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Shyla Loral · 09-02-2003, 07:48 PM

Does anyone else experience this, especially girls? If my husband plays with my nipples right after sex, or if he plays with them *alot* I get this weird, funny little feeling in my tummy that is not pleasant. The same thing with clit, sometimes, not often, it can be way overstimulated, and I get the same feeling.

sexymama · 09-02-2003, 07:58 PM

Absolutely -- sometimes it is just best to back off from the stimulating and just cuddle. Listen to your body, it is letting you know what you need.

Shyla Loral · 09-02-2003, 08:23 PM

So do you actually get that feeling? I have a hard time explaining that there is "too much". I mentioned like right before he ejaculates, I used terms like "the top of your head blowing off" and he said he doesn't get that. So he has nothing to compare it to. Any ideas on what to compare it to, or how else to explain it? He is truly puzzled by the idea of "too much of a good thing" when it comes to nipples or clit.

yournamehere · 09-02-2003, 08:58 PM

Guys can get overstimulation, too.

The head of the penis is very susceptible to overstimulation during orgasm, especially the end of the urethra - at least for me. At orgasm, I like to have stimulation limited to the shaft and, especially, the frenulum - the tissue that, on the underside, connects the head to the shaft.

I had one g/f who liked to rub the end of my penis when I was cumming, and it was just "too much of a good thing" She even used to push the tip of her tongue in there while I was ejaculating. Had a difficult time explaining it to her that it was too much.

analog · 09-02-2003, 09:45 PM

yeah, especially after getting oral, I can't have that same motion continued... anything touching the head just after ejaculation is too much stimulation and i seize up.

09-02-2003, 07:48 PM	#1 (permalink)
Shyla Loral Crazy Location: Austin	Overstimulation Does anyone else experience this, especially girls? If my husband plays with my nipples right after sex, or if he plays with them alot I get this weird, funny little feeling in my tummy that is not pleasant. The same thing with clit, sometimes, not often, it can be way overstimulated, and I get the same feeling.

09-02-2003, 07:58 PM	#2 (permalink)
sexymama My own person -- his by choice Location: Lebell's arms	Absolutely -- sometimes it is just best to back off from the stimulating and just cuddle. Listen to your body, it is letting you know what you need. __________________ If you can go deeply into lovemaking, the ego disappears. That is the beauty of lovemaking, that it is another source of a glimpse of god It's not about being perfect; it's about developing some skill at managing imperfection.

09-02-2003, 08:23 PM	#3 (permalink)
Shyla Loral Crazy Location: Austin	So do you actually get that feeling? I have a hard time explaining that there is "too much". I mentioned like right before he ejaculates, I used terms like "the top of your head blowing off" and he said he doesn't get that. So he has nothing to compare it to. Any ideas on what to compare it to, or how else to explain it? He is truly puzzled by the idea of "too much of a good thing" when it comes to nipples or clit. __________________ "Three may keep a secret, if two of them are dead" Ben Franklin, Poor Richard's Almanac. Meff r0x

09-02-2003, 08:58 PM	#4 (permalink)
yournamehere Invisible Location: tentative, at best	Guys can get overstimulation, too. The head of the penis is very susceptible to overstimulation during orgasm, especially the end of the urethra - at least for me. At orgasm, I like to have stimulation limited to the shaft and, especially, the frenulum - the tissue that, on the underside, connects the head to the shaft. I had one g/f who liked to rub the end of my penis when I was cumming, and it was just "too much of a good thing" She even used to push the tip of her tongue in there while I was ejaculating. Had a difficult time explaining it to her that it was too much. __________________ If you want to avoid 95% of internet spelling errors: "If your ridiculous pants are too loose, you're definitely going to lose them. Tell your two loser friends over there that they're going to lose theirs, too." It won't hurt your fashion sense, either.

09-02-2003, 09:45 PM	#5 (permalink)
analog Banned	yeah, especially after getting oral, I can't have that same motion continued... anything touching the head just after ejaculation is too much stimulation and i seize up.