What women want
 

I am new so dont blame me if this ? was asked over and over and over again but what do women want?
-physicly
-mently
-emotionly

If a woman wants a guy simply for his physical attributes, or considers that feature most important, she is not worth the time, same goes for males.

I want a guy to be somewhere around the same fitness level as myself. I like to do outdoorsy stuff and I want someone who can keep up to me and maybe even make me keep up to them.

When first meeting someone, the first thing usually noticed is their outward appearance which would include their physique. I have found that even though someone may look great on the outside does not mean they are good inside. Once you get to know someone it doesn't matter how they look on the outside to me. I become more attracted to what is inside.

Whoa, the polling thing is different.

True, but anyone who says that they dont care about looks or that they dont play a large part in deciding if they like someone is a liar.

You know what is really sexy and what woman REALLY want . . . . For men to just plain Be Themselves! :thumbsup: If you're muscled, if you've got some chubbiness, If you're toned, if you're skinny, whatever you look like, whatever your personality is, whatever your hobbies are, whatever your emotional level is . . . . you are some woman's perfect type out there in this big world . . . Whatever a guy has got going on for themselves, they need to just flaunt it and be confident with who they are, Be Yourselves! . . . There is a gal out there who will be attracted to whatever type you are and will think you are the best thing since sliced bread . . . My advice to all guys, be confident with who you are . . . Just be whatever comes natural to yourself, be yourself and you'll get laid/find someone special for yourself too :D :icare:

I have seen ugly/fat guys attract woman like flys while good looking/muscular stand around in awe. It may sound like B.S., but it's true.

I have no doubt I could (learn to [trust me, the resources are out there... there's a whole sub-culture about this]) attract the hottest supermodel in the world. But I would likley have to act unlike myself. Some guys are more than willing to do this. I'm not one of them, it's just being fake to me.

I guess it all comes down to the kind of girl you're trying to attract.

Its possible the guy just has tons of money.

No, money is not needed. The guy only needs to be cocky (in a charming way), and to make her laugh. That's all.

I dont care about looks, and they never played a large part in my deciding if I like somebody

my mother will attest to that

Its all about personality for me....Id date quasimodo if he had the kind of sense of humor and sense of caring that I find EXTREMELY important in a guy

my mother will attest to that too

I dont give a shit what a guy looks like physically...

wanna call me a liar again? :thumbsup:

The ability to spell! J/K :) I tend to go for the quiet typical nerd; tall, thin, geeky, into computers, pasty.........My friends just laugh at me.
The personality of a person has a way of making them more physically appealling to another so even Quasimodo has a chance. Just like having no sense of humor can make a supermodel ugly.

Geeks rule!!!! I'd rather have a geek than just about anything else

Ok, I'm not saying looks don't matter, becuase they do. But it's not all about how many muscles a guy has.
I notice looks, but some of the first things I notice are a guy's hair, the way he holds himself, and his face as a whole.
Personally, I've noticed I drift towards leaner guys (maybe some muscles, and well-toned, but usually not "buff"...and the muscles aren't even that important to me)
But all girls like different things. I know a lot of girls who really like really buff guys, but I'm just not into it. I also know girls who like chubbier guys, shorter guys, taller guys, guys who have long hair, short hair....whatever.
Maybe it's just because there isn't the token "boobs and ass" for guys, but i notice that the guys my girl friends notice are far more diverse than the girls my guy friends notice.
For girls, you're not going to find a quick and easy "99% of girls like this", so it''s kind of silly to even ask "what women want". Women are all different.
And many, while yeah, they do notice looks first, the thing that's going to draw them in and keep them with you the most is going to be your personality. Yeah, a great body is good and fun, but at the end of the day, the guy who you can talk to and have fun with is going to be the one you want to stay with.

they dont want a fat slob

The man who figures out what women wants will rule the world. Since the dawn of time man has pondered over what women want, and to this day it is not known.

Didn't Mel Gibson figure all this out already?

LoL, that was so cheesy that it was funny.

:lol: so true doncalypso , so true

It's because every woman wants something different and unique to themselves . . .
And guys always want different things too . . .

With all these people wanting such divergent things . . . It's amazing people ever even hook up and find each other on this big planet . . . still a mystery to me :hmm:

Give the shallow beasts money and jewelry and it doesn't matter what you look like.

*ignores the beast comment*

Well if it's shallow that you are looking for, then that method will work without a problem. For the 99.99 percent of the rest of us -- ya know, those with brains, and hearts, well - you'd better have a personality behind those gifts otherwise you won't last too long :D

Perhaps, perhaps not. What is a slob? Someone who wanders around a little stinky, doesn't comb their hair, dirty clothes. Why would a woman be interested in that, when they clearly aren't interested in themselves.

Take that slob, and give him a shower and a shave, and wash his clothes, have him take some pride in himself (which translates to confidence), then nothing else matters.
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Doesn't take much for me -- pay attention and get me to laugh.

Physically, I like them to be super-skinny. It's just this thing I have. I dig really thin guys. I'm not the thinnest girl in the world, but I've generally found that a good portion of skinny men are not attracted to thin girls...so this works in my favor ;) As for hair type, etc...I like dark curly hair, dark eyes (brown or blue), and I REALLY have a thing for big noses. Strange, I know.

Mentally I want someone intelligent. Really intelligent. I'm generally attracted to smart engineers, scientists and the like as it compliments my own "liberal arts" intelligence.

Emotionally I want someone who is there for me--someone who is my friend as well as my lover and who will listen when I need them to. I want someone who understands that sometimes I might need him more than others--I certainly have the power to stand on my own two feet but that doesn't mean I want to do it all the time.

i'm assuming you mean, what do i want in a long-term partner?

physically, i have some preferences but the only requirement is basic personal hygiene. if you smell, i'm not going to sleep with you. i prefer guys taller than me, so i tend to like them about 6' but i've dated much shorter. i love red hair but brown or black would be fine (blondes don't do it for me but i wouldn't rule it out). not into huge muscles, but i want someone who is capable of my fitness level. i enjoy outdoor stuff like skiing, rafting, hiking etc. i'd like a partner who can enjoy those things with me. at the same time, don't want a guy who can't sit through a movie without running sprints up and down the aisle.

mentally, he needs to be about my intelligence. too high and he makes me feel stupid, too low and i'm having to explain everything to him. and he needs to have his own opinions. i can be very opinionated and i'm very passionate about certain topics. he doesn't have to agree with me, but i want someone who can debate issues and cares enough to have their own ideas and opinions. "yes, dear" men don't do it for me.

emotionally, he's got to be mature. i am looking for a partner to share my life with, not a child to raise. he should want me but be emotionally stable enough that he doesn't need me. he needs to be capable of sharing his feelings and understanding mine (or at least attempting to).

personality is where it's at for me. i want someone who can make me laugh but knows when to be serious. he needs to share the same basic life goals that i have (standard of living, where we live, desire for a family etc) but have his own hopes in life too (professional, educational, recreational).'

oh, and ideally, he won't want to get married :D

Not strange at all. It's because we make the best lovers. :D

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I want a man who can spell.

Who cares, as long as they're a selfless lover and an awesome person!

Apparently Jon's parents couldn't. Maybe it's genetic.

that's funny Glava... nice.