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*Nikki* 06-15-2003 10:12 PM

All the things we love about MEN
 
Ok the guys have got the idea for some reason or another that we are "man haters" in here.

I think quite the opposite is true. I love men. Maybe that is part of the reason I have stayed so long. I mean we are surrounded by 90%+ men here. I don't think that any girl who didn't like men wouldn't be here in the first place.
So lets do them a favor and name all the things we love about them so that they can see how special they really are to us.

1)I love the feeling of a man's strong arms around me.
2)I love the feeling of being "protected" when in a mans company.
3)I love kissing a man. I love how their lips feel.
4)I like a mans perspective on things. I like to know his feelings.
5)I love a man's cock. (understatement)
6)I love making love with a man. Those strong hands....yummy.
7)I like when he gets up in the middle of the night to see what that noise was.
8)I like when a man gets turned on by just watching me undress.
9)I love when a man sticks up for what he knows is right.
10)Most of all I love a man who has a strong mind, body, and spirit.

~springrain 06-16-2003 05:41 AM

Great idea Nikki... *warm smile*... perhaps it will help "ease" some of the frustration, and the idea that many have of the LL being the "She-ra Man-haters Club" *laugh*

Anyway... here's a start on mine... more to come...

1) I too, love the feeling of being encircled by a man's big strong arms.

2) I'm also going to second your feeling of being protected when in a man's company. There is a safety that comes with that, that i never truly feel when i'm alone. It's almost a feeling of freedom for me... knowing that i will be protected should something go awry.

3) I love how easy-going most men are when it comes to the "little life crisis" that most of us women would FREAK about.

4) I love a deep belly laugh from a man... it brings a warm contented feeling to me.

5) Hands... Hands... Hands... Hands... did i say Hands? *grin*. I adore men's hands... all shapes and sizes...
i love the feeling of being "under their hands"... "in their hands"... can't explain it really... just LOVE their hands.

omg... i am realizing this could be a very long list, and i am already late...

i'll leave it at 5 and come back to add more... wanted to at least get the thread going and support the idea :)

Minx 06-16-2003 06:48 AM

Oh boy....there's so many things to list that I'll have to be like springrain and do a few at a time! :)

~ ditto on the hands...I just love the feel of a man's hands
~ I love the feeling of safety and protection you have when you're with your guy
~ I love curling up against a strong chest...best thing going
~ I love the way guys are tough and will shrug off injuries
~ but I love the way guys go all soft when they are sick and want you to baby them
~ I love the sensation of being held in their arms
~ I love having them open jars I can't
~ I love watching them play sports
~ I love watching them shave

More to come later!

cheerios 06-16-2003 08:31 AM

I love that unguarded look you get when they REALLY trust you.

I love it when I step up, and his chin rests on the top of my head, and his arms are around me, and nothing can get me

I get a HUGE kick out of listening to them talk, especially to other men.

lurkette 06-16-2003 10:17 AM

I'll second (or third - heh) men's hands. Big strong man hands. And good shoulders.

I like that men are, generally speaking, fairly uncomplicated. Not that they're shallow, or simple, but that they tend to have fewer pretenses than most of us women.

I have a hard time generalizing to "men." I know there are a lot of traits that are gender-specific, but I have a hard time separating my knowledge of individual men from larger trends.

Here are some more, though:

- Creative profanity. In general men are much better swearers than most of my women friends. And they are deeply impressed when I cuss like a sailor.

- Most men love to eat, and don't really care how many calories are in something. Or, if they do, they don't make a big deal out of it.

- They are so not ashamed of wanting sex. All the time.

- I love that you rarely hear men bitch about their bodies the way women do. Granted, we seem to have more pressure, but I believe that the bulk of it is self-imposed. Media be damned, you can choose to like your body regardless of what anybody else thinks.

- Let's not neglect the penis. Heh.

- I love how excited my husband gets about gadgets and toys and things. He's like a little boy. So unashamedly enthusiastic. That's not a "man" think per se, as much as it is something I adore about my husband.

Minx 06-16-2003 12:58 PM

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Originally posted by cheerios
I love it when I step up, and his chin rests on the top of my head, and his arms are around me, and nothing can get me

Very good one....I miss that a ton. :(

Double D 06-16-2003 05:30 PM

Men that I like to be with remind me of puppy dogs- all the wonderful traits that they have- playful, warm, affectionate, ready to hump at any moment, easy going, & uncomplicated ( compared to women).

I also love broad shoulders, and a nice, tight ass. These are optional, however.
Oh, and he must have a sense of humor- goes with the easy -going part. I love a guy that doesn't get worked up over petty stuff, the way I do sometimes. I love men that don't obsess about eating, but try to take care of themselves physically.

One more thing- eating pussy. A guy that genuinely loves to eat pussy- he's my kind of guy. ;)

*Nikki* 06-16-2003 05:33 PM

Yeah I left out the oral sex part by accident also.

GOT TO have a man who knows how to do that and does it well.

~springrain 06-16-2003 05:35 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Double D
One more thing- eating pussy. A guy that genuinely loves to eat pussy- he's my kind of guy. ;)
*laugh*... DoubleD... gotta LOVE that aspect simply for your unabashed way of stating it :D

i'd like to second the uncomplicated simplicity of men... it's a wonderful peaceful harbor to find when my oh-so-over-complicated mind takes over...

Xeen 06-17-2003 12:31 AM

I just love the child-like qualities. The sense of wonder they have for all their toys and our bodies, the sudden need for comfort when they're ill, the absolute joy they get from the latest version of Doom/Quake/Whatever ;)

Atropos4 06-30-2003 10:31 AM

I have to agree.. Hands are very sexy!!!! especially when he puts his arm around me and his hand is hanging over my shoulder . All I can do is admire it... hehe

chest hair (not tons just a little bit of a diamond) gotta have something to playwith when I'm resting my head on his chest.

~springrain 06-30-2003 11:42 AM

a man's deep belly laugh... *smile*... when Willow laughs... i tell him he sounds like James Earl Jones...
very sexy...

sierra2774 06-30-2003 07:23 PM

I love big strong arms that make you feel safe...
I love making love to him when he makes you feel like the only Women in the world.


So many more...

motdakasha 07-03-2003 03:32 PM

Men make the bestest friends because they are (well, most of them) low maintenance.
I love postcoital cuddling. Well, okay, I just like cuddling.
I don't get the big strong and burly thing. I love men who are almost thin, but fit. It makes me want to rip their clothes off and kiss their not-overly muscular bodies inch by inch. :o
Those are the only other things I can think of at the moment other than, well, their cocks. :D

Theresa 07-14-2003 01:17 AM

I love it when a guy with a sense of humor also laughs at his own jokes. Even when they aren't funny, it's adorable to see them so amused with what they had to say that I find myself laughing anyways.

I like the fact they are mainly predictable. At least with the guy I am with now I know that he won't spontaneously freak out and get angry or start crying. Either that they are more emotionally stable or they control their emotions better, either way, it's something in most men that I appreciate.

I also love the smile. He looks me right in the eyes with that huge grin and I feel so happy that I'm making him smile.

angela146 07-16-2003 09:58 PM

I like it when my man "changes my mind".

When I'm not in the mood to do something (including sex but not *just* sex), I love the fact that he can come up behind me, wrap his arm around my waist, gently touch my cheek with his strong hand and whisper in my ear.

In that moment, he can make me feel whatever he wants and make me want to do anything.

I also like that fact that unbuttoning two buttons on a blouse will empty a man's mind and let you fill it with whatever you want.

Eowyn_Vala 07-25-2003 11:06 PM

ditto to the hands, the warm embrace, and the child-like qualities (those are so cute)

and the way they answer their phone when they know it is you and it makes you feel like the most important person ever

shannon 07-26-2003 03:26 PM

i love how insanly horny he is.
i love that i have to stand on my tip toes to give him really good kisses.
i love that he used to take the twist ties from his lunch in high school and make hearts out of them.
i love that he's an absolute two year old when it comes to toys
i love the way he acts like such a cool big brother to my little sisters.
i love the way he teaches me and is so patient.
i love the way he kisses my forehead.
i love his honesty.
oooh, i love him.

sexymama 07-29-2003 11:07 AM

i love the way he looks in my eyes
i love the way he makes everything about sex fun and safe
i love the way he kisses me and licks me (all over!)
i love the way he smells
i love the way he smiles
i love how he supports me physically, spiritually and emotionally
i love the way he holds me and protects me
i love how he makes me laugh
i love that we can have serious conversations
i love hanging out with him
i love being domestic with him
i love that he is his own unique person!

collide 07-30-2003 11:46 AM

I love the way he gets all excited and euphoric when I'm wet through my panties.
It's like a puppy wagging its tail, and happy to see you.
Or Homer Simpson and donuts.

Mmm, donuts.

It makes me giggle like a school girl, and I love that we can share these things and enjoy the company of each other (and not just when I'm all wet).

Also, cocks.

koli70 07-31-2003 01:47 PM

I just love the way how when I'm having the worst day and I can be angry or frustrated with him he can do one little thing thats so cute and cheesy and make me laugh and smile and forget what I was angry about to begin with.

anti fishstick 07-31-2003 09:17 PM

this would be a fun list to send yr SO sometime ;)

-i love how he embraces me and gives me the biggest, warmest bear hugs ever
-i love his smile
-i love the way he rubs his eyes til his cheeks get red when he's tired
-i love his babyish attitude in general when he's tired. it's so cute :P
-i love it when he lays on *my* chest
-i love his simple-minded, easy going attitude and the way he can always put me into perspective when i think too much
-i love the way he plays guitar..
-i love the way he gets sooo excited over his favorite band
-i just love the way he gets so excited ;)

jibs 08-01-2003 12:06 AM

I either missed the rules for the Ladies Lounge, or I'm confused, and think I'm a lady.

Pandabear 08-01-2003 08:44 PM

springrain....Ya, I am with ya on the hands thing

Steffi 08-02-2003 06:51 PM

I love how he always thinks the same things as me.
I love it when he kisses me on the forehead.
I love how he wipes the tears from my face if I'm crying.
I love how he gives me the biggest hug every time he hugs me.
Most of all, I love how I still get butterflies everytime I look at him!

ktthequeen 08-03-2003 11:07 AM

Man....most of your lists are "I love how HE".

Depressing me, the apparent lone single gal.

Anyways....
1) I love the safe feeling when their arms are around you.
2) I love their scent (cologne or not)
3) I love it when they sing or play guitar (or both!) to me.
4) I love it how being around them helps me forget all my troubles, even if only for a few minutes.
5) I love it how they know just what to do when you're down or crying...albeit a kiss on the cheek or a huge hug.
6) I love it how guys act all macho and shit in front of their friends but let you see their other side.

Bah..there's more but I'm just depressing myself. :(

hotchocolate 08-03-2003 10:31 PM

You guyz have listed everything i love in a man! I also love the way a man kisses my neck.

Scrumptious 08-25-2003 07:48 AM

*I love the feel of his slightly rough face against mine
*I love to hear him laugh
*I love his hands also, they can do such magic
*I love to listen to him talk about his favorite things: planes and cars
*I love to be surrounded by his arms, I know that everything will be ok just as long as he can hold me.
*I love waiting for him to come home from work to get my afternoon hug and kiss
*I love having a lifetime partner who shares everything, my hopes and dreams and of course puts up with all my weaknesses.

Ok I'll stop there, I am not a man hater quite the opposite actually............

Steph 09-04-2003 10:21 PM

I am a feminist but am useless when it comes to household fix-it jobs and I love men for how they can do those things effortlessly.

Sweetpea 01-26-2006 02:43 PM

I love the feeling of cuddling up with a guy

I love that fact that he can pick me up and carry me to bed

I love the fact that he has a lovely cock

I love touching, licking and sucking on said cock :suave:

I love that he is 'one of the guys' with other people, but soft/sharing his feelings with me

I love that he enjoys fixing all our computer issues

I love that he considers chivalry something that is alive and well in the world :icare:

I love that he is not prone to hormone driven tears at certain times of the month :)

I love that he smells delicious all the time, in a masculine way, i love his scent

I love to see his gorgeous naked body...

yeah... i it's safe to say... Men have plently of wonderful qualities ;)

sweetpea

ShaniFaye 01-26-2006 02:58 PM

I agree with everybody's lists!!

I would just like to add...

I love the way he gets out of bed in the morning and comes in the bathroom and scratches my back and nibbles on my neck while im sitting at my make up mirror....every single morning without fail

ngdawg 01-26-2006 02:59 PM

Wow, you really dug this one up!!! :lol:

Their ability to go from soft barely-there touches to caveman-style holding.
Their hair. And if it's on a chest, oooooh
Their wanting to take care of me, from my friends treating me to dinner to a loved one loving me.
Their voices. Some simply blow me away.....

Sweetpea 01-26-2006 03:05 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by ngdawg
Wow, you really dug this one up!!! :lol:
.....

hehe, i know :) there's some good stuff in the vaults ;)

sweetpea

ColonelSpecial 01-26-2006 03:14 PM

didn't know if this was one man specific or not so I am going to go with yes, one man specific for me :)

I love spending time with him and just letting go of all the frustrations.
I love knowing that when I have events and such to go to alone he isn't hurt since he has the same things sometimes.
Seriously, what is it about hands?
I have to mention eyelashes on an all men scale. Every one of my male friends have gorgeous eyelashes! It isn't fair!

That is my list. :)

Lead543 01-30-2006 01:51 AM

Well from time spent apart from my boyfriend I can say...

I love the company he gives me that females just can't give. It's that total, complete, honest and insanely accurate understanding that even my best female friends can't provide.

I love the way he carries my books, my groceries, my laundry. The way he opens the door, pulls out the chair, walks me to my door.

I can't say I love all men, because like any gender, there's a few bad apples out there. But I can definitly say I love my man... ;)

rlynnm 01-30-2006 12:47 PM

love love love when they hold you to sleep, even if the room is hotter than hell for 'em and they continue to hold you anyway.

noodle 01-30-2006 03:19 PM

I love the hands.
I love the way he mumbled, "I just want to lay with you next to me" when I was sliding away so I don't wake him up in the mornings.
I love the look in his eye first thing in the morning when I was the first thing he saw. And the smile that goes along with it.
I love the way he tried to improve his ass-slapping technique.
I love the things he thought of to whisper in my ear during sex, when I couldn't even think straight enough to answer. :lol:
I love the hair on his body.
I love the way he trusted me to drive his car when he was too schnockered. Or just because he didn't feel like driving anymore.
I love the way he used to grab my hand and just hold it at a stop light.
I love his lips... oh man. and his eyes. But those lips. Dayum.
I love the way he always checked to make sure the door was locked at night.
I love how he never let me get away with bullshitting him. And I did try. :D
I love the way he curled around me and cupped a hand on my breast.
I love that he never went to sleep in my bed more than a few times without asking for my head on his shoulder.
I love his smell after he rode the motorcycle all day and came flying in the door, dancing like a kid with a new toy.
I love the he let me be his pillion.
Aw, hell. I love him.

Sweetpea 01-30-2006 04:40 PM

Oh yeah... i forgot to add... I love that way He smiles when he's horny :D

I also love the way he holds me at night when i get cold... nothing warms me up faster than being held tight by the man i love :)

sweetpea

SuicideBlonde 01-30-2006 07:05 PM

the pheromones, the strength, the caveman grunts, their protective nature, their assertiveness, their visable states of arousal ;)

TotalMILF 01-30-2006 10:13 PM

I love how safe I feel when he holds me
I love how horny he always is, and the look on his face when he knows he's going to get some
I secretly love when he slaps my ass, even though I pretend to hate it
I love his sexy smile
I love how we can have serious conversations
I love how we can have completely silly conversations
I love that he thinks I'm "cute"
I love how he always tells me how sexy I am, even when I haven't showered and I have hairy legs and spitup in my hair and bags under my eyes...
I love his delicious, sexy booty
I love his strong arms and shoulders
I love how he looks in his BDU's... *drool*
I love how gentle he can be
I love how vulnerable he is when he's holding our son
I love how he can't hang up the phone without sayng "I love you" to me

There are tons more but I'm tired, hehe.

Gilda 01-31-2006 03:52 PM

Wait a minute, you're probably thinking, what's Gilda doing in here? Isn't she, like, not into guys? Well, the OP didn't specify lovers (if it did, nearly everything here would apply to Grace anyway . . . except the obvious exception of the penis, but then, there are substitutes for that), but back on topic. I've got my brother Boris and the male friends I've had.

I love how he's protective of his little sisters, even though we're both older than he is.
I love how, even though he's about as mainstream sexually as they come, he doesn't give a damn that we aren't.
I love his sense of humor.
I love how he can sling Sissy over one shoulder and me over the other and cruise around like we're a couple of sacks of potatoes.
I love how he flirts with my wife whenever he's around.

I love how men think my liking comic books is cool rather than weird.
I love how they'll go out of their way to open doors for me and how I've never once had to carry my books more than ten feet on campus once a guy sees my broken arm.
I love how it's possible to be friends without getting competetive (an advantage of all opposite-sex platonic friendships, I think).
I love how they're not afraid to act like little boys when they're feeling silly.
I love it when they get suddenly shy when talking to me.

Gilda (former man-hater)

serlindsipity 01-31-2006 06:16 PM

lets see

1. i love when i have a stubborn man who disagrees with my opinions about things im adimate about. I like that heated argument that ends with "we agree to disagree" and when we're done, we dont hate each other.
2. i love men who can be my drinking buddy. And yes that includes holding my head up if and when i drink to much. Oh and when he will be the DD so i can have fun at work.
3. i love when a guy does something stupid he stops, gets a goofy look on his face, and says "i love you" in hopes it covers his ass.
4. i love when a guy will anchor me down when im having nightmares and tells me "its okay, im here, youre safe" and i believe him.


Oh, and Nikki, thanks for starting this thread. this is an oldie but a goodie!

Babes 01-31-2006 09:15 PM

Firstly, Gilda I think it was very interesting to hear a positive perspective on men from a non-sexual point of view. I liked it very much.
1. I love how they babble on and on when you bring up a topic they're passionate about.
2. I love how excited they get when they play videogames (or any game) in large groups.
3. I love how they truly feel bad after they've done something wrong, and you can't stay mad no matter how badly you want to.
4. I love how they make you feel truly beautiful when you're with them, even if it's just for a moment.
5. I love how they can be forceful when making love without crossing into violence. (unless you're into that :D)
6. I love how they make love to you in general.
7. I love the fact that they try to protect you, even if they know you can protect yourself.

Sweetpea 01-31-2006 09:24 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Gilda
I love how men think my liking comic books is cool rather than weird.

Hey... there are some women who think it's damn cool too :D

sweetpea

genuinegirly 02-07-2006 01:22 PM

Why did it take me so long to find this friggen rad thread?

I've been with Turbotom now for 2 years. Our anniversary was the day before the super bowl. Nice having an anniversary that he remembers better than I do!

So here's what I love about him (not just any men):

1) That goofy grin he gets when he's had a little beer.
2) The warmth and clinginess of a simple hug.
3) The gentle concern in his voice when he knows things aren't going ok.
4) The way he cares about staying healthy, and working out -- and how his sculpted body shows it.
5) How gentle his lips are when he kisses me when we're both half asleep.
6) How I feel safe and protected when I'm in his house, surrounded by Turbotom and his brothers.
7) That look in his eyes when he tells me he loves me.
8) How he tries to hide his laughter (then eventually gives up, and we laugh together) when I prove my incompetance with a simple video game.
9) He is always supportive, no matter how crazy my plans are.
10) He plays the flute. And well. (and trombone, and bagpipes, and clarinet, and guitar, and sings!)
11) He is my calm amidst this storm.

Sweetpea 02-07-2006 05:45 PM

a male member asked me to post this:
Quote:

Reading the “All the things we love about MEN” thread gave me a really warm and fuzzy feeling, and I’d like to return the favor.

All the things I love about WOMEN:

I love the sparkle in her eyes, when she’s looking up at me in total trust.
I love the whole-body shiver that she does after a really strong orgasm.
I love when she buries her face in my chest when we hug.
I love placing a kiss on the top of her head during those hugs.
I love the hollow space between her collarbones, above her breasts.
I love when she takes over during foreplay, and has her way with me.
I love the way she melts when I kiss her on the neck.
I love the taste of her when I’m licking her “lips”.
I love when she grabs the back of my head when she’s about to cum while I’m eating her.
I love the way she laughs at my jokes, even when they’re not really all that funny.
I love the way she shrugs off her own sickness, but then coddles me when I’m a bit feverish.
I love the feeling of her hand wrapped around my cock.
I love it when she mounts me in the middle of the night, waking me up for a bit of fun.
I love feeling her hair trail across my thighs when she’s giving me a blowjob.
I love stepping into the shower with her, and running my hands all over her soapy body.
I love licking her erect nipples.
I love opening jars for her, even when I suspect she could have done it herself.
I love the flirty looks she gives me in public.
I love the sound of her laughter when she’s nervous.
I love the way she smiles at me when she catches me crying at a movie.

ariekitten 02-08-2006 03:20 AM

the "he" is just any guy in general

i love how a man looks in boxers
i love the cute boyish smile he gets when he's being playful
i love strong, yet dexterous hands
i love how when he compliments me, i feel like the only girl in the world
i love how he thinks i'm beautiful even when i don't
i love the how he loves boobs so much
i love how he gets all protective when a creep's hitting on me
i love the way his touch can send shivers down my body
i love the way he pulls me close for cuddling
i love the happy trail down his stomach
i love his sexy muscular legs
i love the way he can pick me up and carry me around
i love his hair falling in his face
i love his bedroom eyes
i love morning wood
i love the way he's so logical and geeky
i love how he bites his lip when he's into sex
i love how he thinks i'm so cute for being geeky
i love how he reassures me when i'm uncertain or confused
i love how his lips can be so gentle
i love how he is concerned for me even when i say i'm ok
i love the little "just because" gifts

Sweetpea 02-16-2006 02:48 PM

^^ good list aRie! :)

I love this thread! :D i'm glad it was resurrected from the vaults :)

sweetpea

JustDoll 02-18-2006 08:01 PM

i love how he treats u like a baby for a second just giving you the kind of baby mumble talk that no one else in the world would ever hear but you !!!

MelanieDaGal 02-19-2006 01:02 PM

i definitely agree with Nikki!

Sweetpea 03-05-2006 05:06 PM

I love how honest they are , that they can be blunt and still say something nicely

I love the feel of a man's arms around me

I love their enthusiasm about sports, it's damn adorable :)

I love how they smile when they get excited.

:)

sweetpea

settie 03-15-2006 07:49 PM

*sighs* I've had a bit of wine tonight, mix that with the latest version of Pride & Prejudice, and you got me, a sappy woman.
What I love about Men:
-The way their hugs seem to make everything alright again. Like being in a protective bubble of comfort.
-I love the way they smile when talking to me. From the bold grin to the shy smile, I love them all. They give me the warm fuzzies and I just want to give them a big bear hug for it!
-When my guy friends go through hard times, become as helpless as infants, they come to me for comfort. Its nice to be their confidante, and be there to make them feel better. It makes me feel like a good person.
-I love LOVE LOVE! looking at men from the back. naked, clothed. whatever. SEXY. :thumbsup:
-When they give in to their emotions, its so adorable! Especially when confessing something they like.
That's all I can think of right now. ^_^ But I know that there's more!

Sharon 03-25-2006 07:28 AM

I love those moments where they just know what to say or do, even though I said I didn't want them to, but really did.

I love the way our bodies fit together when we're sleeping.

I love it when they do something for you spontaneously, and don't ask for anything in return, and you suddenly feel like you'd do anything they wanted (even that rather dirty thing they mentioned the other day that you didn't think would be such a nice idea).

I love when they buy you the perfect underwear. And love the way you look in it. And then want to tear it off you.

I love when they tell you what to do, knowing that it's what's best for you.

I love that they don't care if your clothes don't match, or your hair won't straighten properly.

I love that they can quickly put your paranoia into perspective.

ClostGoth 04-14-2006 01:43 PM

I hope it's okay that this list is about one particular guy and not all guys in general. It's taken me long enough, but I finally decided to go ahead and ad lib it rather than put _too_ much thought into it. His list was so beautiful, though, that I had to respond. :thumbsup:

I love how thoughtful and dedicated he is, and how he puts his all into everything he does
I love his calm and good humor over things that make me freak
I love his willingness to help me and support me in any endeavor I undertake
I love that he can cry at a really touching movie
I love his intelligence and quick wit and his willingness to apply both to any situation
I love the way he smiles for me, my own special smile
I love the way he teases me, both sexually and otherwise
I love his willingness to compromise, and meet me more than halfway when I'm having trouble
I love what a great, hands-on Daddy he is
I love his loyalty, and how he can see me for who I really am and respect and adore me for it
I love his willingness to top me when I need it and be dominated if I need that too

There are too many things I love about him to list them all... Finished being sappy for now. *sniffles*

Vindicated0411 04-14-2006 07:59 PM

I like this thread but I could go on all day as to what I love about my boyfriend so I will limit myself to ten things.

1.) The feel of his arms around me and the surge of emotions when he kisses me.
2.) Looking at his goofy expressions when we are laughing and having a good time.
3.) Falling asleep in his arms at night when I am all "nestled" in my nuke (my nuke is what I call my space where I cuddle up next to his chest with his arm around me).
4.) Waking up in the morning and thinking how much I love the person laying next to me and how lucky I am to have him.
5.) I love his big brown eyes. My boyfriend has the biggest and most gorgeous brown eyes I have ever seen and they make me melt when he gives me the "puppy dog face".
6.) I love to see him get all excited like a little boy at christmas when he talks about his toys, like motorcyles, and guns, and planes, ect.
7.) I love that my boyfriend is so tall. (he is 6'8).
8.) I love it when my boyfriend bends down to kiss me because I am so short.
9.) I love my boyfriend because he is so sweet and caring when he makes love to me. He is always asking if I am ok (he stabs me sometimes because he is "rather large downstairs" and I am a small girl).
10.) One of the things I love about my boyfriend is that he says "Ich liebe dich kleines madchen" which is german for I love you little girl.

cellophanedeity 04-14-2006 09:25 PM

You know, there's a lot of things I love about men that aren't romantic.
  • There's more geekery
  • I can punch them without hurting them too much... or at least without having them admit it hurts ;)
  • They're so nice to hug, because the majority of them are bigger than me and it feels like you're being completely enveloped.
  • They laugh and playfully wrestle you if you tackle them
  • The way some of them get into the "nonchalent but completely grossed out" thing if you talk about your period
  • There's always something you can only learn from a male, simply because of the unique perspective
  • I find that men are often more approachable than women
  • Males are very protective of their female friends. They all seem to want to play big brother to a little sis'.
  • They often have better gossip than women do. They hear the guy's stuff.

I like men a lot. For the most part, I prefer the company of guys to girls, but that may just be because of the people I hang around with.

CaliLivChick 05-11-2006 03:58 PM

I love that spot on the shoulder/crook of the neck/chest that is the perfect place to rest my head.
I love when he grabs my hand and holds it while he's driving.
I love when he massages my knee while he's driving (feels soooooo good!).
I love his soft, supple lips... I still remember our first kiss.
I love that he checks to make sure the door is locked at night.
I love when he spoons me and puts his hand on my breast.
I love when he's been drinking beer, working on the truck, and has that rugged smell.
I love his distaste for dust, especially on the television and entertainment center.
I love when he draws, because it makes him happy.
I love watching him play video games, because it makes him happy.

noodle 05-14-2006 06:40 AM

I love that my man let me go with him to the hospital after he wrecked his motorcycle at the track.
I love that when no one else was around, he finally let me see the fear and leaned on me for support, physically and emotionally.
I love that he's okay.

Evileyez 05-16-2006 06:49 PM

I love feeling a mans arms around me
I love feeling his body on me
I love their strong arms (gotta have some strong biceps)
I love it when he smiles
I love it when he compliments me
I love the way he just stares at me (creeps me out sometimes but its ok)
I love when he kisses softly
I love how he handles me with care and gentleness

noodle 05-17-2006 03:37 AM

I love his cute, soft, hairy butt in the morning when he's shaving.

I love the way he looks in a towel fresh from the shower.

I love the way he gets little-kid-excited about things and jumps around... nekkid. :lol:

I love how, after a few weeks of frustration and emotional distance, he makes it a point to remind me that I'm important and that it didn't revolve around me.

I love how he pokes me in the head at night (gently) when I'm on his side of the bed, but plays the part of hibernating grizzly bear when he's on my side.

I love the way he gets completely sucked into World of Warcraft for hours, but will still answer my questions about it or talk to me even though it's screwing up his game. :D

MySexyAssJ 06-15-2006 01:32 PM

these are some of the things that i love about my man...


i love that he shows his sensitive side to me

i love how he holds me all throughout the night

i love when he kisses me at the most random times

i love how he says certain words a particular way

i love that we can talk about everything.. and i mean EVERYTHING

i love that he thinks i'm beautiful even when i'm looking my worst

i love that when i'm upset, he does anything in his power to make me feel better

i love it when he plays with my hair..

...i love that he lets me play with his

i love his smile

i love how when he talks to other people he looks all normal and then when he looks at me, his face brightens up

i love his sense of humor

i love that he feels comfortable enough to show me his silly side

i love that he takes my side in things, even when i'm wrong

i love the look on his face when he's had one beer

i love his posture

i love it when he squints his eyes at something because he's not wearing his glasses

i love his top lip when we kiss

i love how he tries to protect me, no matter the situation

i love the look on his face when he gets a bright idea

i love how excited he gets when the smallest thing happens

i love when he comes home from work and wants to lay down with me right away - even though it's the middle of the afternoon

i love how he loves me

:love:

Eweser 06-16-2006 11:19 AM

I don't have a large sample to gather from, but here are my lists. I made two, one for friends/family and one for my man.

Friends/Family: I love
- how they always want to protect me, even when I'm perfectly capable of doing it myself.
- how they open doors for me.
- how they think that my geekiness is cool.
- how they think that my loving sports isn't weird.
- how they laugh at me, but in a good way, and I don't feel that I'm being laughed at, and it makes me laugh too.

My husband: I love
- his eyes.
- his smile.
- his body.
- the way he wants to hold my hand/me when we're falling asleep at night.
- how he can be super-serious at times and super-silly other times.
- how he doesn't mind when I'm silly and laughs at it.
- feeling his weight on top of me.
- how I feel safe when he's with me.
- that I feel most comfortable with him than with anybody else.
- how he makes me feel desired, even if I'm not desirable.

And upon further thought, I have to add about men in general: I love their bodies and all of the ways they differ from women's.

somethinggood 06-16-2006 01:20 PM

No particular guy in mind...I suppose all of these relate to various boyfriends of the past. In other words, these would be reasons I DIDN'T dump them :)

-Endless conversations that last through the wee hours of the morning. The relaxed ability to talk about EVERYTHING.
-That protective feeling of his arms engulfing me.
-Goofy, dorky, only-a-guy-could-think-of-that jokes.
-A feeling of being protected and safe that I seem to lose when a relationship ends.

STEPHY 06-20-2006 07:07 AM

wow, I love alot of things mentioned above

but to add.....
I love when they tell you everything is going to be ok and to relax
I love when they act like a baby when they are sick (that is just too cute)
I love when they call you and say hi for no reason

have to get back to work but i am sure there is more!

:)

mixedmedia 06-21-2006 07:21 AM

so many of the beautiful things mentioned above, I love about men as well......but here are some specific things about a certain special someone I am currently seeing:

- I love it when he sing-whispers Bob Dylan songs in my ear
- I love it when he growls in my ear
- I love it when he whispers sweet nothings (sometimes not-so-sweet somethings!) in my ear
- Did I mention how much I love him to whisper things in my ears, haha!
- I love it when he marvels over my body even though it is far from perfect
- I love how he paws me in his sleep
- I love how he sweetly leers at me
- I love how he encourages my interests and the time I devote to them - I especially love this about him
- I love how much he wants to please me and the thought he devotes to that pursuit
- I love how he understands and appreciates and accepts how much and why I want to please him
- I love how I can share all these things with him and not feel like I'm in orbit around him


Things I love about some men in general (these may already have been mentioned):
- I love how easily they let go of little worries
- I love how open they are about sex
- I love how they don't put so much emphasis on their own appearance
- I love how they don't even notice if you are wearing make-up or not
- I love their body hair - very, very much - love it, love it, love it
- I love how generous and open they are with their enthusiasm
- I love how they respond to a smile from a woman, even just in passing
- I love how they will pull over and help you when stranded on the road
- I love how they are, in general, more polite in traffic (just my own observation; based on my own experience)
- I love how they appreciate a dirty joke from a woman
- I love how the gift wrap, haha!
- And lastly, did anyone mention yet how much they love the penis? I love that about them, too. heh-heh

water_bug 06-23-2006 10:42 AM

It seems as if most of you are talking about a particular man in your lives. You all sound very happy and for that congrats!!

As for me, and this may sound corny, I love the little things that make us so different. I don't know if that makes any sense...

Examples

I love how excited they get over tools, cars, sports, or gravel.
I love how they never stop trying to impress us. "Yeah he went bungee jumping, but I went skydiving!!"
I love how dirty hands are wiped on jeans.
I love how they get dirt under their nails, and then lick ketchup off their fingers without giving it a thought.
I love how tough and in command they are..until we decide to put our foot down
I love their hands and arms, especially of men who do types of manual labor. It means they know how to use those hands and arms
I love how, no matter how old, all men are still little boys. For example of this ask how many "men" on this board are excited to see the new Superman movie
I love how in an age where chivaly is gone, men can still be our knights in shining armor. Drop a ring in the garbage or run into a snake and see who comes to your rescue

God my list sounds so poetic and corny lol.

Don't laugh...

Ayashe 08-24-2008 02:09 PM

After coming across this I felt a need to revive this thread with my own thoughts.http://www.tfproject.org/tfp/tilted-...out-women.html



I love how he makes me feel more confident when you are not.

I love the way he gives me strength when you need it most.

I love the way he will remember the tiniest moments.

I love the way he still enjoys sharing our special songs together.

I love how he breaks the silence with a simple I love you.

I love the way he makes me smile.

I love the smiles we share when we both share the same thought at the same time.

I just love him.

KRM28152 08-27-2008 02:23 PM

This thread has got me all teary eyed. My man is at work and now I miss the hell out of him. =)

These probably have been mentioned, more than once, but alas here we go anyway:

I love the way...
- he'd lose his head if I wasn't around to screw it on every morning for him. (I don't know what he did without me. He forgets/loses everything!)
- he's not afraid to use our pet names in public, even when they might make him look like less of a man.
- he looks when he's playing guitar with his band...even though I try to act like the music is too loud and I wanna go home.
- he'll begrudgingly tell me I was right =)
- he can get lost in a game of Battlefield 2 (XBox is his other woman) but he'll still stop to give me a kiss while the game's reloading.
- he gets all baby-ish on me, and opens his arms when he's lying on the bed and all he wants is a hug.
- he puckers his lips when he's being silly for a big, wet, sloppy kiss.
- he barks and growls at me.
- he needs me the morning after a big drinking binge.
- he worries about me.
- he wants to cuddle all the time.
- he gets all sweet and mushy and playful right after an orgasm.
- he lets me be his rock, and lets me lean on him when I need it too.
- he smells right after a shower, and the way he looks/feels when he hasn't shaved in a week or so.

I could go on and on and on...but I still have to wait an hour and a half for him. And continuing with this list would only make me miss him more. =(
-----Added 27/8/2008 at 06 : 35 : 19-----
I think I forgot to mention...and then I'm done. lol.

- Yes, I agree with the hands...I love Randy's. =)
- I love the way he complains about having to rent a chick flick, and then he ends up loving it. (Case and point: Enchanted.)
- I love the way he'll hold me during a scary movie I didn't want to rent but I did for him.
- I love the way he looks when he's vacuuming. And yes, he actually does once in awhile.
- I love the way he gets in his cleaning spurts, and I come home from work and the whole room/my car is clean. =)

noodle 08-27-2008 06:26 PM

i love how happy he is to see me after "ladies' night" and wants to truly know if i had fun with my girlfriends.
no jealousy, no bitterness, just happy to see me and wanting to make sure i had fun.

Mellu 08-31-2008 07:23 PM

Things I love about straight men:

-Dudes can EAT. I have never met a straight man who can't CHOW DOWN, I love how they can eat with such gusto.
-I love some of the body hair, like the little "ape patches" on their hands or my personal fave, the "treasure trail."
-A proper man is a beast who can work up a good stink - literally - in many ways, and I find it oddly endearing even tho it's gross. P.U., awww!
-Their keen awareness of being the bigger, stronger being. Offering to go investigate noises or reach things up high or lift heavy objects.
-I love a man who will admire and concede to the fact that I can out-belch them.
-When they so enthusiastically and carefully explain sports stuff to me.
-When they make up catchy sports phrases and terms while watching the game (i.e., "aw, shit, shake and bake, baby! Thread the needle!" etc.)
-Their jeans with a wallet imprint on the ass pocket.
-Their general cool, sympathetic but kinda grossed out attitude about our periods.
-I think straight men a better at swearing and cussing than we are.
-How a lot of them are just fine smelling like a pleasant combo of clean laundry, soap, deodorant and a slight bit of sweat, I LOVE that smell.
-When they don't know their own strength, and you're wrestling or having sex and they hurt you even the littlest bit and feel SO bad.

Things I love about GAY MEN:

-They are generally better girlfriends than your girlfriends, in many ways.
-They usually have more and better beauty products than you do.
-They can teach you more about giving BJs than anyone!
-You can generally give your gay BFs more shit about their taste in men, and they have a sense of humor about it, and give you shit right back.
-Being gay is some shit to go through, and thus they understand about going through shit in general and are tough and understanding.
-Most straight women ('fruit flies' like me and not obnoxious bachelorette partiers) are very safe at the gay men's bar and well taken care of.
-They are generally funnier than most people, in my experience, and can make me laugh when no one else can.

diddagirl 08-31-2008 09:11 PM

What a fun discussion!

I love the way he smells... reminds me of the scent of a baby and I love every second of it
Love his gorgeous big lips
Love the way he crumbles and loses his edge when I cry...
Love his laugh and his smile
I love the way he holds me

Ayashe 09-01-2008 09:46 AM

I love the way he tries to argue with me when I call him cute or adorable.

raeanna74 09-01-2008 05:40 PM

Quote:

Originally Posted by Mellu (Post 2516268)
...-How a lot of them are just fine smelling like a pleasant combo of clean laundry, soap, deodorant and a slight bit of sweat, I LOVE that smell....

I thought I was the only one who liked that. Thought I was wierd for liking that slightly sweaty/soapy/musky mix. LOVE it!

I could make a long list but I will try to keep it just to my one most favorite thing about a good MAN.

I love how they're completely unaware of the masculinity that they eminate in their body language, voice, and stance. I like watching (when they're not teenagers trying to show off) them stand and talk to other real men. It's a turn on.

anti fishstick 09-11-2008 07:56 PM

i am going to make this singular to my boyfriend... I also need some ideas anyway since we're kind of having a tough time..

i love when he spoons me at night... the way he kisses my neck... the way he'll randomly caress my breast... or even sometimes lick my nipples or initiate sex in the middle of the night half asleep and groggy :-D i look forward to these little things every night...

i love the way he hugs me before he leaves for work... the way he lightly tickles my back, and then kisses my lips.

i love his eyes, and his smile, and his laugh.

i love his strong, athletic legs, and butt and body and penis

i love that he carries me sometimes and i always squeal in surprise

i love his scent

i love when he brings me something to eat for lunch or dinner

i love that he can listen to me. i love that we can communicate with eachother.

i love when he gets passionate about politics, or music and writing.

i love his creative spirit.

i love how sensitive he is.

i love that he's still here with me....

ItWasMe 09-12-2008 12:07 AM

Big, strong hands massaging my muscles.
A thick carpet of curly hair that tickles my nose when I lay my head on his chest.
He warms my car up in the morning, if he leaves for work before I do.
He can open jars that I can't. Okay, so maybe I really don't like that one. Makes me feel inferior.
Whispers tickling my ear as he tells me what he's about to do.
That final masculine growl before we sleep.

Hyacinthe 09-12-2008 04:50 AM

speaking about my SO here so some of them don't apply to all guys but ...
  • I love the way he calls me gorgeous even when I'm in my sweats
  • I love the way they kiss my forehead when I give them a hug
  • I love the way he'll hold my hand when he thinks I'm nervous
  • I love the way they'll put a hand at the small of my back when I go down stairs or through a door
  • I love the way they'll always give me a jacket when I'm cold, even if it's my fault for not bringing one
  • I love how he'll always turn the radio on if he's not coming to bed cause he knows I can't sleep in silence
  • I love the hollow in his shoulder that's right where I want to put my head
  • I love how I switch from one of the guys to a girl in their eyes in the blink of an eye
  • I love how they pick up on my body language and know my moods before I do
  • I love how they'll all drop everything if they see a tear in my eye
  • I love the way they're all so impressed I can walk in heels

and many many other things which have been mentioned multiple times already :p


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