I want answers.

[Prince]

Just some questions which have bothered me greatly for some time now. Fellow TFPers input and thoughts are welcomed.

1. Why do men get such a thrill out of squeezing breasts? I love it and I don't know why. It makes no sense to me. I see a nice pair and I just want to cup 'em and squeeze 'em. Why is that? Yes, I know we're visually stimulated creatures, but why would that in itself be stimulating (which, it is)? What is it about it exactly?

2. Why is it necessary for porn actors to inhale so that their teeth are touching and making this loud hissing sound. That's as best as I can describe it. Is normal breathing not sexy? I find this noise distracting. I mean maybe if you're in cold water or something, then I can understand. But in porn?

3. What's with the techno music in porn? What's with the music in general, in porn?

4. What is with the high heels? I see all this porn with a chick wearing nothing, but still has her shoes on. Was there really no time to kick the clearly uncomfortable shoes off? You can pierce a man with those things.

5. Why on Earth do the women in Japanese porn look and sound like they're hating every second of it and crying? It really makes the whole porn scene look more like rape and less like sex.

6. Oh, and this one really takes the cake for me: the porn scenes in which a woman's blowing a guy and he's forcing her to go down to the point where you can tell she's practically choking, and when he finally lets her go she's all gagging and red in the face, trying to smile like she enjoyed it but fuck no, who can enjoy that? I see more and more of that, and it disturbs me.

Enlighten me, mah pretties!

[vanblah]

Originally Posted by Prince

Just some questions which have bothered me greatly for some time now. Fellow TFPers input and thoughts are welcomed.

1. Why do men get such a thrill out of squeezing breasts? I love it and I don't know why. It makes no sense to me. I see a nice pair and I just want to cup 'em and squeeze 'em. Why is that? Yes, I know we're visually stimulated creatures, but why would that in itself be stimulating (which, it is)? What is it about it exactly?

Because they are errogenous zones. Most women enjoy having their breasts carressed (as opposed to pawed) so men have evolved to want to carress them. As for me, I am an ass-man. Breasts don't do much for me.

Originally Posted by Prince

2. Why is it necessary for porn actors to inhale so that their teeth are touching and making this loud hissing sound. That's as best as I can describe it. Is normal breathing not sexy? I find this noise distracting. I mean maybe if you're in cold water or something, then I can understand. But in porn?

It's called acting. Sometimes you have to exaggerate a movement or action while you are acting so that it comes across the camera. No pun intended.

Originally Posted by Prince

3. What's with the techno music in porn? What's with the music in general, in porn?

Beats me. Music is sometimes there to mask the other sounds ... camera motor, director coaching the actors etc.

Originally Posted by Prince

4. What is with the high heels? I see all this porn with a chick wearing nothing, but still has her shoes on. Was there really no time to kick the clearly uncomfortable shoes off? You can pierce a man with those things.

In some porn they use very small, short women so that guys dicks look bigger. The high heels are there to make the girls appear more normal sized.

Maybe some people find it sexy?

Originally Posted by Prince

5. Why on Earth do the women in Japanese porn look and sound like they're hating every second of it and crying? It really makes the whole porn scene look more like rape and less like sex.

Cultural thing most likely.

Originally Posted by Prince

6. Oh, and this one really takes the cake for me: the porn scenes in which a woman's blowing a guy and he's forcing her to go down to the point where you can tell she's practically choking, and when he finally lets her go she's all gagging and red in the face, trying to smile like she enjoyed it but fuck no, who can enjoy that? I see more and more of that, and it disturbs me.

Enlighten me, mah pretties!

Extreme fetish stuff sells. The gag thing is becoming a more usual thing though which is kind of off-putting for me. Max Hardcore was the king of this degrading act for a while.

[Willravel]

Originally Posted by Prince

1. Why do men get such a thrill out of squeezing breasts? I love it and I don't know why. It makes no sense to me. I see a nice pair and I just want to cup 'em and squeeze 'em. Why is that? Yes, I know we're visually stimulated creatures, but why would that in itself be stimulating (which, it is)? What is it about it exactly?

They are two erogenous targets that are right within reach, and are teaming with sensitive nerve endings. In sexuality, one does what one can to stimulate the most sensitive neurons, and some of them are located on or around the mamories. Also, many men are hard wired to pay special attnetion to them, as they, like wide hips, are a sign of fertility.

Originally Posted by Prince

2. Why is it necessary for porn actors to inhale so that their teeth are touching and making this loud hissing sound. That's as best as I can describe it. Is normal breathing not sexy? I find this noise distracting. I mean maybe if you're in cold water or something, then I can understand. But in porn?

Normal sex is sexy. Porn is trying desperately, yet futally, to involve you in the lovemaking of two other people. Exaggeration is necessary.

Originally Posted by Prince

3. What's with the techno music in porn? What's with the music in general, in porn?

It's supposed to be so crappy so as to avoid distraxcting you. That, and people love the camp value of the elevator music.

Originally Posted by Prince

4. What is with the high heels? I see all this porn with a chick wearing nothing, but still has her shoes on. Was there really no time to kick the clearly uncomfortable shoes off? You can pierce a man with those things.

They change the shape of the leg and glutes when a woman wears them, so as to make them look more shapely. It also makes them taller, which can be a sexual power game.

Originally Posted by Prince

5. Why on Earth do the women in Japanese porn look and sound like they're hating every second of it and crying? It really makes the whole porn scene look more like rape and less like sex.

Have you ever been with a woman from China? It's aparently normal. Also, thre are underlying rape fantasies built into askain culture because of the whole repressed women thing that's been going on there for hundreds of thousands of years.

Originally Posted by Prince

6. Oh, and this one really takes the cake for me: the porn scenes in which a woman's blowing a guy and he's forcing her to go down to the point where you can tell she's practically choking, and when he finally lets her go she's all gagging and red in the face, trying to smile like she enjoyed it but fuck no, who can enjoy that? I see more and more of that, and it disturbs me.

Again, power thing. In real sex the idea is for mutual pleasure. The fun is in sharing the experience. In porn, it's selfish because porn is inherently selfish and even lonely. Not only that, but some guys think that whole abuse thing is kinda funny, in the same way that Jackass is funny. It's not my bag, but to each their own. I just hope no one learns all their tricks from porn, becuase there could be some damaged throats out there.

If you have any more questions, I'm sure we'd all be happy to help.

[shesus]

I'm just picking a couple of questions because I have no idea about the other ones.

Originally Posted by Prince

Why do men get such a thrill out of squeezing breasts? I love it and I don't know why. It makes no sense to me. I see a nice pair and I just want to cup 'em and squeeze 'em. Why is that? Yes, I know we're visually stimulated creatures, but why would that in itself be stimulating (which, it is)? What is it about it exactly?

I didn't think it was just men. I love squeezing breasts too. Just something about the feeling in the hand. And of course, as a woman, well I love having them squeezed. Luckily mine are with me all the time.

Originally Posted by Prince

What is with the high heels? I see all this porn with a chick wearing nothing, but still has her shoes on. Was there really no time to kick the clearly uncomfortable shoes off? You can pierce a man with those things.

High heels, as was mentioned earlier, change the shape of the legs. Not only that it improves posture. Therefore the woman appears taller, more muscular, and is prevented from any type of slouching. At least that is the goal. And not all high heels are uncomfortable. I love wearing a few pair of mine all the time. I've only worn them a couple of times during sex. I haven't pierced a guy yet, although I much prefer to have my shoes off so I can curl my toes easier.

Originally Posted by Prince

Oh, and this one really takes the cake for me: the porn scenes in which a woman's blowing a guy and he's forcing her to go down to the point where you can tell she's practically choking, and when he finally lets her go she's all gagging and red in the face, trying to smile like she enjoyed it but fuck no, who can enjoy that? I see more and more of that, and it disturbs me.

That is horrible and I definitely wouldn't be smiling until I was slapping that guy across the face. I don't mind if a hand is placed lightly on top of my head, but if you are not letting me up...all bets are off. I will be interested to see if guys find this sexy.

[1010011010]

Originally Posted by Prince

1. Why do men get such a thrill out of squeezing breasts? I love it and I don't know why. It makes no sense to me. I see a nice pair and I just want to cup 'em and squeeze 'em. Why is that? Yes, I know we're visually stimulated creatures, but why would that in itself be stimulating (which, it is)? What is it about it exactly?

WELL. Having watched my son breastfeed, I think that the satisfaction from jiggling some jubblies has less to do with eroticism and more to do with... Well, but what about people that weren't breastfed as children? Are they less interested in breasts?

I dunno, but I don't think the sexual aspect is that important.

[Leto]

Originally Posted by willravel

Have you ever been with a woman from China? It's aparently normal. Also, thre are underlying rape fantasies built into askain culture because of the whole repressed women thing that's been going on there for hundreds of thousands of years.

yes, and never heard that stuff that's in the video.

In fact my experience with chinese gf's has been that they are NOT repressed, rather they are so in the face of their parent's wishes, that they tend to have stronger personalities. By no means have my gfs been retiring little prissies.

And they don't make those strange japanese porn noises either.... I think it's over-acting.

[n0nsensical]

Well, I think porn music is so bad because the copyright holders of legitimate music usually won't license it for use in porn movies, or if they would, perhaps it would be prohibitively expensive, so they just get some cheap stock crap with a liberal license. As for why there is any music at all, I'm not sure, I certainly prefer porn with no music...and no talking, and no plot or anything at all to distract from the sex. Fortunately we have Red Light District. ;p

[jorgelito]

Originally Posted by willravel

Have you ever been with a woman from China? It's aparently normal. Also, thre are underlying rape fantasies built into askain culture because of the whole repressed women thing that's been going on there for hundreds of thousands of years.

This is just uninformed. First of all, relating Chinese women to Japanese women is just poor methodology. It's like comparing apples and oranges.

Can you please provide some documentation, links, sources that support your assertion that there are underlying rape fantasies built into Asian culture because of the whole repressed women thing that's been going on there for hundreds of thousands of years? (Didn't know that they document that suff back hundreds of thousands of years, by the way, would love to see the documentation).

None of the Chinese girls I've been with have behaved like Japanese porn stars. But then again, they weren't Japanese porn stars. There was this one white chick however.....

To answer the original OP, I would guess that it's a fetish thing. I have seen some similar things on the Wayside here that weren't Japanese. And like you pointed out the chicks getting gagged don't seem to be enjoying it either so I don't think it's just the Japanese stuff.

[Willravel]

Originally Posted by jorgelito

This is just uninformed. First of all, relating Chinese women to Japanese women is just poor methodology. It's like comparing apples and oranges.

I was talking about asian porn in general. I've dated both, but most of them were americanized. The least americanized happened to be Chinese, so I used her as an example.

Originally Posted by jorgelito

Can you please provide some documentation, links, sources that support your assertion that there are underlying rape fantasies built into Asian culture because of the whole repressed women thing that's been going on there for hundreds of thousands of years? (Didn't know that they document that suff back hundreds of thousands of years, by the way, would love to see the documentation).

Don't mince words. The gender repression is hundreds of thousands of years old. The rape thing is recent. I'll see if I can find anything so far as documentation explaining the idea of rape in asian sexuality.

[Sage]

1. Why do men get such a thrill out of squeezing breasts? I love it and I don't know why. It makes no sense to me. I see a nice pair and I just want to cup 'em and squeeze 'em. Why is that? Yes, I know we're visually stimulated creatures, but why would that in itself be stimulating (which, it is)? What is it about it exactly?

I think it's because you can't squeeze a vagina. Breasts are very obvious, totally celebrated, generally revered sex symbols. So, it's like "OOOo... breast make me think about sex, and they're right there... I think I'll squeeze em!" Plus they're fun to play with.

2. Why is it necessary for porn actors to inhale so that their teeth are touching and making this loud hissing sound. That's as best as I can describe it. Is normal breathing not sexy? I find this noise distracting. I mean maybe if you're in cold water or something, then I can understand. But in porn?

Bad acting in my expierence. The best porn, for me, is porn where the woman is really enjoying herself (yes, such porn does exist!) and doesn't resort to making really silly noises. Also, that enormously long dick might have just crash landed into her cervix and she can't scream "GODDAMNIT Daymion, get that fire hose out of my crotch!" because that's not what she's getting paid for.

3. What's with the techno music in porn? What's with the music in general, in porn?

So you can't hear the guy holding the mike boom making totally inappropiate comments under his breath.

4. What is with the high heels? I see all this porn with a chick wearing nothing, but still has her shoes on. Was there really no time to kick the clearly uncomfortable shoes off? You can pierce a man with those things.

It's a fetish thing. Wearing heels while walking puts one's posture in a crazily sexual postion- ass and boobs jutted out, sashay to the walk, that kinda thing. The heels worn in porn are also usually indicitave of stripper heels, yet another fantasy-satisfaction tactic.

5. Why on Earth do the women in Japanese porn look and sound like they're hating every second of it and crying? It really makes the whole porn scene look more like rape and less like sex.

Apparently, as I've heard, the culture in Japan has required that women not show any interest in sex, not want to have sex, and indeed, actively express dislike of sex for purposes of seeming "proper." I don't remember where I heard this, however, so don't quote me on that, but I know it was from a somewhat reputable source. I don't feel like reading the entire Wiki article on Japan to find out if I'm right.

6. Oh, and this one really takes the cake for me: the porn scenes in which a woman's blowing a guy and he's forcing her to go down to the point where you can tell she's practically choking, and when he finally lets her go she's all gagging and red in the face, trying to smile like she enjoyed it but fuck no, who can enjoy that? I see more and more of that, and it disturbs me.

I think that dominating a woman in a sexual manner is a fantasy that is somewhat common among men, because it's taboo. I'm not talking about forcible sexual acts, just... being dominant. The head grab cock gag is the easiest way to show sexual dominance in porn without getting into a heap of trouble. Personally, I like being gagged in this manner, but that's just me.

[waltert]

1) im sure its for good luck

2) because porno actors suck, and I imagine that they dont enjoy the sex they're having, so they make noises to pretend like they are having fun.

5) really dunno, but its pretty creepy. all of their cartoon stuff has the same theme...and most of the guys that watch that stuff are "off", if you know what i'm saying.
6) yeah, thats gross. The girls doing it are usually ugly too, and it certainly doesnt help when some guys tool gets jammed in her face, making her drool on her self, turn red and gag

[ratbastid]

You've gotten some really good answers. I only have anything to add to a few of them:

Originally Posted by Prince

3. What's with the techno music in porn? What's with the music in general, in porn?

Porn is all about profit. Higher profits require lower costs. Bad porn music can be made by one guy on a laptop. Good porn music actually requires one or more musicians, each of whom must be paid. Hence the proliferation of bad porn music.

Originally Posted by Prince

6. Oh, and this one really takes the cake for me: the porn scenes in which a woman's blowing a guy and he's forcing her to go down to the point where you can tell she's practically choking, and when he finally lets her go she's all gagging and red in the face, trying to smile like she enjoyed it but fuck no, who can enjoy that? I see more and more of that, and it disturbs me.

There's been a move in porn over the last several years to more and more hardcore images. Twenty years ago, just the existence of porn was shocking and arousing. The advent of the internet and the resulting ubiquity of porn has caused some producers to try to distinguish themselves by being more and more "hard"--degradation and humiliation, which were once fairly isolated fetishes, have become more and more prominent in porn. Many performers are rejecting it these days. With any luck we'll see a swing away from this sort of thing.

[mixedmedia]

I have heard before that Japanese women are, culturally-speaking, not "supposed" to enjoy sex (although I'm sure they do) and that that is why they do not appear to be enjoying sex in Japanese porn and hentai.

Which reminds me of that hilarious scene in Lost in Translation when the prostitute is sent to Bill Murray's room.

[Ustwo]

Originally Posted by ratbastid

There's been a move in porn over the last several years to more and more hardcore images. Twenty years ago, just the existence of porn was shocking and arousing. The advent of the internet and the resulting ubiquity of porn has caused some producers to try to distinguish themselves by being more and more "hard"--degradation and humiliation, which were once fairly isolated fetishes, have become more and more prominent in porn. Many performers are rejecting it these days. With any luck we'll see a swing away from this sort of thing.

So that explains why I can't climax anymore without killing a puppy!

I actually know a woman who gets off on the 20 guy gang bang, use a girl like a ragdoll porn. I find it a major turn off and still don't quite get how this woman likes it.

[xepherys]

Originally Posted by willravel

Don't mince words. The gender repression is hundreds of thousands of years old. The rape thing is recent. I'll see if I can find anything so far as documentation explaining the idea of rape in asian sexuality.

Isn't it mincing words to say anything about any culture is "hundreds of thousands of years old"? Just thought it was worth mentioning. In fact the oldest recorded Chinese dynasty began roughly 2000BC (Xia Dynasty) and is considered 'pre-historic'. The Bronze Age is thought to have only started ~3500BC. I hardly think 5500 years (at best) of cultural history can equate to hundreds of thousands of years.

< /word mincing >

Originally Posted by Ustwo

I actually know a woman who gets off on the 20 guy gang bang, use a girl like a ragdoll porn. I find it a major turn off and still don't quite get how this woman likes it.

Why wouldn't she like it? Everyone is aroused by SOMETHING that someone else is not. A girl getting aroused by gangbang, ragdoll group action is no more or less weird than a guy who likes watching other guys (some people are, after all, inclined to like the same gender). Some guys think it's nasty to watch porn that has a guy banging a girl becuase they "don't want to see a dick while the get off". Some people like partner swapping and some people just like having sex with their partner in the presence of another couple (sometimes even with no interaction at all). Some people get off on beastiality, rape or torture. Some people get off on pregnant woman. Some on redheads, some on blondes. *shrug*

It's not ours to understand the inner workings of fellow human beings.

[Willravel]

Originally Posted by xepherys

Isn't it mincing words to say anything about any culture is "hundreds of thousands of years old"? Just thought it was worth mentioning. In fact the oldest recorded Chinese dynasty began roughly 2000BC (Xia Dynasty) and is considered 'pre-historic'. The Bronze Age is thought to have only started ~3500BC. I hardly think 5500 years (at best) of cultural history can equate to hundreds of thousands of years.

< /word mincing >

Thousands? I guess I was exaggerating a bit.

[ro_square]

Originally Posted by Prince

5. Why on Earth do the women in Japanese porn look and sound like they're hating every second of it and crying? It really makes the whole porn scene look more like rape and less like sex.

6. Oh, and this one really takes the cake for me: the porn scenes in which a woman's blowing a guy and he's forcing her to go down to the point where you can tell she's practically choking, and when he finally lets her go she's all gagging and red in the face, trying to smile like she enjoyed it but fuck no, who can enjoy that? I see more and more of that, and it disturbs me.

5. -- I can't remember where I heard or read this, but I'm pretty sure that, in bukkake, the more disgusted a woman looks, the more of a turn-on it is. This probably extends somewhat to the rest of Japanese porn.

Why, I couldn't say.


6. -- I don't know but it REALLY pisses me off when I see a guy pushing a girl's head down to give him oral, or in the midst of it starts trying to control her head to go faster/further. If someone did that to me I would get incredibly angry...

[KellyC]

5. There's also the notion of dominance for the man while performing. I'm no expert about the Japanese culture, but from what I understand, it's a pretty repressive culture and every body is expected to conform. Given the situation a person can't feel like an individual who has control over himself or any thing. So porn also caters to people (men in this case) who fantasize about being in control/dominance over something. So the woman is submissive to the man who is in total control of her. Don't quote me on this though, I could be waaayyy off base.

[DaElf]

After I read the whole repressed women for HUNDREDS OF THOUSANDS OF YEARS that willravel said I nearly fell out of my chair laughing. Not sure why. Then he says he may have exagerated a little ROFL! T-Rex holdin those women down will?

[777]

Originally Posted by n0nsensical

As for why there is any music at all, I'm not sure, I certainly prefer porn with no music...and no talking, and no plot or anything at all to distract from the sex.

I remember hearing recently from a porn director on tv that there are two differences as to why men and women like porn. For guys, it's all about the sex (as nOnsencical was kind enough to ilistrate), and for gals, they are interested as to why these two people are sexually atracted to one another (and the sex that follows, of course).

And in another study (as well as a poll on TFP) shows that everyone loves lesbian porn

[DaElf]

I don't love lesbian porn...Does that mean I'm weird?

[Painted]

I have a question, but it's probably been answered on this forum 200 times already. Oh, whatever, I'll shoot:

Why do all the guys in porn have to have big cocks?

[analog]

Originally Posted by Prince

Why do men get such a thrill out of squeezing breasts? I love it and I don't know why. It makes no sense to me. I see a nice pair and I just want to cup 'em and squeeze 'em. Why is that? Yes, I know we're visually stimulated creatures, but why would that in itself be stimulating (which, it is)? What is it about it exactly?

Mmmmmmmmm boobies....

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...I'm sorry, what?

[MathGuru]

1. Men like breasts for a ton of different reasons. Personally, I just find that there is something deep within my psyche that drives me to really get turned on by breasts. It may have a lot to do with the view of women as the bearer of life and such and breasts are a symbol of that (being our very first instinctive form of sustenance)... for instance when our son was born, the first thing he did when my wife held him was open his mouth as wide as he could and find her breast. Furthermore, they are just pleasing to look at... being all curvy and parabaloid like. Hell, look at modern architecture... car design in particular. It's just hardwired into us.

2. Acting. Trying to sound like they are REALLY enjoying what they are doing even though they are just earning a living. This is really unappealing but completely understandable. As previously pointed out, though, there exists porn where the actors are truly enjoying themselves, but it's rare... but it really is the best. ;-)

3. Ambiance AND, as previous posters have pointed out, masking other noises that the editors are too lazy to edit out.

4. Acting. I've had a lot of sex in my life and pretty much can't ever remember high heels having much to do with it... maybe one time in a bathroom at the Olive Garden, but not normally. I guess after having done a crazy amount of polling and statistical analysis (yeah right), the porn industry has come to the conclusion that high heels are necessary to turn men on... I guess they forgot to poll me. =)

5. I stay away from the purposefully "ethnic" porn for that reason: oftentimes the directors force the actors to play to the stereotypes of their own ethnicity... this makes porn a lot more degrading than it has to be and very unappealing to me. So I avoid it.

6. Sometimes my wife likes a little roughness in sex... and it's actually hard to oblige her that as I'm really docile by nature. The way she puts it, though, the occasional rough sex is like spices on good food... if it's done just enough but not too much it makes it so very delicious. However, the recent trend in pornography of "gagging" and "gaping" is REALLY horrible in my opinion... as Ratbastid pointed out, I agree that this trend has a lot to do with the fact that there is SO MUCH porn that is so easily accessible (having been proliferated by the internet) that natural competition has led pornographers trying to "one up" each other. IMO it's just gone way overboard, and I would hope that the porn market responds to this by just not buying it, thereby curbing it... that probably won't ever happen though. :-/ BUT, I suppose to each his/her own... I just find it particularly horrible.

[surferlove007]

Originally Posted by Prince

Just some questions which have bothered me greatly for some time now. Fellow TFPers input and thoughts are welcomed.

1. Why do men get such a thrill out of squeezing breasts? I love it and I don't know why. It makes no sense to me. I see a nice pair and I just want to cup 'em and squeeze 'em. Why is that? Yes, I know we're visually stimulated creatures, but why would that in itself be stimulating (which, it is)? What is it about it exactly?

Enlighten me, mah pretties!

I enjoy having mine played with, my previous partners tended to be ass-men so my breast didn't get much attention. Although they've grown a bit more since coming college, maybe because of the birth control and my current partner enjoys them which makes me feel good. I sometimes worry that they're too small but not too much. I like touching mine on occasion, feels nice and soft. Although now they're sore so no touchie
They remind me of water balloons. I guess at some point they do leak haha.

[Sugarmouse]

in my humble opinion

[1. Why do men get such a thrill out of squeezing breasts? I love it and I don't know why. It makes no sense to me. I see a nice pair and I just want to cup 'em and squeeze 'em. Why is that? Yes, I know we're visually stimulated creatures, but why would that in itself be stimulating (which, it is)? What is it about it exactly?

I love to cup and gently squeeze breasts,and flesh in general...its nice, its intimate, appreciation of the body and the woman.(I am bisexual)

2. Why is it necessary for porn actors to inhale so that their teeth are touching and making this loud hissing sound. That's as best as I can describe it. Is normal breathing not sexy? I find this noise distracting. I mean maybe if you're in cold water or something, then I can understand. But in porn?


I alwyas breath heavily durinig sex, breathing heavily and uncontrollably when you are turned on is normal i would say, it produces a hissing sound which i guess is exaggerated along with other things, in porn
3. What's with the techno music in porn? What's with the music in general, in porn?

Techno music???noooooo! Sexy music in porn, yes! (think the from dusk till dawn Salma Hayek scene!) Its a turn on.

4. What is with the high heels? I see all this porn with a chick wearing nothing, but still has her shoes on. Was there really no time to kick the clearly uncomfortable shoes off? You can pierce a man with those things.


hmmm... i am unsure. High ,strappy, shinyheels are not worn for any reason other than to look sexy...shoes are a fetishised product....dominatrix-esque item...the danger of them is sexy in itself. plus they make legs longer and define the calf muscles more.make a woman look more in control of herself.

5. Why on Earth do the women in Japanese porn look and sound like they're hating every second of it and crying? It really makes the whole porn scene look more like rape and less like sex.

Rape is a veeeeeery common fantasy.fact.but Icannot remember viewing japanese porn! apart from toon porn.

6. Oh, and this one really takes the cake for me: the porn scenes in which a woman's blowing a guy and he's forcing her to go down to the point where you can tell she's practically choking, and when he finally lets her go she's all gagging and red in the face, trying to smile like she enjoyed it but fuck no, who can enjoy that? I see more and more of that, and it disturbs me.


as above.man in control,woman submissive and obedient. a sex slave on a media format, attracts the mass viewer.I dont like tosee that.,but I have had it done to me and as long as I am cuddled afterwards and I trust the guy, its fine.