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topics you daren't post
i got a lotta flotsam and/or jetsam sloshing around in my head. there are threads i wanna start, to hear what others think and feel about things, but i do a lot of self censoring. i think "this topic is lame like Hephaestus" or "this will make me sound like a psychopathic criminal," so i keep the thoughts to myself, i don't start the threads, even though i'd really like to hear what others have to say or what others have experienced.
am i the only one on this? do you ever start to post a new thread, read it, and say "no, i best keep this to myself" and delete it? not to defeat the purpose of your self censorship, but IF you self cenrosed, what topics were you gonna post and ended up deleting? |
All the time. http://www.thesmilies.com/smilies/silly/fryingpan.gif
If I told you what I self-censored, I wouldn't be censoring myself anymore. :p Most topics relate to human nature in its various forms, as that's where my curiosities and interests generally lie. |
I suppose I have insanely strange thoughts or dreams that I feel the world needs to know about and have a strange urge to post them on my beloved TFP, but then I get the better of myself and don't post anything. I think maybe I should just write some of these dreams down. They are pretty solid and would make for an entertaining time just reading them to myself.
Oh, and Squeeeb, I already think that you are a psychopathic criminal. So its all good! |
many a times sqeeeb.
i find that its like that in the real world too though. sometimes you wont say something fearing you'll be rejected by your friends, or just plainly not accepted. |
Nope, but that's why my posts seem crazy sometimes. I use this website to try out the unfiltered thoughts in my head.
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My self-censorship more often relates to ideas I have for discussion that I can't quite articulate. I'll have the idea, but I can't quite get words around it enough to feel comfortable starting a thread. But yeah, I know what you mean.
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HA! Thank god for anonymous internet forums. All threads I've started have either ended badly or not taken off at all due to the mere controversy they hold.
One thing I can say about TFP in general is, post anything, anything at all. They will respond with their views. Sometimes it might not make you feel better, but it keeps a handle on reality and setting your feet on the ground. |
I hit the back button constantly...
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I've been inspired to create a potentially controversial topic on modern day racism thanks to this thread.
*shrug* inspiring new discussion topics ftw. |
wow, its cool to see so many of you do this as well. hanging out in this forum, i always feel like the janitor raoming the halls at MIT buffing floors among the professors. you guys are talking huge important intelligent things and i'm making dick and fart jokes. and, like SabrinaFair, there are thoughts i have that i can't seem to put into intelligble sentances. but now i shall try.
i will stop censoring myself (so much) and post things that i am thinking. damn, now i'm afraid i will think they are "out there" and you all will be "huh? yeah, we talked about that in 3rd grade." |
I don't self-censor, I just practice common sense and try to preserve a level of contentment in self.
I've started many threads on topics I hope would foster participation and/or guidance in the community, but only a very small percentage of my threads garner more than five responses as it is left primarily disregarded until it sinks into the quagmire of irrelevance. I try to alter my position, provide more/less commentary to get conversation flowing, offer visuals and/or more citations, sources on the topic, but it gets somewhat disheartening to always have in the back of your mind when posting: "Am I going to get any responses at all this time, or should I not have even spent the hour-and-a-half on this topic thinking of a proper contention, in the off-chance someone actually reads it?". Perhaps this is the reason I leave many topics on the shelf, because of a fear that once posted, my devoted intrigue on the subject, the time spent on it, and awaited general acceptance of it all will go sadly unrequited into the archives of heedless threads. It's a fickle thing to not want to shout in a room filled with chattering exchanges, but to want to offer business cards and a friendly bow instead. |
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Does that mean my "Rape laws caused the Oklahoma city bombing" thread is a no go?
EDIT: I even toned that one done. It involved Mexicans and lasers. |
Personally, I'd like to see more Catholic priest jokes.
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You want to see a room clear trying telling a joke that involves Catholic priests, black men, rape, and 9/11. I won by the way. |
lol!
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well my thread turned in to a trainwreck apparently, this is what happens when I post what I daren't post. go figure.
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yes, now i see why people self censor. perhaps i won't bother posting the stuff i was thinking about.
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^^ Please insert "/sarcasm" in your quote.
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Squeeb and Shauk... post what you like. You just need to be aware that not everyone is going to agree with you (or if they do, they may not have your back on some topics). If you are going to take a controversial stance, you need to have some very thick skin. Some people are not just going to read something controversial and roll-over.
Be ready to defend your position or change your opinion if your original stance doesn't stand up to scrutiny. For example, if you are going to defend racism (a touchy topic) you'd better bring your A game or be ready to let shit roll off your back. |
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i don't think he was trying to defend racism though, i think he just posed the question poorly. instead of trying to figure out what he was asking, it appeared they jumped to conclusions. i have re-re-re-re-re read the OP, and i'm being serious when i say i'm not all that bright, i'm kinda stupid. i honestly do not see where he "defends racism." i think he was misunderstood. makes people skittish about posting what is on their mind if they are gonna be misunderstood and have to defend a point they didn't even make. |
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Thankfully, the train is back on the tracks there, I think. |
Yeah.. And really.. I would be interested in topics that would be considered off-the-wall or outrageous.. just because I think they'd get more interesting replies. But, there's always those people that are always going to be all, "ehhh.. that's not normal.. kill it with fire..omg".
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"Post here every time you smoke out"-- too oppressive? :lol:
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Hmph. I didn't bother with that racism thread. I just kinda read the title and moved on. Nothing to do with the poster or anything but I'm just bored with the same ol' same ol'. So if the ideas you have are a little 'off' or what not, I say go for it.
And like others sorta said already, it's a discussion forum. Not a popularity contest. Who gives a poop if other members don't like what you have to say. I might. And that's what matters. http://img198.imageshack.us/img198/2267/icon11h.png |
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:lol: All right maybe I'll make it next time I smoke :P
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Hmmm...maybe I should post that topic...
The one about how men are inherently superior to women because we carry our most vulnerable and treasured body parts on the outside of our bodies-wait a minute...:confused: |
I have a ton of ideas for posts and I actually start typing many of them. I wouldn't call it censorship, It's just that most of them don't make it through quality assurance.
I had a thread typed out about the death penalty and why we imprison people, if it was punishment, rehabilitation, or just to keep the person away in a place where they can't disrupt society. I pretty much kept going more and more off topic and after watching "The Most Evil" TV show on TLC I concluded that people that do bad shit are physically wired differently and to punish them isn't right and killing them isn't right so prison must be a place that we just put our broken brained people and got me to think about quality of life in prison.. etc etc it went on and on and after about 10 paragraphs I just trashed it. |
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I'm not defending racism in any way in that thread and the people who accuse me of that, well, I'll refrain from the nasty comments I had in store for them, it's why I don't want to participate in that thread anymore.
There is no reasonable discussion to be had where people take the easy route of trying to cross the boundaries of respectful discourse and attack the character of the poster presenting a question instead of addressing the question. Is dish soap different now than it was in the 50's? "you don't know shit about dish soap, you're ignorant, you're biased about what kind of soap you like because you choose piss poor examples of media portraying soap" *throws hands up* anyways, sorry to derail. Just explaining my lack of participation, I can't dumb it down for people anymore. |
Shauk... it isn't about dumbing it down, it's about clarity.
The fact that just about everyone (including those who have been supporting you) is not clear on what you are saying speaks volumes about your post. Had you simply stated, "has racism changed from the 50s to today" rather than your post, it would have been clear and to the point. You didn't do that. Clarity is important. My read on your thread suggested that you were looking for a way to justify racism today. -- People can see the worst side of black culture in HipHop music videos, therefore someone is justified in being racist. -- That interpretation was reached by more than one or two people. I think it really is your job to clarify your position rather simply throw your hands in the air crying that you are misunderstood. |
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Charlatan apparently has a much better idea of what it is you want to say. I still don't quite know what it is. As I've said elsewhere, I think you might have a very interesting topic and an interesting approach to it, but you haven't made it clear. I think you needed to think it through to make the OP easier for us to understand. It's not about "dumbing it down", it's about framing a discussion in a way that leads in an obvious direction. You didn't do that. |
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There are quite a few things I don't post about for fear that those posts might come back to haunt me. There are a few times I've started a post and then abandoned it, but that's because, like Sabrina, I couldn't adequately verbalize my thoughts.
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My contribution?
Infant Coffins: How They Make Large, Durable Lunchboxes for Hungry Men ... I tend to avoid serious discussion for two reasons: 1. I'm an idiot. 2. It's played out. The Big 5. (racism, homosexuality, gun control, abortion, and religion) |
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i always feel like the janitor raoming the halls at MIT buffing floors among the professors.
Squeeb said that, I always feel like that. Almost as if I am not smart enough to even reply to a thread, much less post one. Not that Squeeb feels that way, I'm just saying how at times, I do not even understand what you are talking about. But the light bulb does go off sooner or later.......or comes on?? lol |
I'd post more in politics. But then again, I know very little and I don't particularly want to take the time to learn more.
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