older women

[hauser]

whats up everybody? anyway, ive been hanging out with this girl recently that is atleast 4 years older than i am(im 18) and we seem to hit it off really well. i want to get to know her better, but a mutual friend of ours is kinda giving hints to back off even though he isnt involved with this girl. what should i do?

[cheerios]

whatever the hell you want to. :P Seriously, if you're interested in her, go for it. if you're friend is giving you vibes, maybe ask him wtf is up, and get it cleared up before you go much further?

[Halx]

why do I feel this forum is more of a bragging ground for relationship situations than an actual advice forum? What is so complicated about this situation that advice needs to be asked? Exactly what cheerios said.. do whatever the hell you want.

[Ashton]

Hell, I'm 35 and the oldest women I've dated is 52..... She was a babe, she got carded for smokes all the time..... Mmmmmm, I can smell her perfume just thinking about her..... Red hair, A sweet little body..... If it wasn't for our age difference we might have had a great relationship, I suppose she liked me because I spoiled her..... such is life for the "nice guy" All in all it was probally for the best.... our age difference really messed things up, but it was fun while it lasted.

[VirFighter]

Come on Hal, when you are 18 seeing someone who is 22 could seem very weird. A lot can change in a person for those four years. No reason to think he might be "showing off". It's not like he went off about how nice her ass is or anything. Ease up

Back to the topic at hand, if you feel like this thing coudl develop then go for it. Your friend might have feelings for her as well, but if he has been shut down/doesn't have the guts to go for it then his loss. By all means, get to know this girl better if you like her.