masturbation time?
 

question, honest question here...

i was talking wtih some people at work and we were talking about our habits.

Anyway
we were talking and got into a discussion about how long most people spend masturbating at a given sitting

it came down to two camps, the ones who want it soley for the sake of getting off quickly and those who take their time.


I tend to take a while, like more than an hour, but my female friend at work does it in 3 minutes. Most other people took 2-10 for teh quickie group and 30-1.5hrs for the slower group.

So, where do you fall?

Alone? thirty seconds flat. I'm a pro. : (

Bored, tired, going to bed soon, in the shower, got some porn, just solo = +/- 5min

1-10 min. I am like a bunny I can keep going and going and going untill I cant walk any more hehehehe, I am addicted to sex and if I'm not having sex with my honey I am with my toy.

Depends on how im feelin lol.

Just want a quickie..... 5 minutes or so, if i wanna sit down and enjoy it.... 1 hour +.

if im tryin somethin new add 30 minutes atleast =P

With some GOOD material, it usually takes me 30 to an hour. Shame I can't last that long elsewhere most of the time :lol:

warwagon, i had that problem wheni first started having sex. I couldn't last very long
but i found that practice in both areas made it much easier to find your limits and know when to slwo down/speed up.

Female: Quickie

When I'm alone I only just want to cum. Usually it's more of a sexual tension release so that I can got to sleep. It's just a means to an end. Usually takes about 3 min. Give or take a couple.

normally quickie
but sometimes i take my time and i enjoy it more

By myself, focusing and using my vibrator, I can get done within 1-10 mn. With my boyfriend it's a little more difficult just because I can't focus as well, so it takes awhile and sometimes I can't even orgasm.

depends on mood and style of self manipulation.

bog standard wank - anything from under a minute to 10 minutes.

watching whole scene of engrossing porn ~30 minutes+

non-standard playing around... hours, perhaps.

more than an hour?! OMG does that mean that you can last days when it comes to sex?! :crazy: :lol:

I would never be able to last more than 5 minutes - it would drive me nuts otherwise. When I'm arroused I need to be satisfied immediately. :rolleyes:

I'm in the slower group aswell, which means that:Basicly fits me :lol:

I would guess around 10-15 minutes. But it's hard to say, because it seems like time has no meaning when you're wacking off.

basically...however i've found that having sex that lasts too long is kinda painful in the wrong ways to both parties, so i try to gauge how quickly she is going to finish and try to match or finish soon after. Sometimes that's hours long and sometimes it's 15 minutes. lately, i prefer the hours bc i don't know when i'll get to do the activity again :)

as for with myself, i can spend two or three hours driving myself nuts, but sometimes, that leads to chafing

I like it to last longer, so when you get the release, you really feel it.

The longer I go the more intense it is - that goes for masturbation and sex. Getting off in 5 minutes just doesn't satisfy me.

I honestly havn't masterbated in like 2 weeks because I wanted to see if I can do it but when I do I like to sit down and enjoy it, not just go as fast as I can.

15 minutes without lube, 5 with. It makes a world of difference.

exactly, 5 minuts is bam, over
2 hrs is OH MY GOD....oh shit, it's in my hair...and on the wall...and across the room...and on my cat...and in my eye...OH MY GOD IT BURNS!!!!!

seriously, it's just so much moer intense after a longer time

I love taking my time. Orgasms are much more intense after hours of action rather than doing it quickly. The fastest I've ever gone was probably 10-15 minutes. The longest was pretty much when I got up around 10 until 2 or 3, with a lunch break somewhere in the middle.

is that total time over a day or for each session :D:D

each session.

yeah, if you're talking total over a day, that's a whole different matter...

If i'm flying solo with no company, less than ten minutes, it's not for the experience it's for the result. If i'm with someone, i can go for quite a while without experiencing the immediate need to get off.

"2 hrs is OH MY GOD....oh shit, it's in my hair...and on the wall...and across the room...and on my cat...and in my eye...OH MY GOD IT BURNS!!!!!"

:lol:

ROFL

I don't know about burning but this is how it is when I take my time as well. But some days you just don't have time or the energy.

female: It really depends on the situation, but if I had to average it'd be about 10-15 minutes.

It depends on how horny I am and if I can get a donkey.

it just dawned on me...

i think i'm seeing a funny pattern here, but there aren't enough responses to be credible, buuut, does it look like guys actually seem to take their time while women like to just get off quickly?

could you respond with male/female just so i'm sure i'm reading this right. I never thought gender would be a role in this.

Agreed, I like to sit back relax and take 30-1h.

At least 30 min...need to let yourself totally savor it

it used to be quickly if i was goin at it for just the release. Ever since the girlfriend started doing it though, it just isnt the same by myself. But i only see her on the weekends so i still gotta let the tension out. But now even if i am going at it quickly i wont finish for about half an hour. I guess he doesnt want me, he wants her. lol.

I think I love you :crazy: :lol:

Usually, I'm in the "quickie" camp (anywhere from 3-15 minutes). That's for the times when I'm totally alone, and just wanna get off.

However, lately, I've been doing the whole phone thing with someone, and of course I try to take my time (up to 4 hours) with that, and enjoy the experience.

Sometimes, it's SOLELY for the experience. For example, as of a few days ago, a girl I've been "talking" with, convinced me to completely give up orgasms until I come to see her at the end of the month (sort of a control thing, and a test of my will power rolled up in one). So, the closest thing I can get to pleasure is to enjoy the process.

as said before, depends on the situation.

if you just need a quickie to sort Jr. out and generally aleviate certain thoughts, then even a minute will do...

...but, if you really want to have one body destroyingly powerful orgasm (or your SO is being a tease) then you can go on for hours. so far my record is 7 1/2 hours, needless to say, i had a few things floating around my system, but it was damned fun none the less:crazy:

sorry, but after 4 hrs, i better be having sex....

I'm all business. I usually get it done first thing in the morning, and it's probably going to be the best thing that's going to happen to me all day so I want it now.

this thread makes me sad......it takes me anywhere from 10-40 mins to get off most of the time......*sigh*
i must be broken :p

well i just had a quickie before and i swear it tok 45 seconds or less
I usually only masturbate now to relieve tension