Bringing together my wife and my first girlfriend

I don't know if this going to be the best thing that's ever happened to me or the worst, but it's happening. First, a little back story on me...

I've been happily married to my wife Audrey for twelve years. We have two kids. Our sex life is great, although due to my wife being disabled we are unable to have sex as often as we'd like. She allows me to see other people and it's worked fine for us. I've slept with coworkers and people I've met online and always had good experiences. My wife enjoys hearing the details afterwards. A couple times we've had threesomes with my wife's coworker. My wife is not bi at all and focuses on me during these encounters. It's been extremely enjoyable.

I dated the same girl, Megan, all through Jr. High and High School. We lost our virginity to each other (awkwardly and uncomfortably; it was on a day bed and I had no idea what I was doing). We separated when we went to college in different states. We stayed in touch for a little while, but I hadn't spoken to her in years until we became Facebook friends a few months ago. Turns out her life took a similar track to mine. She's got two kids and until recently was married for over a decade. She's newly divorced. We chatted online quite a lot and she's still every bit the girl I was so attracted to as a teenager.

So Megan's coming near where I live for a visit with relatives next week. She asked if we could get together so she could meet my family and reminisce about our younger days. I ran it by the wife and she was all for it. These two women have the most dirt on me of any two people on the planet. I could see they were excited to get together and swap stories.

Being a man, I was excited for a different reason, of course. I asked my wife what would happen if Megan was interested in getting physical. She said that could be interesting and she would not be opposed if it's something I wanted. INSTA-BONER. This excites me more than I can describe. I'm not sure if it's going to be awful or amazing, but I have to give it a shot, right?

 

Our lives are very different but here's my story:
I dated a girl, K, from the end of high school through college. We had a great relationship. I feel certain that had we met later in life we would have been happily married. It was just not the right time. Eventually we broke up. There were hard feelings for a few years. We then became friends again.

I have been married to my wife M for almost 14 years. She met K about 10 years ago. They hit it off well. The funny thing is now I would say they are closer friends than K and I are. K lives across the country so it's rare that we see her, and she's married so there's no question or worry about a threat to my marriage.

I just shake my head when I hear those two talking on the phone and I have no idea what about……I probably don't want to know!

 

The priest asks "If you're not Catholic, why did you come to confession to tell me?" and the man responds "because, Father, I'm telling everyone!"

I would just caution you to keep in mind that Megan may not have the same expectations from your meeting that you do.

 

Oh, of course. That goes without saying. I just got the vibe, that's all.

 

Sounds like you have a pretty solid relationship with your wife, @Gorgo.

That and the obvious bit MSD dropped about not automatically assuming you can dunk your bread stick in her dipping sauce just because you've done it before.

 

All very interesting. Please keep us informed with what happens.

 

Why oh why will my wife happily eat a raw oyster but refuses to even try going down on a woman?

 

I'd guess that those things are a bit different for her.