Would you ever, have you ever, paid for it?
 

I havent, but sometimes I feel tempted, to a degree. I wouldnt have full sex cos Im scared f diseases, but I can imagine paying some hooker to suck me off... it seems like I have been alone so long I am forgetting what human contact feels like. Realistically, I prolly would never do it, but sometimes, like when Im drunk, it can feel tempting.

Give into temptation... just do some research before you do. There are a lot of "legit" escorts and massage parlours out there (well here in Canada anyway).

There are websites that carry reviews and recommendations. I high recommend you do some research so you can avoid getting ripped off. I seem to recall this is a pretty good UK review site: http://www.punterlink.co.uk/

Not sure what it's like in England but I do understand it can be expensive.

Good luck.

I haven't, and after reading what you've posted, I wonder if I ever would.

I know there are places you can go, escourt services that you can call. But once you did, once you pay for it the first time. Do you think you'd ever 'not' pay for it ?

I mean, I'm just wondering, you seem pretty hard on yourself already in your other posts. Just a thought.

What about the bar scene ? What about a singles service ?

Never have, and I doubt I ever would.

hmmm, being a married man, one might say I've paid dearly....

J/K :-D

Heheheh....Amen, brother!

Personally no, I never have, nor would I ever- but I'm a girl.

My brother and a group of his friends actually went to the Mustang Ranch a couple of years back....

My brother paid $100 for a blow job, and his friend paid $150 for full-on sex AND a blow job.

I think my brother was ripped off. And he said it wasn't even that great, because it seemed odd to have a stranger on his bits. I suppose if you could get over that, there is nothing wrong with paying for pleasure.

I thought about it a long time ago, but I decided not to. Kind of like paying someone to give you compliments. The words are there, but they mean nothing.

Since then I've talked to some women in the sex trades and in general they have a lot of contempt for their customers, certainly not much respect. So why would you want to go to bed with somebody who didn't even like you?

I wouldn't, for financial reasons more than moral reasons. I'll echo what Charlatan said though, if you decide to, do your homework.
But if I had 100-something bucks and wanted an easy lay, I'd just go to a club and start pouring drinks down some girls throat.

The difference between paying for sex and getting it for "free" is that paying for it saves you a lot of money in the long run.

George Costanza on prostitutes and parking...
"Why should I pay for something when with a little effort I might get it for free"

Or something like that, it was just on a second ago... damn my short memory.
My big problem with paying is, when it is free... the girl wants to be there. She likes me. We have made some connection, even if it is just a short term thing (like I have right now). She showed up because she wanted to. Thats a good 50% of the fun.

Lets do the math, shall we?

First my wife is a very nice looking blonde. with long hair, and of Swedish ancestry. From what I gather that’s going to be a pretty expensive hooker, but lets say its a $200 trick at least.

We have had sex about an average of 3 times a week.

We have been together for 13 years.

So 200 * 3 * 52 * 13 = $405,600

Now that’s quite a lot of cash.....

But I'm not done yet! She also works and makes over 40k a year.

Now at 200 a pop I would be paying $ 31,200 a year for sex, so if you take that from her 40k+, I MAKE 8,800 a year having sex with my wife!

That’s quite a bargain.

Yet you probably pay over 500,000+ (exaggueration) with the dates, the gifts, the house, the car, the bills, and so on.

With a hooker its just the $10 for gas and youre good to go.

I have in the past, when I was very single and still in high school... a decision I regret and am definitely not proud of.

Fortunately I did not catch any diseases, but I will never do this again because if I have to go as far as paying for it, then there must be something wrong with me because the average asshole out there can still get laid without dishing out cash.

I did, I regret, I intend not to do it again. :)

I did it a few times in college. It was pretty fun actually. The cost wasn't that much, and if you do your research on who you are with, it can be pretty good. I had one bad experience with it though where she didn't want to be there and let me know that.

Don't you end up paying for it even if you don't pay for it?

My buddy talks about his CPF. When his wife wants a new deck, a pool, etc., his CPF goes up. I'm divorced, and so I pay for dinners, movies, gifts, etc. He believes I'm ahead in the equation.
He and I would be happy to set up a database to analyze this, but his wife would surely kill us.

I have never, nor do I anticipate ever, paying for it.

Except in the testosterone-driven committment-phobic way that certain die-hard batchelors on this thread have been implying, of course. In that sense, I shall gladly pay for it, and continue paying for it until I die with a great big smile on my face.

:lol:

Remember, it's not paying for sex...what you're paying for is the clean break when you leave the hotel.

Would never and have never, and will never! Having sex with a total stranger doesn't appeal to me or my purse. I'd rather masturbate then risk getting STD's.

The STD thing just doesn't wash... There is just as much of a chance of getting an STD from someone picked up in a bar and bonked for free...

i was thinking about going to the bunny ranch

which is another thing you won't find me doing :)

Well, here's the thing. Looking at the quality of whore around these parts, I pretty seriously doubt I would. But I was watching Curb Your Enthusiasm this evening, the one where he hires the hooker to go to the baseball game with him so he can use the carpool lane to get there on time.

If a woman looking like that came to my car window, I would really struggle to say no.

i think every man has paid for, now it was paid for right out or dinner and drinks or gold and a diamond. whats the differance? it all for one thing right

Awfully tempting...but I think it is a slippery slope. But man...you wouldn't believe what $20 can get in some of these 3rd world countries....

Re: Would you ever, have you ever, paid for it?
 

Toronto is great for its sex scene.

We truly have it made here.

I would recommend the erotic massage parlours (of which there are hundreds in Toronto).

Basically, you pay your entrance fee (typically 40 bucks for a half hour), they show you to a nice clean room where you have a shower and wait naked on the table for the MPA to come in. The women vary, but there are plenty of extremely beautiful women in the industry.

The whole thing consists of a massage (yes, they really do massage you) followed by a hand job to finish things off.

You can spice it up for another 20 for topless, 40 for her to be nude, 60 you can massage her (nude of course) and 80 for a body slide (use your imagination)

As a rule, 90 percent of these places don't do sex, don't do blow jobs. It's pretty much just erotic massage. Most of these institutions are also licensed by the City of Toronto also as "body rub" parlours so it is legal and you are not in danger of being busted unless the cops are being tipped that there is more going on there.

www.terb.ca

is a site that contains thousands of reviews by men and women that partake in the hobby.

A couple of high end places with really really beautiful women would be:

www.handsfromheaven.ca

www.alluremassage.com

www.bodyandsoulspa.ca

www.4u2touch.com

www.royalspa.ca

Wouldn't pay for sex, but sure wouldn't mind a gift certificate to a place like james t kirk mentioned!

I would never pay for any form of sexual activity.

After doing a little research on the web, here are a few sites I found that might help you out. I never did it before, but you do what you have to do. No one should make judgements on your decisions. Prostitution is basically a no-no because of the spreading of disease years ago. After reading these sites, the women here seem to know what to do to prevent this. Good luck. Let us know what you decided. Let's hear the details!!! LOL

www.theeroticreview.com
www.utopiaguide.com
www.bigdoggie.net

PS It was very interesting reading the guy's reviews of the ladies!!!

Don't laugh, they do have them.

A friend of mine's wife (no joke) bought him an erotic massage for his birthday. She's a bit of a voyeur and wanted to watch, but alas they wouldn't permit 3 people in room. So she went off with the lady of her choice.

Everybody was happy.

Doubt I ever would, even when I was a lonely horny teenager.

I've never, in the traditional sense, "paid for it."

However, between you and me, as a married man I'm paying for it even when I'm not getting it. ;)

Unintentionally, yes. Unintentionally you say... how can that happen?

I'm at an upscale strip club and my buddies get me a private dance from 2 ladies. I buy a couple of more dances. One is straddling my chest and then the other one unzips me and begins to go down on me. I object (although not strenuously - not really realizing the consequences at the time). When she's done, 2 big bouncers demand $500. That was my last strip club visit.

I have kinda before. ONe of my brothers took me to Boystown in reynosa. He bought me one for my 16th b day

Haven't ever paid for it, unless you count this girl I brought home on my 24th birthday (with whom -no- nakedness was involved), who got all clingy the next day and figured we were gonna get married. I'd say in a way, I really paid the price. ;)

And so has every woman -- every time she cooks him dinner, does his laundry, cleans the house, pulls "super mom" duty, etc. Come on max, this is a two way street.

I completely agree... Housewives are grossly undervalued. Add to this the fact that many marriages are double income these days.