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Being anal about doing anal

Discussion in 'Tilted Life and Sexuality' started by AlwaysCurious, Aug 22, 2016.

  1. AlwaysCurious

    AlwaysCurious Vertical

    Location:
    Great Britain
    Hi all,

    Myself and my bf have been talking about trying out anal for some time.

    As ik that a lot of TFP users are equipped with all kinds of life experiences, I'd like to ask a few questions:

    How did you prepare for it? (in terms of hygiene or relaxing back there?)

    What kind of things did u invest in? (we're currently deciding which lube to get)

    What did u make of anal the first time u tried?

    What do you think of it since then?

    If you have any kind of advice in general about it, that would be great. :)

    Thank you all in advance.
     
  2. rogue49

    rogue49 Tech Kung Fu Artist Staff Member

    Location:
    Baltimore/DC
    There's a thread on this already somewhere...I'm too lazy to look.

    Prep...1st time, slowly work up...start small.
    Hygiene...clean as much as you can, but realize you can't clean all and prepare for it. (it just happens, including smell)
    Invest in lube, lots...maybe small toys to work up...otherwise, you're using digits.
    It's a kink (and to be honest, a way showing the woman is REALLY giving herself to ya and then some)
    For me, it's cool visually in porn...but IRL sensation wise on the dick, my preference is vaginal.
    Just take your time, keep it slow...it's not like porn.
    BUT, I hear if done right, statistically provokes more orgasms, than any other method. (that the science article I read)

    BTW, I'm not an expert.
     
  3. bobby

    bobby More Than Slightly Tilted ! Donor

    As time goes by My Old Lady likes it more and more......what Rogue49 said...slow and lubed xoxoxoo
     
  4. snowy

    snowy so kawaii Staff Member

    I prefer it if I've cleaned myself out and had a shower. It's pretty easy to do: buy a pack of enemas, empty the saline out of one, then refill it with warm water and follow the package directions. If I prep in the late afternoon everything is still good to go in the evening.

    Then, start small and with lots of lube. Fingers first. Your partner should kind of stretch you out.

    When he tries to insert his penis, push out/bear down a bit. This will make the insertion less painful.

    He will have to be ready to be patient and go slow. It takes a while to build up to a real butt-pounding, but it can be worth it.

    And yes, women can come from anal.