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justwantsomefun · 04-06-2011, 11:37 PM

this isn't really a question, i would just appreciate some feedback as to what people think.

i am a 30 year old man and i feel i have a huge desire for anal sex. maybe i am straight maybe i am bi, i dont really know. i have a gf and i fantasize about giving her anal. i also fantasize about receiving it. sometimes when i watch porn i wish for nothing more than to be the woman porn star. something about it turns me on so much. since i had these thoughts, i decided to give it a try. the thing is, guys dont really turn me on. its the girls that do. i wish i was the girl being fucked, but i dont really get turned on by the guys at all. i have tried it a few times with guys and it was just awful. the idea of kissing them was something i had no taste for. giving oral kinda turned me on, and so did the idea of being fucked. but when it happened it just didn't feel right. i love to masturbate anally but the real thing with guys is just a turn off. i dont really care if im straight or bi. i have so judgments about either. what do you think?

Sheepy · 04-07-2011, 12:31 AM

i've heard that 'she male' is a term used in sex work to describe trans women with male genitalia

have you looked into that stuff?

I can't say i'm an expert on it
or a novice
or anything
at all

Shadowex3 · 04-07-2011, 01:34 AM

Buy your girlfriend a strapon?

DontKnockIt · 04-07-2011, 02:08 AM

Try a 3way with your gf and a hot tranny.

The_Jazz · 04-07-2011, 05:21 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Shadowex3

Buy your girlfriend a strapon?

This. And educate yourself on the term "pegging".

Bonkai · 04-07-2011, 08:36 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Shadowex3

Buy your girlfriend a strapon?

^This. Bring the topic up with your gf see what she thinks, she just might be into it

. Oh and don't worry about labeling self. Gay, straight, bi are just labels to separate the masses, we're all sexual and love getting off period!

Zeraph · 04-08-2011, 11:52 AM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Bonkai

Oh and don't worry about labeling self. Gay, straight, bi are just labels to separate the masses, we're all sexual and love getting off period!

A-fucking-men brother. Preach it!

Ourcrazymodern? · 04-09-2011, 06:12 AM

My younger son made up a song: "Dad likes it up the butt..." He doesn't know whereof he speaks, but in due course he might figure out it was disrespectful. Have at what you want.

Thinkbefore · 04-10-2011, 05:12 PM

A strap on is something you may enjoy. I enjoy this a good deal and it is great having a lady do this to you. It is not a submissive thing unless you want it to be. Get her one with a vibrator that slips in a pocket behind the dildo. I started with the bend over boyfriend one and you can get bigger dildos. Amazon was the cheapest. Shop around. Tantus makes great stuff with just the right softness.

04-06-2011, 11:37 PM	#1 (permalink)
justwantsomefun Upright	anal sex for men this isn't really a question, i would just appreciate some feedback as to what people think. i am a 30 year old man and i feel i have a huge desire for anal sex. maybe i am straight maybe i am bi, i dont really know. i have a gf and i fantasize about giving her anal. i also fantasize about receiving it. sometimes when i watch porn i wish for nothing more than to be the woman porn star. something about it turns me on so much. since i had these thoughts, i decided to give it a try. the thing is, guys dont really turn me on. its the girls that do. i wish i was the girl being fucked, but i dont really get turned on by the guys at all. i have tried it a few times with guys and it was just awful. the idea of kissing them was something i had no taste for. giving oral kinda turned me on, and so did the idea of being fucked. but when it happened it just didn't feel right. i love to masturbate anally but the real thing with guys is just a turn off. i dont really care if im straight or bi. i have so judgments about either. what do you think?

04-07-2011, 02:08 AM	#4 (permalink)
DontKnockIt Upright Location: In a VAN DOWN BY THE RIVER	Try a 3way with your gf and a hot tranny. __________________ Yeah I said it, big whoop, wanna fight about it?

04-09-2011, 06:12 AM	#8 (permalink)
Ourcrazymodern? still, wondering. Location: South Minneapolis, somewhere near the gorgeous gorge	My younger son made up a song: "Dad likes it up the butt..." He doesn't know whereof he speaks, but in due course he might figure out it was disrespectful. Have at what you want. __________________ BE JUST AND FEAR NOT

04-07-2011, 12:31 AM	#2 (permalink)
Sheepy Tilted Location: Hometown at Great Barrier Island, NZ	i've heard that 'she male' is a term used in sex work to describe trans women with male genitalia have you looked into that stuff? I can't say i'm an expert on it or a novice or anything at all

04-10-2011, 05:12 PM	#9 (permalink)
Thinkbefore Upright Location: South Carolina	A strap on is something you may enjoy. I enjoy this a good deal and it is great having a lady do this to you. It is not a submissive thing unless you want it to be. Get her one with a vibrator that slips in a pocket behind the dildo. I started with the bend over boyfriend one and you can get bigger dildos. Amazon was the cheapest. Shop around. Tantus makes great stuff with just the right softness.