Fucking or love-making?

Really, which do you prefer? Do you much prefer a good hard fuck or some sensual love making? Are they the same thing to you perhaps? Hell, perhaps love-making does not even truly exist, especially in the case of those who do not have loving relationships with each other quite obviously.

Maybe I should have simply asked what you prefer between some hardcore, primal fuckage or some slower, softer yet altogether just as passionate sex.

I for one desire both so how about you?

 

They are not the same in my mind, I prefer sensual love making... I like the deep connection you can have with someone... although some good ole fucking sometimes the right medicine as well, which I usually prefer when I am trying to "punish" someone sexually. But historically, I am a passionate love maker.

 

As you say, it depends on the mood. Sometimes it's so nice to pace yourself slowly and truly enjoy your partner's body, trying to draw out the pleasure and raise her excitement as high as you can, savouring the journey. Other times you just want to race to completion with absolute abandon, pounding away as hard and fast as you can with an urgent need for release. Both are fun, and depend on the mood and circumstances.

 

Mostly slow and relaxed, but I like some fucking thrown in every now and then to keep it hawt.

 

Like Snowy said, it depends on our moods. Sometimes the one, sometimes the other. Both have their place.

 

I'll take the hot animal fucking first. That love shit can happen afterward in the sweaty, panting glow.

 

What I take from this thread is that women have different moods and that men just want to get laid. They're pretty much willing to do either provided that it ends up with penis-in-vagina.

 

/pulls up rocking chair

//takes a swig of scotch

Jazz, boy, if you only aimin' for the vaginny, you ain't fuckin' all you kin fuck...

 

Like Plan9, I'm a lot into the rough, hard sex. She is too, which makes it easy.

Maybe it's because we're both pretty young (23 and 21 respectively)... I do think that as we get older we'll start to get into slower and more passionate sex.

 

It's tough being romantic when you're elbow deep.

 

Slower yes, passionate is the question? After 30 some years it's still the same. haha! Unless I request something different.

 

Why did "everything fair has been made foul, and everything foul made fair" remind me of Shakespeare's Macbeth?

*drops the Shakespeare course and goes back to doing manly things à la Tim Taylor*


View: http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cuJD1-1e-i4

 

lol Love it!!!!!!!

 

I think they are both the same. I don't understand why there has to be one or the other.

 

Well, I got to thinking about it and I think it comes down to the fact that often the better relationship you have with the person, the better sex you have. Love implies a certain level of familiarity, comfort. Communication issues, knowing the person's body, etc. Getting what you want out of sex is easier if you're comfortable with the person, right? Not that I haven't had some pretty spectacular one night romps with perfect strangers, but the best sex I've had has always been with a woman I've done the dance with more than a few times. This is common sense bullshit, why post it, etc. Gotcha.

Anyway, my point here is that how much love is really involved in sex? I mean, is pounding my girlfriend into the mattress and symbol of love? How do I blow a load into her and make it a Hallmark moment? I can't really say I've had lovey-dovey sex before, honestly. I don't mind the cuddly afterglow activities, but it's hard for me to understand the saxophones and candlelight routine in movies. I see the physical act as separate from the relationship. I don't know if that makes sense. Even though I was deeply in love with my ex-wife and the last couple serious girlfriends... the fucking action was often just as good as the third round with some girl I just met. Fucking is like dancing and sometimes dancing is, well, just dancing.

TL;DR: I feel that loving someone is a less important factor in sex than most people think.

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Other equation:

I _A/B_ you because I _B/A_ you.

A. Fuck
B. Love

 

Mostly I like to take my time

You can have an incredible screw with someone you neither love or even like if you lust after them, but if you feel in love with a girl it is a different feeling

 

I've never really experienced the saxophone and candles type of romantic sex, either, and I can't say that I really care to. I have had some really great sex in my life with people I was totally in love with but it has always been fucking. There have been really intense episodes during which I feel so close to that person that I am being virtually absorbed by them with penetrating eye contact (among other things being penetrated, heh heh) and profound professions of love, but still it is fucking. I like fucking. And now I need to stop talking about fucking.