The Big O

[Atropos4]

Just Curious


What do you prefer the Big O via G spot, clit, or oral stimulation?

While having sex ? Or do you enjoy doing it yourself better?

Can you O w/ any or all of above during sex?

I can all of the above.
I prefer clit O's during sex w/ me on top.
I've only G O'd a couple of times and I didn't enjoy it as much as the other. Maybe we just don't know the right technique...Actually , when it happens it kinda surprises me....So I don't really know how it happens

[snowy]

Generally, I come from vaginal stimulation, not particularly clit/g-spot stimulation. That's what I O with during sex. If I do it myself--it's just clitoral stimulation. I can also come with oral sex. Yay for orgasms!

I enjoy all but prefer intercourse, simply for the intimacy of being close to my partner and the fact that the orgasm is easier and more frequent.

[cheerios]

oh man, the other night juan had me so riled up all he had to do was slip 1 finger in, and i was gone. he had the BIGGEST grin on his face! </OffTopic>

to answer the question, I go back and forth depending on the mood, but most days, vaginal's #1 in my book. multi's are a LOT easier for me, that way. it's less overwhelming, I think. i definitely prefer having a partner to being on my own. even having an audience is better than being by myself. that's just lonely.
I can orgasm pretty easily, through solely vaginal, ESPECIALLY sitting on top. I dunno if it's just the shape of the bf's penis, or WHAT, but lord, that's like 10x easier to get off from there. :shrug:

[galaxygirl]

My favorite way to orgasm is vaginally (G spot) with my partner. Posiotn doesn't seem to matter, although rear entry really gets me screaming. I can also oragsm from being touched in other places - my nipples, having my toes sucked. Dicovered last night that the soft underside of my arm is pretty sensitive (especially since i8 had just enough razor stubble to make it feel all tingly.)

[sierra2774]

I can pretty much do it anyway and long as I want to! But I prefer it Vaginally, meaning G spot and during intercourse. That is the most intense for me.
I can come orally too but usually it takes awhile, I like something hard in there!

[*Nikki*]

I had one of the best orgasms ever during anal sex. It was incredible. Although I have to have clit stimulation of some kind. Tounge, Hand, Vibrator. But if I am with the right man, he can make me cum no matter what he is doing. I love a man who knows a woman's body better then his own, and all I have to do is lay back and enjoy.

[little limey]

It all depends what kind of a modd I'm in. Can I ask, how exactly do you find the g-spot? If i'm laying down is it up or down? I have had g-spot orgasms before but I didn't give them to myself. So i'd like to know my body a little better.
G-spot orgasms are tiring! They are so intense. Those are the only ones that women actually cum to right? Like female ejaculation.
I'm fine with making myself orgasm. I like it best when my partner is watching and is laying next ot me or on me.

[way2young]

I'll let you know when it happens. It kinda puts a whole new meaning to the word 'screwed'. ;-p

[Atropos4]

G-Spot Stimulation
Often described as the female equivilent of the male prostate, the g-spot (Grafenberg Spot) is a small mass of tissue about the size of a small pea that is located approximately two inches from the opening of the vagina. Though it's exact position varies from woman to woman, it has been shown that all women have a g-spot, although not all women experience pleasure when it is stimulated. In fact, in some women, direct stimulation of the g-spot causes the urge to urinate. For those who find pleasure in g-spot stimulation (the majority of women), it can be the cause of intensely pleasurable orgasms.

To locate your g-spot, try lying on your stomach with your hips pointed up in the air. Slowly guide one or two fingers inside the vagina and begin to explore the vaginal walls by pressing down lightly with your fingertips. When you locate the small bump, lightly stroke it over and over with your fingertips. Don't be surprised if you ejaculate a little clear fluid during orgasm - this is normal as g-spot stimulation has been directly linked to female ejaculation.

cousrtesy of the following web site. Hope this helps anyone that's in the dark about orgasims and how to achieve them.
http://www.female-masturbation-ejacu...echniques.html


little limey- if your lying on your back it would be found "up" as you put it....

[Angel]

I'm a multiple...I like it all.
I find my favorite is me on top. However being bent over and entered from behind is great. It is all good. Just depends on the mood of my partner and myself. Having a G-spot and Clit O at the same time is the best!

Atropos4...Great info on the G-spot. Too many ladies miss out on that wonderful orgasm! Many men and women can benefit from that little tidbit of info.

[redrose2]

Ladies HELP!!! If you have read some of my other posts maybe you know I'm having a little trouble with getting my man to cum quick since he has the endurance of a marathon runner. Recently we tried having sex with me on top and well... I'm REALLY new at this and it didn't seem to be working at all.. for either of us. Well I mean it all feels good to me no matter what postion. Anyway I still know I was doing it WAY wrong cause I was getting really tired really quick. Neither of us have watched many porno's nor do we have any prior sexual experiences... so female on top is kind of a mystery. Where do you ladies put your legs? Around his thighs or waist or what? And how the heck do you move up and down... bounce? I mean I see what he does when he is on top, but I can't quite duplicate that for when I am on top. somebody help this newb

[redrose2]

OH my bad... I forgot to talk about the big O. Well he works wonders with his tongue so I gotta say that's my favorite. Two three times a day since we have a long distance relationship and it's a while before I see him again. Anyway I've had clitoral assisted vaginal O's but nothing purely vaginal and certainly not the G'spot. Usually I make him stop cause I feel like I'm gonna pee I know that is a sign sometimes that you are hitting the right place, but I know it isn't the be all and end all for all ladies.

[G0dd3ss]

Hmmm...that's a tough one. I can have all three types. Certainly clitoral is easiest for me to achieve during vaginal sex. Postion really doesn't matter.

My favorite type of orgasm is the "G Spot" orgasm. But that doesn't come as easily...no pun intended

I really have a hard time getting off via tounge action. It literally takes almost 1/2 hour to an hour. I feel too bad to ask my boy for it...although he loves it and says he never minds to spend the time. These orgasms are cherished simply because of all the time and effort. Plus they are so few and far between.

[little limey]

Thanks Atropose4. I'll try that out ^_^ I think it's important for women to know their body.

[cheerios]

rose, something that works well for me, is to be on top, on my knees, kinda, but laid down over him. that way I can move my hips w/ the balance I get from being on my knees, but the angles a LOT more comfortable and easy to maintain. also, put his hands on your hips and tell him to move you so it feels good, ya know? It's kinda an arcing motion for us, not sure how to put it into words, but everyone's different, so experiment. the bouncing thing makes the boyfriend smile, but it is DAMN tiring trick there it to get up on your toes and put a hand on his chest for balance. the porn stars put em on the thighs, but i haven't gotten that one figured out yet. it's the difference between leaning back and leaning forwards. If you've got the balance for it, do neither!

Oh, and one more thing: there is no "wrong" way to do it. really. Unless someone's bleeding. but that's about it. :P Move around, adjusting angles REALLY makes a difference for me at least. changes which bit is getting rubbed, and all. Good luck, hun

[little limey]

OK guys. i tried it out and NADA. I think I may be the kind'a girl where i just feel like i have to pee. I thought I had had G Spot orgasms before... but it felt nothing like what I just did. Maybe I wasn't at the right spot. I felt around and there were 2 openings towards the back, one on each side. THe place that I think was my g-spot was in between and a little above those two tunnels. It felt like an indentation with a bump on it if that makes sense. Was I at the right spot? Sorry if this is getting graphic but I'm not giving up!

[redrose2]

woah... two tunnels... how far in where you? The G-spot should only be between two and three inches in. That's a little creepy with the two tunnels bit... you didn't clear your cervix or anything did you?

[little limey]

for the g-spot i only went about 2 inches in. i know it is creepy huh?! I'm embarassed but I don't even know what the cervix is... the tunnels were farther back than what i thought was my g-spot.

[redrose2]

well... I could be mistaken but from what I recal from sex ed... if you are WAY inside those could be your tubes back to your ovaries... however I'm not sure how big they are.. I mean if you can actually feel them or not. Anyway your cervix separates your vagina from your uterous(sp). It's what keeps a baby from flying out any old time it wants JK Anyway sometimes during sex your partner can "bottom out" and actually hit or open your cervix. This can be both painful or pleasureable.. usually painful. However for the guy it feels like he has found another vagina cause it rubs his head the same way your lips do when he enters you. Also the cervix is where the diaphram rests if you ever use those for birth control. Anyway If I were you I wouldn't go exploring that far back... I mean there aren't really any GOOD nerve endings back there and you don't want to spread infection to your eggs.

[little limey]

OK thanks for alll the info. Now I finally know what "bottoming out" is.

[mew]

I need some seriouse help:
1. Never O from the Gspot(where is it!?And yes im a girl...not a guy trying to find the mystical spot. How can my bf reach it?
2.I usually o when i do it myself or he plays with me for a while...i have to have it done a certain way

How can I O during intercourse?Ive only O once or twice during intercourse and thats with my legs together tight.Suggestions?

[cheerios]

to find your g-spot: check out Atropos4's post up near the top. she's got some good instructions.
as for the other part of that, part of it may just be that you need to relax. Remember, this is all about having fun, right? If doing a certain thing is what get's you off, try to work that into your sex in different ways. Like, if it's having your clit rubbed, you can show your boyfriend and have him rub it during sex, or many other things. But really, it's all about doing what feels good.

[mew]

LoL id feel kinda weird showing my bf how its done...lol but yeah, that link helped..Thanks Cheerios!

[redrose2]

The only way is to show your bf. Trust me, if you like it and you show him you are liking it, HE WILL LIKE IT. The sounds I make are enough to get my bf hard for a second or third time that night. Not all guys have that intuitive touch. They don't teach guys about the g-spot in sex ed, just the clit's sensitivity. I mean it's the same with girls not knowing about a guy's anal stimulation. If it weren't for the movie "road trip" I doubt it would have ever become main stream. Anyway just let him know you want to try something new and I'm sure it will peak his interest even if it takes a few times to get it right. Just be sure to tell him how you are feeling when he is doing it and if it hurts don't be afraid to tell him to try something else.

[mew]

LoL, yeah you've made some seriouse points. I will take them into consideration..but thanks a lot
Is it just me or is everyones lover sensitive about their anals being touched?I accidentally touched it once and he FLIPPED!

[little limey]

Some guys are more sensative and more open about it. Some guys who are homophobic and aren't secure in their masculinity usually don't want girls to do it to them because they are afraid that if they like it they're gay. I'm lucky and I have a very open boyfriend. It is my favorite thing to do to him. Anal stimulation for him is like g-spot stimulation is for some girls.

[mew]

No kidding..lol thats so facinating. Well your lucky

[Statickex]

If your going to do G spot Stimulation, make sure you pee before hand. You will still get the sensation, but you wont need to pee. I read this a long time ago, and my boyfriend knows whats going on after i get out of the bathroom. =)

[cheerios]

Originally posted by little limey
Some guys are more sensative and more open about it. Some guys who are homophobic and aren't secure in their masculinity usually don't want girls to do it to them because they are afraid that if they like it they're gay. I'm lucky and I have a very open boyfriend. It is my favorite thing to do to him. Anal stimulation for him is like g-spot stimulation is for some girls.

I dunno about homophobic... we talked, he said he didn't want me puttin' my fingers there, and i respect that. He listens to me if I decline something, i can do the same.

[Atropos4]

Sometimes alpha phi enjoys anal stimulation and sometimes he doesn't. I can always tell by how he reacts. Communication is the key.

[susartele]

When you have the feeling that you need to pee it may be that you are at a point of female ejaculation. This is NOT urine but a fluid that is tasteless and sterile (urine is also sterile, btw) and comes from just inside the vagina.
The feeling is like peeing but also very orgasmic.
As for the anal stimulation. Some men like it and some find it more problematic and even painful. It is a good way to stimulate the prostate however which can be very orgasmic for men.