time for another thread, but not in the open forum.

 

You know come to think of it, I don't think I've tried to kiss him after a BJ. And, I thought I've covered everything. Geez , I got to step up my game!

 

Nice double entendre .

 

It's never been something that bothers me. If it bothers her, she hasn't indicated it. Kissing during/after any sexytime is pretty standard for us.

 

Sex isn't for the squeamish. ... I'll take my chances, not something I ever considered.

 

Well she swallows so not much is left after I cum. it doesn't bother either of us, kissing after oral sex. Hell, I have kissed her after she was blowing another guy (not to completion).

 

That reminds me of a woman I worked with. She was married and had two kids. She enjoyed sex, but complained that semen was too messy. She also had her husband wear boxer briefs or briefs because she didn't like to see his junk jiggling in boxers.

Note--You would not believe some of the things that the women would discuss in front of me. Just call me harmless eunich.

 

I don't care if it's clean or messy but I don't want to be with a partner that can't be messy or handle messy on occasion.

People shouldn't be super squeamish about their own sex fluids, especially with long term partners.

Nobody wants to fuck a prude that keeps a moist towelette on their nightstand.

"Let me do what I want" is the core turn-on.

 

Rogue49,

you are prudish.


Snowballing and creampie eating definately take the whole sex fluids thing to a different level.

 

I should've included a smileythingy after my "prudish" comment .

Yes, nearly everybody has their limits, and there's nothing wrong with limits. To the extinct that one partner doesn't have "But look at what I do for you!" feelings. Which ties into the open communication that should exist between partners.

Some sexual practices, or even unfulfilled desires, are too much for some people to admit to or discuss. Some are fantasies that folks don't actually want to experience.

Snowballing, in the sense of dripping saliva & cum into someones mouth, doesn't appeal to me at all. Way too yucky.

For me, a woman sharing her partner's cum with him in a kiss after a BJ is a total turn-on, as is creampie eating, a guy eating her out after cumming inside of her vagina (not anal, again way too yucky). A woman getting a guy to cum in his own mouth is hot, but not for me personally simply because of the physical contortion required.

 

I've spent most of my life trying to figure out ways to get rid of my ejaculate, I don't want it back

 

To quote my answer to this question:

 

ROFLMAO. omg. i laughed and laughed and laughed at this, and so completely agree.

 

I care not either way.

Totally read the rest of this envisioning you with a sideways hat.