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10-03-2008, 05:32 AM
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Eponymous
Location: Central Central Florida
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So where were you when you lost it?
Were you in a bed or somewhere else when you lost your virginity? Someone mentioned MG in another thread and the memories came flooding back.
I gave it up in one of these, with the guy I'd been dating for nearly a year. I thought I loved him, and he'd been begging from Day One so I think I did it more out of curiosity and to shut him up. It was over in about 10 seconds, BTW.  EDIT: His MG was actually pink, it was so old and faded. 
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10-03-2008, 05:47 AM
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Darth Papa
Location: Yonder
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In my high school cafeteria, after school. On the edge of a little stage against the side of the cafeteria. I lasted literally three strokes.
This was with the girl I broke up with horribly who just a few weeks ago I reconnected with and cleaned up with. |
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10-03-2008, 05:52 AM
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Living in a Warmer Insanity
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Location: Yucatan, Mexico
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At home in my bedroom at my parents house, then on the couch, then on the dinning room table, then... It was the best weekend away for home my parents ever took, IMO.
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10-03-2008, 06:06 AM
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Functionally Appropriate
Location: Toronto
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In my college dorm room late one night.
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10-03-2008, 06:21 AM
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You had me at hello
Location: DC/Coastal VA
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In an apartment overlooking the confluence of the Neuse and Trent rivers.
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10-03-2008, 06:37 AM
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Husband of Seamaiden
Location: Nova Scotia
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Guest room at my parent's house when they were away and this girl I'd had a crush on for most of the year came down for the weekend. The bed creaked horribly and everytime it did, she would jump cause of a bad memory from when her dad had walked in on her and a boyfriend!
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I am a brother to dragons, and a companion to owls. - Job 30:29 1123, 6536, 5321 |
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10-03-2008, 08:13 AM
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Getting it.
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Location: Lion City
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On the laundry room floor next to the washer and dryer... not a shining moment in my life.
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10-03-2008, 08:29 AM
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She's Actual Size
Location: Central Republic of Where-in-the-Hell
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In his bed... it was an awesome bed. I was incredibly nervous, but it didn't hurt as much as I thought it would. Not a bad experience.
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10-03-2008, 09:15 AM
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Kick Ass Kunoichi
Location: Oregon
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In my bed, in my bedroom, in my parents' house, the summer after my freshman year of college. The bed was the only comfy part of the whole thing.
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10-03-2008, 09:37 AM
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Devoted
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Location: New England
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At a women's college, in her dorm room, while on a weekend trip with my (all-men's) singing group. I was a freshman. When we got on the bus to return home, we discovered that the non-freshmen in the group had been taking bets as to which freshman would score first. I came in second place.
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10-03-2008, 09:43 AM
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Living in a Warmer Insanity
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Location: Yucatan, Mexico
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Quote:
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I used to drink to drown my sorrows, but the damned things have learned how to swim- Frida Kahlo Vice President Starkizzer Fan Club |
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10-03-2008, 10:09 AM
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Eat your vegetables
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Location: Arabidopsis-ville
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In the arms of a trusted friend.
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10-03-2008, 10:28 AM
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Post-modernism meets Individualism AKA the Clash
Location: oregon
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i was in his room. nothing too exciting. it was pretty uneventful. i thought, this is it?? it sucked, actually.
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And the day came when the risk to remain tight in a bud was more painful than the risk it took to blossom. ~Anais Nin |
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10-03-2008, 10:44 AM
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Location: Iceland
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A hostel bed in New Orleans. I have no memory of the event.
Much prefer my memory from the 2nd time I did it, which was with ktsp in his bedroom in our grad-school town... on his birthday, a few days after we got together. 
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And think not you can direct the course of Love; for Love, if it finds you worthy, directs your course. --Khalil Gibran |
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10-03-2008, 11:13 AM
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Lover - Protector - Teacher
Location: Seattle, WA
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Some bedroom at a party.. after I drank way too much of some shitty liquor. Turns out, after inspection the next morning.. that she was also on her period.
I think the hangup about "virginity" is the reason why. If it didn't feel so important to get rid of, I might've waited. A few days, at least!
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10-04-2008, 04:10 AM
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Upright
Location: reykjavík, iceland
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the girl i was staying with´s bed, with her best friend
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10-06-2008, 11:24 AM
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comfortably numb...
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Location: upstate
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backseat of a 1936 plymouth, first year of college...
looked just like this one...(the car, not the lady... )
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10-06-2008, 04:12 PM
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Junkie
Location: At my daughter's beck and call.
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Out back of a lean-to on the top of Mt. Mansfield on a high school trip when I was 14. She did everything, I had NO clue what was
happening. Hadn't even pulled the goalie by that point.
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10-06-2008, 04:14 PM
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Leaning against the -Sun-
Super Moderator
Location: on the other side
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I'm thinking I will be the only one to say this:
On the terrace of the building he lived in. On the very top floor (15 floors high), outdoors, under a dark night sky. But it was anything but romantic.
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Whether we write or speak or do but look We are ever unapparent. What we are Cannot be transfused into word or book. Our soul from us is infinitely far. However much we give our thoughts the will To be our soul and gesture it abroad, Our hearts are incommunicable still. In what we show ourselves we are ignored. The abyss from soul to soul cannot be bridged By any skill of thought or trick of seeming. Unto our very selves we are abridged When we would utter to our thought our being. We are our dreams of ourselves, souls by gleams, And each to each other dreams of others' dreams. Fernando Pessoa, 1918 |
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