It's a real turn on for me to have my man wear my panties.
 

It's a real turn on for me to have my man wear my panties.

Sometimes I can get him to do it.

So men of TFP, do you ever wear your woman's panties?

Would you if she asked?

If yes, would it only be at home with her, or would you wear them out in public under your clothes?

Ladies of TFP, do you ever ask your man to wear your panties? Does he?

I don't do it but I know guys that do. According to a study in one of Tracey Cox's books; alot of guys do it. She also added that 75% of men who do it are heterosexual. It describes men that do it often do it because they are jealous of the sexual power that women hold.

My wife would ask so I don't have to worry about that. If I did it most certainly wouldn't be a turn-on.. as I'd split the things in so many pieces. So, basically, I don't ever see myself doing it.

I have never asked that nor do I think I will.
I do...however...wear his boxers and tightie whities...he finally made me buy my own :-p

It never really occurred to me that he would wear mine. Although to be honest I don't think he would fit.

If I was asked, sure, but it doesn't do anything for me. I imagine it's quite uncomfortable.

I doubt my wife would ask me, but I would if she asked. Anything to turn her on.

She did get me a few pairs of men's silk briefs, and I wear those for her. I think I'll put them on tonight.

I don't know...


I'm down to dress in drag. I've done it a lot. But I never go so far as to put on the underthings.


And I know for a fact that my girl wouldn't ask me to wear her panties. I'm hairy. It wouldn't look right.

If she asks me too, then yes. I'd imagine it'd be a bit uncomfortable for me though, what with the strap sticking in my butt crack and all....

My wife would lose much respect for me and I wouldnt get any booty for a while if she saw me in her panties, even if she asked me to. Its one of those questions she just expects a no answer to.

Never been asked.

I have worn some women's underwear in the past, but only as part of a stage costume, so ut wasn't a sexual thing.

If she wanted me to I guess I'd consider it in the privacy of our home, but I'm such a degree larger than her it'd be fatal to the underwear.

Panties are awesome, whether on her or me. She would never ask, but if she did, I most certainly would. She did buy me my own thongs, so I guess it's not out of the question.

I've done it, but it does absolutely nothing for me. Like King, I'm hairy so panties just look weird, but it turns her on and I get some good sex out of it, I don't see why not.

once got an old boyfriend to do it..i found it a bit of a turn-on but mostly it was just really sweet, we wore one anothers for a day...like walking in one another's shoes a little (he couldn't believe how uncomfortable mine were!) and a way of being close. weird. but nice x

I could probably be persuaded to wear just about anything if there was good sex at the end of it, (esp a BJ). Perhaps it could be considered a long drawn out form of foreplay.

He'd never fit, even though I wear only thongs. He'd not want to, and so it wouldn't be any kind of a turn on for us...but I can see it being playful fun. :)

No. I'm sure that if I did ask, he'd just feel my forehead and grab some Advil. They wouldn't fit him, anyway. There's nothing feminine about his figure.

Do you ever wear your woman's panties? No. I don't remember ever entertaining that particular fantasy (which is pretty mild compared to some of my favourite perversions).

Would you if she asked? She wouldn't ask.

LOL

Ah the male mind. I love it.

I'd be sort of confused if she asked me to put on her panties...

not to say that I wouldnt do it, but I couldnt fathom how it could excite her.

and i'd tell her that she's f*cking nuts if she wanted me to wear her panties all day!

Let's see.... Never have, never will.....Sorry, but I have no interest in that...lol

If i was asked... i would but only on my head and then i would be forced to wear them in public on my head next time she wanted to go somewhere nice. In a you asked for it sort of revenge. Kinda makes me wonder what the point of it would be. Is it to embarass him? Is it just to feel that much control over him? What is it?

Can I ask a followup question? What part of it turns you on? Is it his submissiveness? Your control over him? His confidence in his masculinity that wearing women's underwear won't bother him?

To think about this, because it's not something I'd actually think of myself, is actually a turn off. I don't find it attractive at all - I'm a girl. What would you find attractive about your man wearing something utterly feminine? For me it would put a damper on any sexual thoughts I might be entertaining. I like men because they're not women, you know?

I don't even look good in my underwear. Why would I want to try on hers?

I did once as a joke (because she asked) and I probably would again if she wanted me too, but I'm not sure about 'all day'

shit...i did that a few times back in high school. all day, to school. also wore chick's jeans a few times. i don't get the turn on sexually, but i did find it humorous to fuck with people's heads a bit.

Panty wearing Pansy
 

Fuck no!

The closest we have gotten to that is that my boyfriend likes to pretend my bras are hats...when I'm driving..in public. Lol.

I can't say I'd really be interested in seeing him in my panties, nor would they fit. I'd go for a nice pair of mens underwear on him any day. I wear his shorts a lot though and his boxers..they're comfy :)

'thong' is definitely not synonymous with 'panty', or 'panties'.

I've done alot worse than wear panties at a woman's request. In fact, I've put on panties at parties just for the fun in it all. I don't think I could wear them all day though. They're not very comfortable.

This topic is hot.

I don't think I'd want a guy in my underwear, they'd get all stretched out and stuff. And I wouldn't want to take away from his masculinity, that's what turns me on in the first place. I do though like wearing my guys boxers and t-shirts, so I don't know if it's a double standard or something. Maybe if I was to wear some boxerbriefs and then have him wear em? Might be kinda hot to think we were both wearing boxbriefs under our clothes... Hmm. Great topic.

bumping....

I love to see women in men's long tight briefs, so why not a man in women's panties. I guess for me, its the exploration of adventure. Pushing the boundaries and exploring the differences. I get bored very easily. And it insults my level of joy to suppress my inquisitiveness. Its not about humiliation or someone's level of security..its random acts of going where I havent gone before. And I like it when I find someone willing to go places with me.

haha wow this is so odd
i love it

I'd do it, sure. If I did it, I'd ask her to wear them for a day first, just for added silliness.

Adn yeah, when she wears my boxer briefs I want to get all in that. They look so much better on her than they do on me :D

and you should see when she packs too...damn fine looking that way too...

I have never done this and I can think of no circumstances in which I would agree to such a thing. To each their own...

I have trouble imagining being with a man who could wear my panties.:expressionless:
I'm afraid that most any male who could wear my underwear would also bring a statutory rape charge to the party.
That doesn't turn me on, so much as it brings on memories and a case of the giggles.:rolleyes:
On the other hand, I'd probably enjoy guiding that quick recovering mid-teen eagerness through some first time experiences.:thumbsup:

Lindy

tasineah, when it comes to bumping threads, you are the resurrection and the life...:)

i would do it if was asked to do it. why not it could be fun

I have wore women's underwear before, but only as a joke. It was never for more than a few seconds and never in a sexual way. Like the rest of the guys have said, I'm way to hairy to wear something like that and be sexy.

If it really turned her on? Maybe, but not in public or for long periods of time. Women's underwear does NOT look comfortable.

Smiling pretty at Lindy...you are so sweet...I am just new here and trying to learn...but thank you...

Thank you. Many people get it, but you said it well :)

I'm a 6'2 guy with hair. I weigh 215 lbs. I've even grown a beard recently because my wife likes the mountain man look, which honestly suits me. You know what though, I'd sport some frilly pink panties all day if she wanted me too. Who cares? Who's going to see them? Just as long as I can get my junk fit in there somehow, I'm fine with it. I ask my wife to do all kinds of silly crap for me, so if she wanted me in some pinkies, hey I'm game. It gets me laid, and you know, guys will do some real goofy shit to get laid. Shit I might even wear them just for a quick jerk while she's not looking. Ha.

oh Vigilante..your wife is one lucky lady!

LOL

Now if I can convince her to let me lead the wagon :D

:::biting my bottom lip and smiling:::::

sure, i'd think it was weird, but i'd do it. i'd be an asshole anda shitty boyfriend if i didn't.
i have a panty fetish for sure, never worn them or anything- that doesn't get me going.
i like it when a girl has a ton of em and is buying new ones all the time.

i've had a reocurring dream about being caught jerking with a pair.

1) im at work or something, there's a work party or everyone is staying late to get something finished. regardless it's too far for me to go home so hot, slightly older coworker tells me she can crash at her place. so she drives us home and she lets me take her bed and she sleeps on the couch/pullout whatever (who knows it was a dream). so i go in her room to pass out, and her bed is littered with underpants. NICE... but really, the last thing i want her to do is assume i'm messing about with her thongs. so even though im really curious to look at them and whatever, i just kinda gingerly flick them off the bed. so i'm pulling this little black lacey thing off, and the door flies open and it's her angry ass husband or bf. WHAT THE FUCK ARE YOU DOING WITH MY GIRL'S THONGS and she's there looking mortified. he's pissed as fuck. i'm stumbling to explain.

that dream never finished, but i assume i woke up.


2) im at my friend's appartment somewhere. she's super hot. anyway, i crash the night there on the couch or something, and she tells me she has to go to work but i can sleep in or do whatever and see myself out. after she leaves i get up to take a leak, in the bathroom there's a few pairs of her underwear.
ffffuuuuu. i look around, is she home? maybe she forgot something and is on her way back.
so i give it about 20 mins (probably like 3 secs in the dream) before tiptoeing into her bedroom.
im nervous as shit, my heart is pounding, im sweaty, my nerves are jiggly, but im hard as a rock.
what if she has a camera system set up to catch burglars?
nah she's not that smart.
what if her parents have one set up to protect their daughter? the landlord?
why would the parents be watching the bedrom?
what if the neighbours can see? ah the blinds are shut.
i feel like i'm 12 years old, the first time ever entering a girls' room. it's all pink and there are stuffed animals everywhere and it smells like girl.

where is her dresser, i locate it. i open the top drawer, nothing, shirts. second drawer, wtf, just bras. so as i'm closing it, the whole thing falls over on me, exploding shirts and bras and socks everywhere. i freak out.
trying to get everything back into order, and then the drawer box doesn't fit in the slider rail, it's stuck.
anyway, much to my near nightmare i get it back together.

determined, i head over to the next set of drawers and i open it it. there it is, the motherload. all sorts of shiny, frilly and lacy things looking back at me.
however, the dream starts to fade out about now.
the last thing i can remember is pulling out a turquoise pair and marvelling at it.
end.


weird though, this girl is really good looking but i've never had it on for her. dunno why. smoking hot and smart/cool/funny, jsut never really sexualized her in my mind. it was weird that that dream was about her.

I'd wear them if she asked me to, but only at home. I'd have no problem with it since I think its hot if she wears mine

besides, if she wore briefs, I imagine that the flap thing I never use would be a great place for her to hold her lipstick, lol

I never thought of that..but I think it would melt the lipstick, sweetie....

She could use it to hold cash :lol:

Brings new meaning to the term "meat wallet"

I'm a little over 5' tall and 110 pounds. I just meant that the male who would fit in my underwear might well be a fourteen-year-old boy. Not a grown man.

Lindy

I had worn it long ago - I did it as it was a turn on for me
She found it amusing - I wasnt sure whether it was a turn on for her

Panties turn me on - it is simple :)

If it did something for her I would. I already body wax and wear men's thongs to turn her on.

Oh my, getting a guy into panties? How interesting and delicious! Bump

If my SO asked me I would do it for sure. And if it turned her on I would wear them to Walmart and shop for her (as long as she has $ for bail) and she would think I was having the time of my life...weather I was or not! I never hold back from asking when things turn me on so I would never hold back for her.

No, I wouldnt do something like this if a girlfriend asked me.

I mean, no disrespect if youre into this sort of thing or ambivalent towards it, but I would feel incredibly uncomfortable wearing women's underwear and just feel ashamed of myself and also feel like a fool.

Anyway, a woman is most likely only going to be attracted to me if she likes very rugged and extremely masculine men (I genuinely think I may well have extra Y chromosones), so couldnt see it happening anyway.

I've worn them (after staying over for a couple of nights and needing to wear *something*) - they aren't very comfortable. Men bits don't really fit in there very well.

The only thing that would cause is low IQ and learning disabilities.

MSD: I can't stop laughing. I seriously can't get over the unintentional retard joke.

I have never been asked by a woman to wear her panties. If asked, I suppose I would do so, provide I could wedge myself into them. But my wife doesn't seem to be the sort who would find that anything but hilarious.

That said, the first girl I ever lived with, long term, was only a size or two smaller than I was (I myself was substantially smaller then than I am now), so occasionally, if I was about to run to work and had run out of underwear, I would snag a pair of her panties and wear those. It was never a big sexual thing with us, although she found it amusing, and vaguely erotic, and sometimes, if they were silky, I found it a little fun in a "have some naughty moments" kind of way.

From what I read (on wikipedia admittedly) having an XYY setup increases the risk of learning difficulties but people can be intellectually normal. It can lead to excessive aggression and bigger physical size though (my natural height is 6 3, and it is a series of well known incidents that made me 5 10, I can go into this in another thread so as not to threadjack this discussion if necessary)

Since I apparently had a just MENSA qualifying IQ when I was 22 and I had an IQ test, just imagine how clever I would be if I had XY chromosones!

I am not sure of the scientific position on this, but I have always suspected that although I may have been born with an X chromosone, the sheer levels of testostorone and masculinity that are pulsing through my body probably have transformed the X to a Y, making me YYY or possibly YYYY on a chromosonal level.

This may be unique? it certainly explains why I am the most rugged man ever.

_

Anyway, to get back to the first question, I definitely wouldnt wear a pair of ladies underwear. Its surprising to me how many women commenting here seem to either not be bothered or even like the idea, I would have expected for most women the idea of a man being less manly would be a turn off.

I did it once for a joke.

Walked into the living room wearing just her pants. Walked straight past her as if there was nothing going on - went into the kitchen to make a drink.

When she noticed and started laughing, I was like 'What are you laughing at?? ... Are you making fun of me ??'.

It was a funny moment.

If it makes you and/or her laugh then it was worth it.

Mine guy is enamored with my bra....luckily it doesn't fit him! :)

I'm going to be unbelievably disappointed it you don't elaborate. The only thing I've heard of that can cause significant permanent loss of height like that is degeneration of spinal connective tissue caused by either a degenerative disease or sudden compression due to ejecting from an airplane (source because I didn't believe it until I read that.)

The quadruple-Y thing is even more far-fetched. It's my understanding that XYY often goes without symptoms, but YYYY? That's a rare genetic defect that I think almost invariably leads to severe mental retardation.

(Wow...this in a panty thread?)

I should probably participate: I'd probably do it if it were a real turn on. I've never done it. Though I have dressed in drag and roleplayed as a woman named Nadia.

I suppose I mean to say that, yes, I'm experimental when I'm not repressed (i.e. rarely). I'm also comfortable in my masculinity. I'm pretty sure I'm solidly XY.

...Nadia_Guru? My god... were you like that stripper from Dude, Where's My Car?

No, the one in the bar in Total Recall.

It's not something I would do on my own..but if she asked me to...I guess I would. I mean I don;t think it is that big of a deal, especially if it help get her a little excited.

It's very easy for me from the outside not having a gf at the moment to say no way I'd never do that. But when you're truly in love I guess you gotta go the extra mile to make your lover happy...So who knows...

The fact of the matter is this. My GENETIC height is 6 3 or 6 4. My mother smoked when she was pregnant with me. It is scientifically proven that this leads to reducing the size of babies, so this too 2 inches off me. I also had measles pretty badly when I was 6 (I temporarily lost my sight, I had to miss school for 4 months, was in hospital, etc....) I didnt grow in height at all during the year after I was ill, this again accounts for 2 inches. Finally at 15 I was 5 10 and broke my hip, I didnt grow any taller after that... realistically from 15 an average male will grow at least 1 or 2 more inches.

So I am 5 10, when my natural and authentic height is at least 6 3

_

In terms of wearing women's underwear - I think there is also an issue that I have never dated a woman who is anywhere near my size.

That would make it even better. Pull her panties on and let them rip, flex your quads a bit and rip them some more, crack an Incredible Hulk joke then say "Fuck, I need a beer" and walk off.

Just not my thing.

But a number of girls obviously find it interesting... and thats something I find surprising.

Just couldnt see myself doing it though. If I was with a girl I really cared about, and it really got her going and she wanted me too... I guess I would think about it, but the fantasy's of mine she'd have to offer to carry out in return to persuade me to do that for her... well they would be numerous and intricate.

I don't really care for having a guy wear panties, but a school girls outfit i something I would like to see.

now there's just no way on earth I'd dress up as a schoolgirl, not even for Rachel Bilson

If I asked my (nonexistent) partner to wear women's panties, he'd say no and I'd probably get a look and/or a smack on the ass. That's just the type of guy I tend to date these days.

I do remember, however, when I was 17 and seeing this little punk/metalhead. He grabbed one of my thongs, put it on backwards, and ran out of the bedroom naked, save for my underwear. He then pulled the ass-floss tightly down the center of his balls and squeezed their base. He ran up to his friends and shouted "monkey brains!", showed everyone, and then gave my underwear back to me.

It only sticks out because I was so put off by the whole thing. It was an unattractive event-- one of several.

I have stretched out the wife's clothings by thinking they were mine trying to squeeze into them in dazed morning rush to work.
Socks....WTF too small, oh.......they're hers! Now a little ripped.
black underwear, wait what, hers.... oops, a little stretched out, kiss those goodbye.
Shirts....my head gets stuck in the neck hole, yep.....not my shirt.
So I think my squeezing into her clothes at O'dark:30 has ruined them and probably wont excite her.
Has she asked me? no. If she promised the most amazing sex ever, followed by a great dinner and having somebody else mow the lawn for me the next day. ID DO ANYTHING SHE ASKED!

what if she asks you to wear a g string?

Once, post coitus, I put on my wife's pink French knickers. When she noticed she laughed so i did a sexy dance for her. She told me to take 'em off in case I stretched them. She laughed so mission accomplished.

I'd wear them any time she asked. It's not a big deal. I'm also incredibly hairy but for her that's a turn on so wearing her pants could be turn on for her.

I once had a thong that my older female cousin gave me for Christmas. Weird eh? I wore them once. Most uncomfortable day ever. I don't know how girls can wear them.

So Lacey knickers yes. G strings a definite no.

Back in the day, a girl I dated asked me to wear her panties. Of course she wore thongs and boy shorts and she was tiny compared to me. I was willing to do pretty much anything in bed with her but I drew the line there. Later I did wear a guy thong for her though.

Now this is even more interesting. Enough from the guys. Ladies, lets hear some more from you on this topic!

I'm wearing my wife's right now. Wore a pair to work on Wedneday too.

Actually, for some of us who are turned on by guys in drag, hairy-ness is part of the package. In my case, what turns me on about a guy in drag is the juxtaposition of masculine and feminine. When I see a guy in what might be considered traditionally femme clothing, it only serves to highlight his masculinity more for me, which is a big turn on. I've never asked a guy to wear my panties or undergarments, since that's not really part of drag-play for me, but the more I think about it, it does sound like something interesting to try. If your partner is turned on by you dressing in drag, you might give the panties a try and see how she reacts. The juxtaposition of your hairy-ness and her panties just might do the trick. ...Lucky gal for having a guy willing to do some drag-play. :)

From an early age I've been facinated by womens clothes, including underwear. My wife likes me in guys g strings and other sexy guy garments. She doesn't yet know that I would really like to be wearing womens panties.

I've been reading some of these forums recently and I finally picked up the courage to buy myself some panties, I've been wearing them all day today (my wide is unaware, she has flu at the moment!)

I like the idea of a school girl uniform, thats a real turn on. I'd like to hear what other women like. I know my wife likes my pubic hair trimmed (not shaved - she says the re-growth is too scratchy).

My other concern is that we have two small children (under 5) and I don't think it would be healthy for them to see daddy in a school girl uniform or panties. Which really means I have to be careful, kids will wake up in the middle of the night!

Since you mention the juxtaposition of masculine and feminine, I'm curious as to where you would rate yourself on the Kinsey scale. Is it a mix of things you're interested in, or is it that a man who's confident in his sexuality is able to enjoy, at least for your sake, something decidedly non-masculine without feeling that it makes him less of a man or a heterosexual?
It's probably a good idea to keep the specifics from them, but it's completely healthy for kids to know that their parents are sexually active and to be exposed to non-mainstream preferences in a healthy and educational way.