Female Orgasm Question...
 

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this one always seems to come up again and again, doesn't it?

it's just a female ejaculation (i say "just" as in its perfectly normal bodily function, but it's just plain freakin' AWESOME).

run a search on the female ejaculation threads that've been floating around. best thing to do is tell her to let go, it's NOT urine. it'll be clear and odor-less, you'll realize pretty quickly it's nothing bad. although if she's a gusher you may want to lay a towel down unless you want to sleep in the wet spot. my ex would always flood her side and we'd end up snuggling together on my side. :)

just make sure you let her know and make her comfortable with "releasing", it's pretty much impossible for her to pee. reassure her, tell her you're craving it, whatever it takes to make her more comfortable with it.

edit: i went ahead and did the legwork for ya.

http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/showthread.php?t=60727

http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/showthread.php?t=43152

longest thread:

http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/showthread.php?t=27474

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key summed it up pretty well. I dated a girl a while back and told her I wanted her to cum on my face as I was eating her out. She told me afterwords that no man has ever said that to her because she had insecurities about doing it. In my opinion, if you make her feel more comfortable about doing it, it will only increase her and your sexual pleasure.

your job will be to erase all doubt from her mind. like i said, make her completely comfortable in her sexuality, it's tricky like that because if they're even slightly distracted it won't work. and the thought of taking a leak on their partner is horrific enough to be considered a distraction :)

there's dozens of articles and sites you can show her if she needs reinforcement or "proof" that it's normal (and probably the greatest thing she'll ever experience in this lifetime).

What everyone else said plus tell her to pee before you two get down to business. Her empty bladder will give her more confidence.

I'm somewhat confused by your post. You say she can "literally cum, and in flowing out of her. The thing is, she's insecure about this quality." Can you clarify? Do you mean she has let it "flow out" before but not as much as she probably could if only she could relax about it?

When does she cum like this? During oral?

By the way, you are one lucky bastard. You got a hot woman who loves sex and ejaculates to boot. Damn.

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As far as I know, feeling like she wants to pee is perfectly normal.

Before she comes it WILL feel like she wants to pee, since, as far as I know, its coming out of the same hole. She should just let go, let it flow, and enjoy.

Take it from me, if she cums there is no question of peeing. The 2 things don't happen together.

Being a woman who has this happen...she needs to let herself go and enjoy it. Tell her it is ok what she is feeling and believe me she will not pee. Get her relaxed and let nature take over :) Can be great for both of you.