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Cavities & Kids

Discussion in 'General Discussions' started by genuinemommy, Mar 7, 2012.

  1. genuinemommy

    genuinemommy Moderator Staff Member

    My parents scheduled me regular dentist visits and fluoride treatments as a kid. Oh, and they encouraged me to brush. Often. I still run a toothbrush across my teeth 2- 4 times a day. Result? This morning I had yet another successful trip to the dentist. After a cleaning, he thanked me for coming to brighten his morning, told me I have beautiful teeth, complimented my smile, and sent me on my way with a shiny new toothbrush. I'm in my late 20s. I've never had a cavity.

    I have friends in their mid-40s with similar stories. I also have a friend in their mid-30s who is considering dentures because her teeth are so bad.

    So, there are people in this world who have amazing teeth like me - thanks in part to genetics but also because of responsible parents who instilled in me a love of dental hygiene. Then there are the parents and children in the article below (snippets here, see full article here: http://www.nytimes.com/2012/03/06/health/rise-in-preschool-cavities-prompts-anesthesia-use.html ).



    How important is dental hygiene to you?
    Has it always been this important?
    Do you have fond memories of the dentist as a child?
    If you're a parent, has your child required major dental work?

    The article blames the trend on lax parenting, but I'm curious how the American diet has changed overall in the past couple of decades. Does high fructose corn syrup encourage carie formation more than other sugars?
    How important is dental hygiene to you?
    Very important. I want to keep my teeth as long as possible.
    Has it always been this important?
    I haven't always been responsible about my teeth. After I had my wisdom teeth taken out, I didn't have decent dental insurance and I figured the professional cleanings and x-rays that come along with a dentist were out of my price range. I would brush my teeth more frequently and once a month I would try my hardest to get that super clean dentist-visit feeling on my own. So, 6 months ago I went to the dentist after a 4 year absence. When I was there, the hygienist said my mouth was in-line with what she expected from a typical 6-month cleaning. No cavities, no problems, just a little plaque build-up in the difficult-to-brush places. Mission successful!
    Do you have fond memories of the dentist as a child?
    Yeah, there were always fun posters to look out, interesting new flavors of toothpaste to try, and a prize bin filled with little toys like bouncy balls and jacks that I got to take home if I was good.
    If you're a parent, has your child required major dental work?

    I'm not a parent, but I am an aunt. My sister tries to get her kids to care about their teeth, and has varying levels of success. One of her kids has never had a cavity, others have lots. But none of them have needed work that's more intense than a filling. They're definitely low-income and don't have dental insurance, so I have no idea how they would afford major dental care if it's needed. That in itself is excellent motivation for my sister to get her kids to brush.
     
  2. fflowley

    fflowley Don't just do something, stand there!

    I saw that article, and I was just shaking my head.
    How do you NOT brush your kids teeth?
    My childhood dentist memories are definitely not fond ones. He was an older man, old fashioned office, not really hip to using anaesthesia, even in kids. It was pretty unpleasant.
    Our kids have started regular dental care. So far so good. We don't give sugary snacks, limit eating to meals and 2 discreet snacks a day, and they brush twice a day under our direct supervision.
     
  3. snowy

    snowy so kawaii Staff Member

    I have always had problems with my teeth. It really doesn't matter what I do--I'm almost guaranteed to have cavities. I had regular dentist visits as a kid, and regular dental hygiene is important to me. I didn't eat a ton of sugar as a kid, and still had cavities starting when I was 7-8 in baby teeth. I had sealants put on my teeth to help, but I still got cavities. The sealants would wear off or pop off, and voila, cavities. I also had gum issues, and had to use a special toothbrush and a gum stimulator to help with those problems.

    As a result, no, I do not have fond memories of going to the dentist as a kid. I had a specialty pediatric dentist when I was smaller (I had an accident that involved my teeth when I was five) and I liked him a lot. Whenever he had to fix my teeth, he put me on laughing gas and asked if I was "dancing with the Care Bears yet." When I saw the Care Bears, he knew it was safe to proceed. As a teen, I had a great dentist who I really enjoyed--he has a fantastic sense of humor and if I ever move back to that city, I will go back to his practice.

    I went without going to the dentist for six years due to not having insurance or money to pay dentist bills. I took care of my teeth during that time, but still had four small cavities and one larger cavity under a filling that required a root canal (the dentist was impressed that that was all there was, given how many existing fillings I have). I am waiting for my insurance to straighten itself out so I can get the four cavities filled and get a crown put on my root canal. My new dentist is my husband's childhood dentist, and he is really awesome. I appreciate how flexible the office has been--getting a root canal is expensive.

    One thing I wish people would realize about going to the dentist is that any good dentist will work up a treatment plan for you, and a good dentist will understand your need to prioritize things based on your insurance and ability to pay.

    I think the juice issue is a big one, but it isn't just juice--milk has sugar too, y'know. I see kids leave my school and the first thing in their hands is a sippy cup of juice. Yuck. I was never allowed to have juice outside of meals/snacks, and I wasn't allowed to have soda until I was much older. All of the kids I babysit brush their teeth. I know because I have to help the younger ones (2+).
     
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  4. ASU2003

    ASU2003 Very Tilted

    Location:
    Where ever I roam
    I am worried that there might be some fraud going on. Call me paranoid, but, there is a clear financial motive for over-treating teeth and making up cavities that might not exist.
     
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  5. Daniel_

    Daniel_ The devil made me do it...

    My mum had very poor teeth growing up, partly due to a year long stay in hospital when she was 12 - at the time, the standard thing to bring a sick kid was sugary drinks.

    My dad is a dentist.

    These two things led to me having very good dental hygiene as a kid, and regularly visiting the dentist. I will be 42 soon, and so far have never had a cavity or a filling.
     
  6. ralphie250

    ralphie250 Fully Erect

    Location:
    At work..
    when i was a kid, i remember brushing my teeth twice a day. I have dentures on the top and am working on the bottom plate. I ended up with dentures when my gums started receding from my teeth leaving a big gap and i became self consious.
    my daughter is 4. My wife and she brush her teeth 2 to 3 times a day and she went to the dentist last week and she had 2 cavities.
     
  7. cynthetiq

    cynthetiq Administrator Staff Member Donor

    Location:
    New York City
    As a kid I brushed twice a day. As an adult I brush at least once a day and maybe I'll remember to brush before bed if I had lots of crap during the day.

    I used to scrap my teeth with a metal pick every day for most of my 20s and 30s. One of these OraPik Interdental Pick and Mirror

    I now use those nylon things DenTek Comfort Clean Floss Picks.

    I visit the dentist twice a year for cleanings. I usually get in and out fast because the assistant doesn't have much scaling to do to clean my teeth since I remove almost all plaque build up on my own. There are a few teeth in the rear that I'm not so good at reaching.

    As a kid, I had a good amount of cavities. I used to get into a lot of trouble going to the dentist and coming out with cavities. First, it was not acceptable that I got them. Second, it wasn't cheap so my parents were pissed off a the extra cost.

    I have had cavities as an adult. Usually it's around spots where I had cavities as a child. I also have had to replace the old fillings with newer ones.
     
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  8. Daniel_

    Daniel_ The devil made me do it...

    Oddly enough, Cyn, at my last dental visit, the hygienist advised that I should floss differently, and I have started using those harp/pick things. I am stunned by how much simpler and more effective they are at getting in between the tooth and the gumline than just using floss. Also the little sharp end (intentionally) serves as a very good tooth pick.
     
  9. snowy

    snowy so kawaii Staff Member

    Speaking of doing things differently, my hygienist recommended that I change my brushing pressure last time I went in. I now only hold my toothbrush with two fingers and my thumb. Apparently, many people brush too hard and their gums begin to recede.
     
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  10. Bear Cub

    Bear Cub Goes down smooth.

    I probably fall into Cyn's category as far as how often. Admittedly, I hadn't been to the dentist in around 7 or 8 years until last week, as a result of moving so often (getting a phone call to confirm your appointment when you live 1100 miles away from your last spot results in a lot of missed appointments). I finally went in due to some wisdom tooth pain and got a cleaning. Amazingly, after all those years, no cavities, just a "you should floss more regularly". Like others here, I floss far more than I used to thanks to discovering Plackers, which I started keeping in my desk at work in case something got stuck.
     
  11. Viscount8

    Viscount8 New Member

    Location:
    Quebec, Canada
    Honestly, I don't remember any specific dentist, when I was growing up. I assume my parents took me for check-ups, but no one stands out. I do remember being terrified of them, at the time. I still have most of my own teeth, though, so I guess I was doing a passable job of taking care of them. I do remember my previous dentist, however. He was a nice enough fellow, but did seem to remind me, far too many times, for my liking, that I had dental insurance, when he suggested that I needed work. I brush, floss and use this pre-brush treatment, at night, and try to use mouth wash, during the day, whenever I can. I, truly, believe that my teeth are in better shape now, than they were years ago. I have two grown sons, who grew up, with regular dental visits, and who have great teeth.
    Addressing genuinegirly's reference to kids needing surgery to repair their teeth, my wife is a first grade teacher, and has reminded some parents, countless times about the sugary snacks, and inapropriate foods they pack in their kids lunch boxes. By that I mean the parents who, actually, provide the kids with lunches. Some of them have to pack their own. I'm off topic a bit, here, but I just need to empahasize that some kids are saddled with some poor excuses for parents. Dental hygiene, or lack thereof is, but one of their problems. With all the empasis, on TV, on white smiles, I think that we're goaded, whether we realize it or not, to try and achieve that.
     
  12. fflowley

    fflowley Don't just do something, stand there!

    Yeah my dentist is constantly after me about this.
    She recommends an electric; I just haven't had time and motivation to go get one.
    I'll try your tip. Maybe just changing my grip will do the trick.
     
  13. SirLance

    SirLance Death Therapist

    When I was a kid, I was given a lot of tetracycline, which totally fucked up my teeth. I am the dentists best friend. I think I put his kid's through college.

    There are things no amount of hygene can overcome, but that is no reason not to practice, and teach, good hygene. We always have, and believe me it pays off big time in the long run, although at times it is a struggle... "I don't want to brush my teeth! Waaaa!"
     
  14. Charlatan

    Charlatan sous les pavés, la plage

    Location:
    Temasek
    While I was blessed with straight teeth, I was also cursed with soft teeth. I've had a few cavities filled in my youth. In fact, some of them have had to be replaced over the past few years. I've also had some chipping and cracking start to happen.

    I should get more check ups and cleanings but I just never remember to make the appointments.
     
  15. SirLance

    SirLance Death Therapist

    I neglected oral hygiene for too long, and I got to have super duper deep clean. More fun than a barrel of formaldehyde. Woo Hoo.

    Please, Charlatan, get a checkup.
     
  16. MSD

    MSD Very Tilted

    Location:
    CT
    I've had three cavities drilled and filled. I last saw the dentist 3 years ago. Now it's mandatory to go for at least a cleaning every 6 months unless you want to more than double the cost of insurance, which will help the lazy morons like me out.
     
  17. Shadowex3

    Shadowex3 Very Tilted

    They screwed up the sealant when I was a kid so I wound up with more or less the whole surface of one or two teeth about to go, but those were literally hanging on by a thread by then so the dentist said yankem in the next week and don't worry about it since the tooth under was spotless. I did nonetheless have one or two "normal" cavities worked on once as a very small child, which was worse than you'd expect given that I wasn't numbed. I don't know why, I don't know HOW, but the sick sonofabitch made sure I felt EVERYTHING and when I (thinking it was a mistake) choked out I could feel it all they didn't do shit.

    Shortly after I also found out I'm violently reactive to SOMETHING in most all toothpaste, leaving my mouth burning oh so minty-painfully and giving me open ulcers wherever the toothpaste spent too much time before I rinsed it out. So I quit using toothpaste for about a decade. Eventually Crest came out with alcohol free mouthwash that didn't give me problems and I'd dip a toothbrush in a cupful of that.

    I lasted a long time that way until I had to have a fair amount of work done at the gumline. The dentist actually said that I'd made the right call since inflammation THAT severe probably would've destroyed my teeth far worse than pasteless brushing and if I hadn't given up completely for a while I probably would have been just fine. Around that time my mother also finally found a toothpaste I don't react to (biotene) that I started using so I'm back to having teeth good enough that my dentist told me even a top flight electric brush wouldn't make any difference.

    I did wind up with one last set of extensive cavities though, before I got my ulcer/reflux/whatever under control I wound up doing a lot of throwing up and no matter how quick you are with the baking soda rinse and brush to neutralize that it still does some serious damage to your teeth. I got spared the lecture when they found out that I'd been shouting my lunch over the white phone almost daily for about half a year.