Internet 3.0 sucks for the weekend exhibitionist

Not sure if its internet 2.0 or 3.0 now, much like gen x vrs gen y is a rather vague and meaningless thing, but there is a very different feel to the web now than when it was new and shiny some 20 years ago.

Forums are dying, like this one, replaced by facebook groups which you need to find to join, or places like reddit which are great for fast info but horrible for real discussion.

My wife and I are exhibitionists as well as swingers, its a spice thing for us, and been a sort of "side kink" now for about 6 years or so.

But the places to do it, are also dying. Monitization has taken over to the point where you basically *have* to be paid, you can't just give it away anymore. Being we don't have the desire to give our real names and ID's to a porn site, things are very limited. We used to do shows for 500+ at a time, which was a turn on for her (for about every 10 people watching, 1 will chat, and she likes the chatting too). The last real free site was Camfuze and it was recently bought by a studio style cam site and is dead in all but name.

Before someone says Chaturbate, they are ideal, on paper, but if you are popular they will ban you on a bogus "you need to verify your age" thing to force you over to the paid side. Its a business and I get why they think they need to do it, but still sucks.

When we started there were multiple cam sites with a lot of options, now, its either very low/no people or all about the $.

It just seems sort of ironic, the internet is full of "free" sex shows, hell you could watch some of ours that were illicitly recorded and are on some of the sites, (no links ), but if you just want a place to give it away for free, no dice.

 

Probably not your cup of kink err tea but have you tried FetLife? I used to belong there as free member then later as I spent more time there as a paying member and it was a neat place to meet pervy people with similar interests.

Am I getting that you two are not interested in real life groups with such activities, or am i totally misreading that? I've never used any of the sites you've listed, but hopefully others that have will be able to help you!

 

We are totally into that, but we can't get out that often, so while we do sex parties and the like, we can do exhibitionism online at any time. Too bad fetlife doesn't have a cam room.

 

Oh that makes sense, and totally understand the preference for online interaction in this regard. Had no idea about fet does and does not have any more as it has been some time since being there. Though I may go back at some point.

I didn't think about that, but where you see a niche and need... Can you and your lady make that sort of place? There are many adult hosting sites, though I've not the foggiest how to to go about that.