So I was always wonder, hands or no hands when giving a bj? I have been giving successful bj's for quite some time now, but can't do a total deepthroat so I tend to use my hands at the same time as the head is in my mouth being played with with my tounge. I switch it up and kind of do a twisting thing and vary the speeds. Take the hands away, do some mouth play, that sort of thing. I guess I just wanted some perspective on it. I haven't had a problem in the past, so I guess it's not a problem. I love it when he finishes in my mouth though, because it's like A+ for you haha. And what about the balls? This has been something I've been wary of, just for the fact that everyone is so different about it. I have lightly taken them into my hand and such, but any suggestions on how to go further with that? Oh and would you be offended that I won't let you cum on my face? I just don't like that. In my mouth (yes, I swallow) and anywhere else on the body is fine, just not the face. Still, the best is inside after sex, but that's off topic. Thanks guys!

Resurection special!

Can't disagree with Nikki's advice (or tenniels for that matter).

Are we due for an update, ladies? ;)

Nice guide, but people need to know that EVERY guy is different. Not all guys like the same things, which is why communication is key!

My guy likes to fuck my face, to be blunt. Slow movement and eye contact is just to get him started. But I won't go into details.

Nikki,
your method would probably get me off pretty fast since a good blowjob is probably my favorite way to get off. I would only add that when my wife blows me, she uses her long fingernails lightly on my balls, especially when I'm ready to cum. It also really turns me on when she knows I'm about to cum and she looks me in the eyes and says " I want to swallow it all!"

edit: I also like no hands.:thumbsup:

ouch. i honestly think it's worse to see that your man loses his erection once you get down there than it is to take some direction. you can't expect her to know what you like right off the bat and she cant expect you to like everything she does to you. next time she's there just make some suggestions- but make sure it doesnt sound too much like a laundry list

I'd like to add my ditto to eye contact. "Face fucking" works for me very well too.

i got my gf to read the original post, and god damn, she was soo into it she pretty much humped me 1/2 on reading the post..

hehe thanks :P

Glad that worked out for you vancityboi :)

Wow, this thread is awesome, I always like hearing new idea and techniques. I love give bjs to my man. I just love his cock and especially when it is inside of me! I don't know what's wrong with some of these married woman, my man and I have been together 13 years and the last 7 of them we have been married, I swear we fuck more now then before and I definitely still give head often. Well since Nikki did such a good job describing I think I'll give it a go too.

Okay, here's the gist of what I do to really make my man happy,

I push him down onto the bed and slowly kiss his mouth and face, pull his shirt off of him and then kiss down his neck. Rubbing his torsue with my palms and kissing along the way as I work my way down to his waist. I gently kiss along his waist as I unbutton, unzip and slide down his pants, I reach down inside his pants to make sure his hardening cock doesn't catch on anything and I pull down both his boxers and pants simutainiously kissing down his leg (right or left). My bare breasts bump his cock as I lower, I kiss down between his thighs as I slide his pants down further. I kiss all the way down to his feet removing the last of his clothes, then I slide to the other side and kiss up the inside of his other leg, sliding my wide open palms along the sides of his legs as I go higher. Then I gently lick the tip of his penis, without touching it, then flick my tongue around the tip and the head and delight at the way it moves on its own as a response to my tongue. Taking my right hand I gently run my hand down his shaft, lightly pushing unwanted hairs down to the base. I slowly lower my mouth and take his head inside of me, then my tongue explores the ridge around his head as if it had never felt it before I look up at him with drunken love in my eyes. I slide my lips off of his head and hungrily run my wide open mouth up and and down every inch of his shaft, as I am sucking all the butter and juice off of a cob of corn. I grab the base of the shaft again and devourer him with my mouth, I turn my hand to his balls and cup them gently giving them a slight massage with my hand while I take the entire length of his cock into my mouth, pulling him deep inside me and pressing my tongue up along the underside of his dick. I feel him shift from pleasure and begin thrusting him in and out of my mouth as his pleasure increases, I pull my mouth off of him and hungrily run it along the sides if the shaft again, then back in my mouth but shallow and move my mouth in circles feeling the head of his penis explore my entire mouth and push on my cheeks, I lick his slit and dip the end of my tongue into it, again I grip his balls and walk my mouth down his shaft until he is deep within my throat again, Feeling his slick cock inside my mouth I look deep into his eyes and feel his pressure building, I move my hand to the base of his shaft and slide my mouth up to his head pushing my tongue along the underside of his penis. Moving my mouth and hand together I drive him to the point of explosion, using my tongue to push all of his nectar into my mouth. And I enjoy the taste of his essence. Then I very gently run my thumb along the bottom of his penis easing out the last of his cum and gently licking it off the tip, as he shifts and groans from the immense sensitivity of the area. Then I kiss him gently on his rod and pull my body up to his to gently kiss his mouth and whisper my feelings of love for him.

The I rollover and say "sorry no offense, but I'm not a cuddler" and try to get some sleep-or go on the computer.

I believe in variety, so it doesn't always happen exactly like that, but that's one of his favorite's which I actually preformed a couple hours ago.

Am I the only guy who likes a bit of teeth... when she drags her teeth gently from the base to the head... PHWOARRR! :P

Count me out. Bad experience with a HS girlfriend, lots of alcohol and smoke involved. Took a week or two for my little friend to heal. To this day when I feel teeth it's like anti-viagra.

But hey if it works for you...:thumbsup:

My guy likes that from time to time too, some days we do rough stuff with teeth and tugging, some days smooth and slow, other days hungry and eager -gotta have variety!!!!!:thumbsup:

I don't think that I ever read this...

I think that the world might be just that much more of a better place if this thread stayed bumped...

holy crap .... "honey I have a blog you need to read"

now only if my ex shared the same view...

maybe she wouldn't be my ex! xD
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Same here... I fucking hate teeth (more life afraid of teeth).

hi guys - glad I got the email reminding me come back and check out the TPF. I can't believe I had'nt seen this thread. it is great to to see the continuity of the participants - Nikki credit to you that 5 years later - youre to here add to and comment on your original post.

From my view, few acts are as unselfish and generous as oral sex (even recognizing the satisifaction that comes from the giving) More relationships would flourish if folks remembered this.

how cool is it that there's a place for us to discuss this!

This should be written in many languages and published all over the world.

"SIGH"........................................xoxoxoo

+1 for a little teeth action. My wife likes to mix in a little light nipping of the rim of my head, which makes the head even more pronounced. If she gets a little carried away & causes me to flinch too much, she says, "Just wanted to see if you're paying attention.":lol:

I have been flirting with a guy at work and we have turned up the heat enough that we have been doing many fun exciting things in the back office. Including oral sex. The other day, I guess I blew his mind because he told me he hasn't ever enjoyed a blow job and wanted me to know that it usually takes him 30 plus minutes to come. I was able to get him to come twice in one day in less than 5 minutes each time. So I asked him what the difference and he said it was that I could take him all the way in. Deep throat ladies, learn it. It apparently makes them go wild!!!!

Oh, hello useful thread..

And yes deep throat is a must, but sometimes it's just 'too big' for most. :c

genius ;) personaly id cum alot quicker if that happened but i guess it depends on wat type of guy your blowing :P

im straight btw <.<

TL:DR

all you needed to say was "lots of spit, wet, slippery"

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my goodness, tl;dr

Just watch porn for techniques. I've had a lot of variations and techniques performed on myself, and for some reason (not being racist) but black girls sure know how to work it.

Found this site by googling "how to give good blow jobs - texting" Couldn't figure out just the right words to use texting my Friend. But thanks Nikki you helped a lot.

I consider myself an old hand at blowjobs but its always good to revisit the issue and make sure I'm covering all the bases.

LunarEclipse.



LunarEclipse.

the way i do it is
i slowly move my mouth up and down rolling my tongue around and then putting cock to my lips and rolling it over my mouth,
putting the whole cock in my mouth and putting the cock all the way down my throat and moving up and down really slowly keeping cock in my throat, and then gettting faster and faster, slowly move to the tip of cock and sucking on it while moving up and down. doing that for a couple of minutes,
continuing to suck i fuck his cock with my mouth deep throating as deep as you can go and swallowing a couple of times.
this drives them crazy soon you will have your man groaning and ejaculating in your mouth.

after you are finished make sure you lick every last drop of cum off his cock.
he will be begging for you to do it again straight after ;)

xx