Clit sizes

[skizziks]

After reading the Labia sizes thread, this seemed like the next logical step.

As stated, I will be happy with any women's genetalia. I am rather attracted to a larger clit though, for some reason it seems more...sexual.

I wonder if the size has any relation to the libido.

Men - Do you like large clits, like, Lindamight size, or do large ones remind you too much of a small penis and make you feel gay? Do you care abou the size?

Women - Do you have a large clit? If so, are you embarrassed? I ask cause i read some stuff about women who were embarrased about it, which i coulndt understand at all.

[Halx]

I like a clit that I can see.

It means I'm either doing a good job or I don't have to wonder if I am touching the right spot.

[Yellow Tulip]

Mine is on the small side - I sometimes have to draw the hood back to show a partner where it is. I don't think it has any bearing on libido as to how much is visible, and some women don't like the clitoris to be touched directly as it's too sensitive.

[Daniel_]

Originally Posted by Yellow Tulip

Mine is on the small side - I sometimes have to draw the hood back to show a partner where it is. I don't think it has any bearing on libido as to how much is visible, and some women don't like the clitoris to be touched directly as it's too sensitive.

I think this is key, from the perspective of a user (as it were).

The size of a clit has never bothered me one way or another, but the response of the owner of it is very important to me.

I want to know that if a lady does me the great honour of letting me get up close and personal with her delightful lady parts that she's getting as much out of it (or more) as I am.

[Yellow Tulip]

Maybe if someone had a massive clit they might think it looked like a miniature dick and they might be embarrassed, but I think the problem for women is that we don't generally see other women's genitals and we don't know how each other looks. It's like I said on the other thread, I was embarrassed about my inner labia, because they show - I assumed "inner" labia were meant to be wholly inside the outer ones. The first few times I took my knickers off in front of someone I expected comments, but no-one ever batted an eyelid.

[curiousbear]

Any size should be good. But personally something big enough to play with is better to make the girl feeeeeeel good

[ratbastid]

Hooray for clitorises!

Clitori?

Whatever! Hooray for 'em!

[Tully Mars]

Originally Posted by Daniel_

I think this is key, from the perspective of a user (as it were).

The size of a clit has never bothered me one way or another, but the response of the owner of it is very important to me.

I want to know that if a lady does me the great honour of letting me get up close and personal with her delightful lady parts that she's getting as much out of it (or more) as I am.

I was going to write something then found you said basically what I planned to say.

So, ditto.

[Anormalguy]

I've never experienced a really large one, but do admit to being intrigued. My wife's is small, so she pulls the hood back & apart when easy access is needed.

I don't know if her clit size affects her libido, but she has no problems having orgasms.

[Sue]

I've seen pics of some pretty big ones. I wonder if the feelings there are more intense than "regular" sized ones, what with the bundles of nerves that are there.

[Anormalguy]

Originally Posted by Sue

I've seen pics of some pretty big ones. I wonder if the feelings there are more intense than "regular" sized ones, what with the bundles of nerves that are there.

Good question, I like to know as well.

What about when the guy is really pounding away, or when the woman is on top grinding into his pelvis?

[Starkizzer]

I remember reading in one of my text books on sexual behavior that if a woman overuses a vibrator at a high intensity level it can enlarge the clit and make it less sensitive.

I don't think this would be the case with naturally large clits. I would assume that the nerve bundle would be equally sensitive in large, medium and small sized clits. The size could contribute to being more accessible to rub on things.

I think its like asking the question are uncircumcised penises more sensitive than circumcised ones.

Btw: mine pokes out from under the hood just enough to be visible, and grows considerably when I'm excited.

[Frosstbyte]

Originally Posted by Starkizzer

I think its like asking the question are uncircumcised penises more sensitive than circumcised ones.

Except that the answer to that question, for better or worse, is yes. The foreskin has quite a few extra nerve endings that us snipped guys will never get back.

[Starkizzer]

Oh, I was talking about the head of the penis itself. At least that's the question I have always heard. Like the foreskin protects the head and therefore makes it more sensitive.

I feel so sorry for you guys, if I have a son he is not being circumcised!

And now back to the original subject.

[settie]

My inner labia and clitoris hood are larger, so it is harder to get to the clitoris. I guess that means mine is small?
Either way, I don't like it to be directly touched too much, its more painful and irritating than sexy. I'd rather it be teased through the hood.

[Starkizzer]

I have to agree with you on that one settie. Direct contact on the clitoris is just too much, kinda makes you wanna crawl up a wall.

[Anormalguy]

My wife doesn't care for direct contact, unless it's very gentle and her clit is wet/lubed. She likes direct contact during oral when I use the flat of my tongue, but rapid flicking (another bad technique perpetrated by porn?) is a no-no.

To stay on topic, the easy access of a large clit would be fun, at least from a guys POV.

For those who don't venture into the Off The Wayside forum, NSFW!

http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/off-way...it-vaccum.html

[Halx]

As an uncut guy, I can only imagine that direct clitoral contact is similar to how I felt as a kid when I had to wash my penis under my foreskin. To describe: as a small kid who did not get erections, the head of my dick was ALWAYS covered by foreskin. It was incredibly sensitive, to the point where it was painful if I touched it with anything other than a smooth bar of soap. As I got older, my penis began to expand and contract upon stimulation, thus stretching out the foreskin and rolling it back away from the head. This meant that it became used to contact and thus bearable to touch. I suspect this works the same way with women, but I could be wrong.

[Bill O'Rights]

Originally Posted by ratbastid

Hooray for clitorises!

Clitori?

Whatever! Hooray for 'em!

A man, in your position, should, I think, have a better grasp on the plurality of clitoris.

[Cernunnos]

I enjoy clits that are sensitive enough to give a woman extremely satisfying orgasms, but not sensitive enough to the point that I can't lap at it with my tongue.

Basically, the size/shape is unimportant. It isn't even a consideration for me. Cleanliness is what counts, along with willingness to experience pleasure.

[lostgirl]

I never thought about it. It seems that my clit is average size from what I have seen.

[piismyname]

In my limited experience, I like a larger clit only because it is easier to find, and therefore easier to pay proper attention to. My current gf's is small enough that i can't suck on it when giving oral, and i have only a vauge idea based on her happy noises as to whether i am in the right place at all.

[n0nsensical]

Originally Posted by Sue

I've seen pics of some pretty big ones. I wonder if the feelings there are more intense than "regular" sized ones, what with the bundles of nerves that are there.

I think that anatomical area has a basically fixed number of nerve endings, whether it's a penis, a clitoris, or any size variation thereof. So the size only affects the density of nerve endings. And the size is relative to testosterone levels during early development.

[Hyacinthe]

mine pokes out from under the hood just enough to be visible, and grows considerably when I'm excited.

That seems to describe mine as well, though I tend to love the overwhelming sensation direct contact can give.

Despite the average or maybe slightly larger size of my clit I never really got alot of pleasure out of it during sex itself until I got a piercing there so I don't think it's true that the larger the clit the more intense the pleasure.

In my line of work I have seen ALOT of female genitalia (and male genitalia) in all shapes, sizes, colours, ages - most of them are attractive. I don't think that size makes much difference to me it's more about what fits the person in question - for example my stripper friend Paris would look very strange without the petite little genitalia that she has because she is a petite little person. I don't think genitalia is any different from any other form of the body - asking whether you like larger clitorrii or labia is like asking if you prefer blondes over brunettes or blue eyes over brown, sure you might have a preference but if the person is perfect for you are you really going to end the relatiionship because her clit is the wrong size?