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dalnet22 · 01-05-2009, 11:47 AM

Question: Why do many guys in porn have trouble getting hard? If a girl was unzipping and pulling me out, I'd be rock hard. But a lot of them don't get hard until she's sucked their dick for 5 minutes. And then, there are other guys who are barely hard when it's time to fuck.

Does anyone know why this is the case? Is it because they've seen so many women that it doesn't phase them anymore?

elgeebar · 01-05-2009, 11:52 AM

Do you think you could stay hard take after take, hour after hour, day after day?

That's why they have fluffers! Although I believe that is a job killed by video. Can somebody explain why?

Answer my own question...

Looked up fluffer on Wikipedia http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fluffer and they reckon it's Viagra that actually killed off the job.

LordEden · 01-05-2009, 12:48 PM

It's one thing to get a hard on in the privacy of your bedroom/bar bathroom/Church Parking lot, but when you have to get hard on cue in front of a full filming crew. You have a (sometimes) hot girl unzipping you but at the same time you have a director telling you cue points, a boom guy watching you, and a camera guy filming the whole thing. Now try and get wood with all of this around you. Also, you will have to stop fucking at various times and wait. None of this is conductive to keeping a raging hard on.

Xerxys · 01-05-2009, 01:19 PM

I'll tell you why.........., well Halx says it better actually >>LINK<<

elgeebar · 01-05-2009, 05:24 PM

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Originally Posted by Xerxys

I'll tell you why.........., well Halx says it better actually >>LINK<<

remember reading that back when I was just a lurker

dalnet22 · 01-05-2009, 09:08 PM

I guess it's not all fun for the porn guys!

Jenna · 01-06-2009, 01:17 PM

Most of the time, they don't get to choose who they have sex with, which means they have to get it up for any girl. There's tons of lights, people watching and it's a lot of pressure. You have to cum on spot when they tell you, and you can't get off too soon either. You have camera's coming at you at every odd angle, and the sexual positions aren't very comfortable or realistic.

Not all men are used to/can handle that amount of pressure.

http://media.ebaumsworld.com/mediaFi...01/1033850.jpg
Reminds of this picture. NSFW.

dalnet22 · 01-06-2009, 01:54 PM

Jenna - after seeing that picture, I've never understood so clearly.

little_tippler · 01-06-2009, 02:18 PM

heh another misleading thread...I thought we were going to talk about the soft side of men in porn...though I like to see some rough, some softness is also pretty hornifying! /end threadjack...

hunnychile · 01-06-2009, 03:19 PM

Interesting....so it seems that my future favorite job ever - should be as a "fluffer"!! And they get paid for that? How fabulous!!

/Who knew?? Any fluffers out there that have details to share?

Plan9 · 01-06-2009, 04:05 PM

The reality of porn sucks much in the same way the reality of McDonald's food sucks.

...

'Sides... when was the last time you ("men") paid attention to a wang in porn, anyway?

dalnet22 · 01-06-2009, 06:57 PM

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Originally Posted by Crompsin

The reality of porn sucks much in the same way the reality of McDonald's food sucks.

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'Sides... when was the last time you ("men") paid attention to a wang in porn, anyway?

Sadly, penises are more exciting then women in porn, now. At least you know the guy aint faking when he cums. The girls can sit there acting all hot, and you know they're liars.

Big turn off.

thebends · 01-06-2009, 08:20 PM

and that's when the wonder of bona fide amateur porn comes in.
just every day people gettin 'er on with a camera running.

Anormalguy · 01-06-2009, 08:53 PM

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Originally Posted by thebends

and that's when the wonder of bona fide amateur porn comes in.
just every day people gettin 'er on with a camera running.

I agree, but finding "bona fide amateur porn" isn't easy.

canuckguy · 01-07-2009, 08:25 AM

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Originally Posted by Anormalguy

I agree, but finding "bona fide amateur porn" isn't easy.

Well I would not call it hard either....pun intended.

hopebazaco · 01-07-2009, 08:55 AM

i did home made porn in Ga .and never got paid....just fucked in the ass.

ASU2003 · 01-07-2009, 09:23 PM

Free Home Made Porn Videos To Watch On PORNOAMATEURS.BE

About half of the videos are amateurs or at least they fake being amateurs pretty well.

thebends · 01-07-2009, 09:31 PM

hey, as long as it's somewhat believable.

elgeebar · 01-08-2009, 03:17 PM

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Originally Posted by Anormalguy

I agree, but finding "bona fide amateur porn" isn't easy.

But it's fun looking and even more fun making your own

curious georget · 01-10-2009, 06:25 AM

all good points but dont u think that those guys have to take somthing to prolong their performances or they probaly wouldnt be in porn for long
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Originally Posted by curious georget

all good points but dont u think that those guys have to take somthing to prolong their performances or they probaly wouldnt be in porn for long

Weezil · 01-22-2009, 07:29 PM

I'd say in the '70s and '80s it was coke messing the plumbing up, but all the other reasons are valid, too.

n0nsensical · 01-22-2009, 08:38 PM

Hey, film sets go 12 hours a day. They're professionals. :P

777 · 01-22-2009, 09:38 PM

Wow, I can just picture two porno guys hanging out at a bar complaining about their jobs.

Big Jon: My God, I'm gonna have to punch someone if another cameraman films between my legs! I'm trying to work here.

Jackhammer: Man, I know what you mean. I've been poping Vs just so we can finish a scene. And with those multi-angle dvds, those are 8 hour shoots.

Big Jon: Dude, you gotta watch out when taking Viagra. I heard Everstiff was still hard all night after work. He was rushed to the hospital when his bladder burst.

Jackhammer: You mean he couldn't pee?!

Big Jon: Nope, he popped like a water ballon. They say he'll be on disability for a few months.

Xerxys · 01-23-2009, 11:22 AM

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Originally Posted by 777

Big Jon: Nope, he popped like a water ballon. They say he'll be on disability for a few months.

That was great, thanks......

01-05-2009, 11:47 AM	#1 (permalink)
dalnet22 Crazy	Softness of guys in porn Question: Why do many guys in porn have trouble getting hard? If a girl was unzipping and pulling me out, I'd be rock hard. But a lot of them don't get hard until she's sucked their dick for 5 minutes. And then, there are other guys who are barely hard when it's time to fuck. Does anyone know why this is the case? Is it because they've seen so many women that it doesn't phase them anymore?

01-05-2009, 11:52 AM	#2 (permalink)
elgeebar Upright Location: Scotland	Do you think you could stay hard take after take, hour after hour, day after day? That's why they have fluffers! Although I believe that is a job killed by video. Can somebody explain why? Answer my own question... Looked up fluffer on Wikipedia http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Fluffer and they reckon it's Viagra that actually killed off the job. Last edited by elgeebar; 01-05-2009 at 05:22 PM.. Reason: Answer my own question...

01-06-2009, 01:17 PM	#7 (permalink)
Jenna Psycho Location: Wisconsin	Most of the time, they don't get to choose who they have sex with, which means they have to get it up for any girl. There's tons of lights, people watching and it's a lot of pressure. You have to cum on spot when they tell you, and you can't get off too soon either. You have camera's coming at you at every odd angle, and the sexual positions aren't very comfortable or realistic. Not all men are used to/can handle that amount of pressure. http://media.ebaumsworld.com/mediaFi...01/1033850.jpg Reminds of this picture. NSFW. Last edited by Jenna; 01-06-2009 at 01:24 PM..

01-06-2009, 02:18 PM	#9 (permalink)
little_tippler Leaning against the -Sun- Super Moderator Location: on the other side	heh another misleading thread...I thought we were going to talk about the soft side of men in porn...though I like to see some rough, some softness is also pretty hornifying! /end threadjack... __________________ Whether we write or speak or do but look We are ever unapparent. What we are Cannot be transfused into word or book. Our soul from us is infinitely far. However much we give our thoughts the will To be our soul and gesture it abroad, Our hearts are incommunicable still. In what we show ourselves we are ignored. The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged By any skill of thought or trick of seeming. Unto our very selves we are abridged When we would utter to our thought our being. We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams, And each to each other dreams of others' dreams. Fernando Pessoa, 1918

01-06-2009, 03:19 PM	#10 (permalink)
hunnychile Alien Anthropologist Location: Between Boredom and Nirvana	Interesting....so it seems that my future favorite job ever - should be as a "fluffer"!! And they get paid for that? How fabulous!! /Who knew?? Any fluffers out there that have details to share? __________________ "I need compassion, understanding and chocolate." - NJB

01-05-2009, 01:19 PM	#4 (permalink)
Xerxys Junkie Location: My head.	I'll tell you why.........., well Halx says it better actually >>LINK<<

01-05-2009, 09:08 PM	#6 (permalink)
dalnet22 Crazy	I guess it's not all fun for the porn guys!

01-06-2009, 01:54 PM	#8 (permalink)
dalnet22 Crazy	Jenna - after seeing that picture, I've never understood so clearly.

01-06-2009, 04:05 PM	#11 (permalink)
Plan9 I Confess a Shiver	The reality of porn sucks much in the same way the reality of McDonald's food sucks. ... 'Sides... when was the last time you ("men") paid attention to a wang in porn, anyway? __________________ *Whatever you can carry.* "You should not drink... and bake."

01-06-2009, 08:20 PM	#13 (permalink)
thebends Upright Location: Ottawa, Ontario	and that's when the wonder of bona fide amateur porn comes in. just every day people gettin 'er on with a camera running.

01-07-2009, 08:55 AM	#16 (permalink)
hopebazaco Upright	i did home made porn in Ga .and never got paid....just fucked in the ass.

01-07-2009, 09:23 PM	#17 (permalink)
ASU2003 immoral minority Location: Back in Ohio	Free Home Made Porn Videos To Watch On PORNOAMATEURS.BE About half of the videos are amateurs or at least they fake being amateurs pretty well.

01-07-2009, 09:31 PM	#18 (permalink)
thebends Upright Location: Ottawa, Ontario	hey, as long as it's somewhat believable.

01-22-2009, 07:29 PM	#21 (permalink)
Weezil Tilted Location: Deep in Jersey	I'd say in the '70s and '80s it was coke messing the plumbing up, but all the other reasons are valid, too.

01-22-2009, 08:38 PM	#22 (permalink)
n0nsensical Junkie Location: San Francisco	Hey, film sets go 12 hours a day. They're professionals. :P __________________ "Prohibition will work great injury to the cause of temperance. It is a species of intemperance within itself, for it goes beyond the bounds of reason in that it attempts to control a man's appetite by legislation, and makes a crime out of things that are not crimes. A Prohibition law strikes a blow at the very principles upon which our government was founded." --Abraham Lincoln

01-22-2009, 09:38 PM	#23 (permalink)
777 drawn and redrawn Location: Some where in Southern California	Wow, I can just picture two porno guys hanging out at a bar complaining about their jobs. Big Jon: My God, I'm gonna have to punch someone if another cameraman films between my legs! I'm trying to work here. Jackhammer: Man, I know what you mean. I've been poping Vs just so we can finish a scene. And with those multi-angle dvds, those are 8 hour shoots. Big Jon: Dude, you gotta watch out when taking Viagra. I heard Everstiff was still hard all night after work. He was rushed to the hospital when his bladder burst. Jackhammer: You mean he couldn't pee?! Big Jon: Nope, he popped like a water ballon. They say he'll be on disability for a few months. __________________ "I don't know that I ever wanted greatness, on its own. It seems rather like wanting to be an engineer, rather than wanting to design something - or wanting to be a writer, rather than wanting to write. It should be a by-product, not a thing in itself. Otherwise, it's just an ego trip." Roger Zelazny