Damn cookies.

Maybe you are too full of expectation. Sometimes if you only get off in one way it makes it hard to do it another way. It is because no one can do you like yourself!

Maybe again there is nothing wrong with you but with who you are sleeping with?

Do you use your hands when masterbating? that might be it. where a rubber band around your wrist and when ever you want to play with yourself flick it!!!

Maybe you've masturbated too much, and as a result, your penis is too insensitive.

Wow drastic theories!

My opinion is that if you stop masturbating, you will definetly feel more during sex and will cum. If you're jacking off once, twice (more?) daily, it'll be much harder to get off than if you only did it every other week.

I'd say it's all in your head and has nothing to do with your dick.

sometimes it's posistion. I can go for hours in missionary, but my time gets drastically put down if she's on top, mostly if her back is to me.

Well the girl I'm with now has only been with two people (including me). She's an old ex of mine. I don't masturbate too frequently, mabye once every 3 days, just becuase I can't get off... Sex feels good, I just can't ejaculate.

I think Kid is saying that it is mental. And I agree. You may need to seek help if this is the case.

Three suggestions:

1) stop masturbating for a few days before sex
2) don't concentrate at all on trying to get off
3) try a cheeky finger up the bum

How do you masterbate? If you do it in a fashion that does not replicate sex (I read of one man who did it by rapping his knuckles on his penis, and as a result could not get off during sex) your body could become accustom to cumming this way. If that happens it can hamper you during intercourse.

Nah, just the old fashion hand and shaft...

Stop masterbating for a long time...

Hey, I have a great response. If you listen to Love Line, Doctor Drew responded to a question almost identical to this. He said that when you masturbate ty to recreate the way in which you have sex. So like, if you have sex lying on your back, lie on your back when you whack it. Try to get off in the same positions and at the same speed as you want to get off having sex. Your body will become more used to it this way and it will be much easier to cum during sex.

i am almost completely opposite as you.
i can go a long time with her on top and a good while with me on top, but once i find this one spot (she lets me know) im gone in 2 or 3 pumps kind of funny to me really when you can go just pumping for a while and then you nail one spot and its explosion time

You know, you are wishing you could get off at all, and there are people like me who wish we could go longer before we could get off.

Life isn't fair :crazy:

Maybe you don't really like girls... it's possible.

Honestly I wouldn't worry. I've never actually gotten off as a result of someone else (oral or otherwise), and I'm not that worried. I figure it's a combination of your body being used to something, and your mind focusing on the fact that you haven't orgasmed yet. Just give it time, pleasure your partner, and relax a bit.

Man I really hope this doesn't start a tend to where girls can get off easily and guys are the ones who can't. Ya that would suck. Welcome to crazy world.