In your current relationship, who gave oral first?
 

I received first. I had a big problem with giving when I first started dating my partner.

She did. It was a complete surprise (well, by the time it happened it wasn't a surprise). That was 17 years ago.

I always do it first, often within 5 minutes of the introduction. It's pretty much my favorite thing to do.

I did. Then he reciprocated...then I reciprocated again...

*NOM NOM NOM*

Oh, hai!

*peers up from hungrily lapping at female crotch*

Oh, I usually go first.

*NOM NOM NOM*

...besides return those pesky videotapes.

Jean, fetch me my *NOM NOM NOM*, and wear heels.

I got what I paid for.

Ditto for me....I have thing about going first hehehehe

Look's like that for me, but I love to go sample the place I will visit later ;)

I can't remember... it was around 20 years ago.

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She did.

of course she did.

*sigh*

damn ex gf's

He did. :)

Shit, I don't remember. Maybe xeph does.

[shouting]

XEPHERYS!!!!! Who gave head first!?

[/shouting]

*patiently waits for reply*

I did. At length and repeatedly.
I'm greedy that way.

Me, a few times.

Mutual! First girl I've dated that likes a 69!

I have no idea. Probably me. I usually like to incorporate a little oral action into foreplay.

She gave first.

He did.

HAHAHA!

Say, she get one of your infamous "Shauk: I'm a mouthful!" t-shirts?

I also don't recall, it was 21 years ago. However, I remember the first time I gave her oral. She knew about blowjobs, but wasn't aware that cunnilingus even existed. When I began, she said "Wait, hold on, what are you.... ohhhhhh...." and came a few minutes later.

He did and it was freaking awesome.

He had me at the first lick.....

I got what psychologists call an "oral fixation," so I usually instigate first.

God, that was at least a thousands escapades from now...damn if I remember.

Hmmm, I honestly don't remember. That second date lasted entirely too long to remember such details...

Me. I made sure I'd found out her name first. :D

That sounds familiar...

'Twas the same for me.

It wasn't Mulva, was it?

Andrew Dice Clay moment:

Okay, Jesus... is NOBODY going to use the most childish response ever to this thread?

FINE, I'll do it.

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Aah, I feel better.

I said 'hello' first...
when I saw the word 'oral'
that is what I thought of first.

that might correlate to 'losing' my virginity at 22 years old...

oh hey! where did it go man...you lost it?
...look behind the couch maybe..

yeah..I've lost it for sure...
am I still cute?

That was so strange. At the moment I read this the lights dimmed and I heard a child cry in the distance...

Now I feel ... lost ... somehow ... :expressionless:

Me. But I'm kind of an addict. Usually once I get a taste of a girl, nothin' else happens until she pushes my head away and whimpers.

i gave first....she followed shortly thereafter!

Well, she put her tongue on it but then said, "Just Kidding!"

So I had to show her up. I usually go first. It's tons of fun making them squirm and gasp :D

Me.

I'm always first:)

He did. A lot. Which may be one reason I fell for him. He's a giver and previously, the tables were always turned - I was the giver.

I did, I thoroughly enjoy giving.

Crompsin - it is a rare occasion I can say that you rock with that response and I wish I had said it first!

my last relationship, she did it first. I try not to be too forward when i really like the girl so i usually go at her pace. But if i didnt do that, it would be mostly me initiating the act

She says she did.. 17 years later, I cannot remember, so better not to argue.

He did. Last relationship - I did. Before that - I did. Really seems to reflect the way the whole relationship goes. Going well this time round.

I gave first - then she returned the favour. In the long run it semms like I'm more likely to give her oral than receive. Think its an 5 to 1 ration.

well, i couldnt remember too...i remember it happened on different days and i remember exactly wha happened but i wasnt sure who's day was first so i asked healer and he confirmed that it was me...and he was wobbly until he got into a taxi. :D hahahahahahaha, it's funny now when you think about it :D

He did - it was only about an hour after our first kiss :D

I reciprocated soon after :)

Must have been a good kiss :)

She did. We were on our second date and so far all we had done so far was some passionate kissing and a little groping. After seeing a movie we were in my car and I was driving on a busy freeway on the way to a restaurant. Without warning she reached over and unzipped my fly. Then she took my penis into her mouth but without pulling my briefs down first. I'd never had oral sex performed on me with my shorts still on but I got really hard anyway.

I guess this was her idea of taking our new sexual relationship in stages.

Also I was terrified because the traffic on the freeway was moving at about 65 mph and I was terrified because the distraction was causing me to swerve around in my lane. Fortunately the exit for the restaurant came up and I was relieved to get off the freeway. She still had my cock in her mouth when we pulled into the parking lot of the restaurant and I parked in a far corner. Then I helped her get my briefs down and she really went to work. I wasn't able to climax probably because of the newness of our relationship; I thought it would be too soon to cum in her mouth.

I did want to return the favor, however, so I brought her head up and kissed her and then I gently moved her back into her seat and I reached over and reclined it a little. Then I unbuttoned and unzipped her jeans and tried to pull them down a little. This was going to be hard in the cramped confines of my small car. I got her jeans down to her knees and then I tried to go down on her. As hard as I tried I just couldn't get my tongue on her clit; there just wasn't enough room to manuever. So I started kissing her mound and sucking on her pubic hair.

I was able to rub her clit a little with my finger and I could feel her getting wet so I started fingering her pussy. After a few minutes of fingering her and sucking on her pubes she was really getting wet. Apparently it was time for her to take over because she started rubbing her clit while I continued to finger her.

She rubbed out a nice one.

I did for 2 years before she returned the favor.

I did. But I'm not a selfish lover. I love oral. I love my Girl and would do anything for her. Trust me, she returns the favors.

I gave first. Several times before she did. She just kind of had a stigma about it, unwarranted of course. She enjoys giving me head now. She still has moments where she doesn't like me cumming in her mouth but that's her choice; I appreciate the act itself.

She did. But it kind of hurt. A wee bit anyway...at first.
I did instead. To her. It was nice.

I Did. Been with my wife 13 years and she has never given me oral :grumpy: She just refuses and really won't give me a reason except to say "That's gross"

Now she doesn't even let me go down on her anymore.


I've kinda learned to live with it though.

DB