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JimmyTheHutt 04-01-2004 11:08 PM

What to do?
 
So here is a basic rundown of the situation:

I graduated from college three months ago. The job I thought I was going to have evaporated into thin air due to a personality conflict. I currently have no gainful employment.

Recently (like last week), I interviewed with a defense contractor in Scottsdale. I think it went pretty well, but I'm not sure. On the other hand, I also interviewed with a software company in Tucson. The software company is only hiring for tech support. It's a low paying sure thing, but it is a sure thing. However, my time window is narrowing rapidly. I need to decide if I'm going to commit to this company and move to Tucson, or hang my ass out for the possibility of Scottsdale. Any suggestions?

Veritas en Lux!
Jimmy The Hutt

Rodney 04-01-2004 11:17 PM

It may be harsh, but in this day and age you've gotta look out for yourself.

Take the job in Tucson. Don't move there permanently yet; rent the cheapest possible room, and keep your stuff either in your old place or in storage. Maintain your old address or have somebody forward calls for you, or have them forwarded. If the defense job appears, grab it and kiss Tucson goodbye.

And if you feel bad about this, know that employers play the opposite side of the game all the time -- keep qualified applicants on the hook while they see if they can find somebody equally qualified for less money, and other such tactics. Just remove the software firm from your resume and tell future employees that you spent the X month gap in your resume traveling.

Bobaphat 04-01-2004 11:33 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Rodney
It may be harsh, but in this day and age you've gotta look out for yourself.

Take the job in Tucson. Don't move there permanently yet; rent the cheapest possible room, and keep your stuff either in your old place or in storage. Maintain your old address or have somebody forward calls for you, or have them forwarded. If the defense job appears, grab it and kiss Tucson goodbye.

And if you feel bad about this, know that employers play the opposite side of the game all the time -- keep qualified applicants on the hook while they see if they can find somebody equally qualified for less money, and other such tactics. Just remove the software firm from your resume and tell future employees that you spent the X month gap in your resume traveling.

I completely agree with this. Take the sure thing and wait to see if something better comes available. If it does, don't feel any obligation to stay on with the sure thing if you get a better offer.

JimmyTheHutt 04-02-2004 09:26 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Rodney
It may be harsh, but in this day and age you've gotta look out for yourself.

Take the job in Tucson. Don't move there permanently yet; rent the cheapest possible room, and keep your stuff either in your old place or in storage. Maintain your old address or have somebody forward calls for you, or have them forwarded. If the defense job appears, grab it and kiss Tucson goodbye.

And if you feel bad about this, know that employers play the opposite side of the game all the time -- keep qualified applicants on the hook while they see if they can find somebody equally qualified for less money, and other such tactics. Just remove the software firm from your resume and tell future employees that you spent the X month gap in your resume traveling.

That's what I was afraid of. Looks like I have some packing to do. And now it looks like I'll never get away from Tech support. :)

Thanks for the advice!

Veritas en Lux!
Jimmy The Hutt

Rodney 04-03-2004 09:47 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by JimmyTheHutt
That's what I was afraid of. Looks like I have some packing to do. And now it looks like I'll never get away from Tech support. :)
Think positively. The other job may come through. And if it doesn't, keep looking.

Cynthetiq 04-03-2004 10:27 PM

bird in the hand...

good luck

JimmyTheHutt 04-04-2004 12:07 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Rodney
Think positively. The other job may come through. And if it doesn't, keep looking.
We'll know within the next 5 days.

But just in case, I'm getting packed up.

Veritas en Lux!
Jimmy The Hutt

JimmyTheHutt 04-04-2004 12:08 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Cynthetiq
bird in the hand...

good luck

My thought exactly.

Veritas en Lux!
Jimmy the Hutt

JimmyTheHutt 04-06-2004 01:05 AM

New twist, folks: the job in Tucson has just evaporated.

So now I am well and truly fucked.

Veritas en Lux!
Jimmy The Hutt

World's King 04-06-2004 02:03 PM

Then you be going to Scottsdale.

Unless...

JimmyTheHutt 04-06-2004 02:28 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by The Original King
Then you be going to Scottsdale.

Unless...

Unless what I expect to happen goes ahead and happens. Crap.

Veritas en Lux!
Jimmy The Hutt

Cynthetiq 04-06-2004 05:27 PM

it is part of life. it tosses curve balls, fast balls, spit balls.

you can either wait them out and hope for a walk, but sometimes you just get plain struck out.

you may just have to take a swing at something and hope for the best.

JimmyTheHutt 04-07-2004 12:51 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Cynthetiq
it is part of life. it tosses curve balls, fast balls, spit balls.

you can either wait them out and hope for a walk, but sometimes you just get plain struck out.

you may just have to take a swing at something and hope for the best.

I really need to up my hitting average then. :)

Just got the word from some of my associates up for positions at the same firm. The calls have already gone out. I didn't get one.

Back to...well, shit, I didn't have anything to begin with....

Veritas en Lux!
Jimmy The Hutt

Mephisto2 04-07-2004 02:36 AM

Why not contact the defense company and ask them how you're standing with regards to the other job.

Just be honest. Tell them the situation.

There's no harm in doing that.


Mr Mephisto

qtpye4u84 04-07-2004 03:47 AM

I agree with Rodney!!!! thats some thing i would do.


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