Can a woman rape a man? - Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community

marcopolo · 04-24-2003, 03:31 PM

I got into this convo today with a co-worker. Needless to say, we still haven't come up with a decent answer. So, is it possible for a woman to rape a man? I personally have yet to hear a man object to sex ,but then again, there maybe an exception to this rule . Possibly with an, *ahem* foreign object ... what do you think ?

degrawj · 04-24-2003, 03:32 PM

of course it's possible. it's just not common for a man to admit to being raped by a woman.

Macheath · 04-24-2003, 03:39 PM

Yes I think it would be possible, but I suppose the feeling of violation might be more based on being psychologically manipulated than simple brute force. This, as degrawj said, would also make the man less likely to talk about it.

Lebell · 04-24-2003, 03:39 PM

Very possible, just not as common.

For example, when you get an erection in your sleep it is generally just a physical reaction and not to erotica. Fear can occassionally cause the same reaction. Not commonly, but it can.

Also, rape can mean sodomy as well as unwanted physical contact.

snowy · 04-24-2003, 03:43 PM

It totally depends on the definition of rape being used--and there are lots of different definitions. It's easier to see how a woman can rape a man if one defines rape as saying no to sexual contact but sexual contact happening anyways, despite the no. Women (being one myself) can be very psychologically manipulative--but then again, so can men. Hopefully, though, in that kind of situation, the man has the power to walk away.

yournamehere · 04-24-2003, 03:46 PM

Rape can mean "without knowledge" as well as "without consent". Also, I imagine it's possible for a man to be rendered incabable of giving consent (sleeping, drugs, alcohol), but still be "up" to the task.

I had a friend who passed out at a party once - he woke up to a really ugly girl blowing him. I suppose by definition he was being raped. I know for a fact he puked.

vermin · 04-24-2003, 03:49 PM

Have you never seen a hideous woman? A cock-ring could be used to force an erection. A handgun to discourage resistance. It'd have to be woman-on-top you'd think.

onodrim · 04-24-2003, 03:50 PM

Its more rare I'm sure, bur definently possible.

Somenosuke · 04-24-2003, 03:54 PM

Yes, it's possible.

Rodao · 04-24-2003, 04:02 PM

Definitely possible, although this doesn't happen anywhere near as often as male/female rape. Haven't you guys ever seent he movie Thursday ? Or was it Tuesday ? I don't remember.

Grondar · 04-24-2003, 04:05 PM

I used to wonder this.

It is certainly possible, but it rarely happens from what I have heard/read.

Zello · 04-24-2003, 04:14 PM

Good luck trying to file a complaint on that.

I've never actually heard of it happening but I would guess it has happened.

uncle phil · 04-24-2003, 04:20 PM

what lebell said, as well as age differences in most states (new hampshire and oregon come to mind recently...)

Peetster · 04-24-2003, 04:27 PM

Clearly possible, but most guys would not think of it in those terms.

BigJayz · 04-24-2003, 04:29 PM

Definately!!! And I don't think I'd mind being raped by the right woman!!!

Sun Tzu · 04-24-2003, 04:37 PM

I know Im perverted, but the thought a woman raping me is a turn on. (provided there's no strap on or similiar direction being considered--then its turning into a bad scenerio)

Daval · 04-24-2003, 04:42 PM

I think it would be possible, but the shame factor especially for men would cause most to be unreported

The_Dude · 04-24-2003, 05:34 PM

why not?

BoCo · 04-24-2003, 05:35 PM

If I wanted it, then I'd be hard, and it wouldn't be rape. If I didn't want it, then I wouldn't be hard, and she couldn't fuck me.

So, no, I don't think it's really possible.

ARTelevision · 04-24-2003, 05:38 PM

no difference between genders in my book - so it's a no brainer.

Binder · 04-24-2003, 05:39 PM

i think not only is it possible, but it is a reality. it just happens much less frequently than men raping women.

Ghost Bladder · 04-24-2003, 05:40 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by BoCo
If I wanted it, then I'd be hard, and it wouldn't be rape. If I didn't want it, then I wouldn't be hard, and she couldn't fuck me.

So, no, I don't think it's really possible.

BoCo what if she used a strap on?

Lebell · 04-24-2003, 05:47 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by Sun Tzu
I know Im perverted, but the thought a woman raping me is a turn on. (provided there's no strap on or similiar direction being considered--then its turning into a bad scenerio)

Just curious,

Is it the fantasy that turns you on or the reality?

I can't imagine enjoying sex with anyone if there was a 9mm in my mouth or the point of a knife was at my throat drawing blood.

Somenosuke · 04-24-2003, 05:51 PM

There are going to be times in people's lives where they are going to respond to stimulation whether it's wanted or not. If a woman gets wet while being groped rudely, that doesn't mean she likes it. The body is going to respond to the stimulation whether the person feels it should or not. This is not to say that a person's desire not to become physically aroused could not override the body's natural response, but in some cases, that just isn't possible.

Ghost Bladder · 04-24-2003, 06:00 PM

Hasn't anyone heard the statistic of straight men being raped by other men, which often results in the victim getting hard? Your porksword has a mind of it's own.

jets · 04-24-2003, 06:45 PM

Yes. Some bitches are huge.

Johnny Rotten · 04-24-2003, 06:48 PM

Well, I imagine it's not too farfetched once a strap-on gets involved.

SecretMethod70 · 04-24-2003, 07:15 PM

Definitely possible. I'm pretty sure it's not as common as the other way around - the genetic wiring just isn't there in females to create the same frequency. But it's definitely possible and does happen.

Spungfoo · 04-24-2003, 07:19 PM

Yes, it does happen... I know someone who's girlfriend would fuck him (violently)while he was asleep.

juanvaldes · 04-24-2003, 07:35 PM

Yes.

But were all horney bastards so it's not very common

oane · 04-24-2003, 08:09 PM

Quote:

Originally posted by yournamehere
I suppose by definition he was being raped. I know for a fact he puked.

I sincerely hope he puked on the bitch's face

And oh yes, watch Thursday. It's a funny movie, enjoyable too. Then Paulina Porizkova rapes our hero........

duckduck · 04-24-2003, 08:21 PM

Definitely. This was *kinda* touched on in Crichton's book that became a movie with Demi Moore and Michael Douglas (I forget the name).

Cynthetiq · 04-24-2003, 10:55 PM

hmm.... remember Mr. Wallace from Pulp Fiction... oh that's right we're not supposed to talk about that scene with the gimp.

Oilman · 04-24-2003, 11:08 PM

I think if a man is raped, he is still fairly happy, he still "got laid" even if it was forced upon him... On a serious note, I never heard of a woman raping a man (or even a man raping a man). I think guys are to macho to admit it anyways

mpedrummer2 · 04-24-2003, 11:13 PM

Micheal Crichton wrote a book about this...Disclosure, I think...might be a movie too...I forget.

Dragonlich · 04-24-2003, 11:34 PM

As usual, the fantasy isn't quite as nice as reality.

Fantasy: gorgeous woman (women?) tie you to your bed, force you to have hot monkey love with them, you both enjoy it.

Reality: hideous, fat, scary-looking thing (once a woman) ties you up, kicks your arse, insults you for being a wimp, forces you to have an erection (not that hard with the proper physiological stimulus), and rides you. She then leaves before you even come. You cry like a baby and feel utterly violated and dirty. (And this doesn't even include a strap-on...)

Remember, kids... rape isn't about sex, it's about *power*.

Nad Adam · 04-25-2003, 12:14 AM

It's possible, it just takes a lot of determination.

Spidey · 04-25-2003, 03:24 AM

In New Zealand there is this fucked up law.
Women can legally have sex with people under 16 without concent, while males can't have sex with females under the age of 16 WITH concent.

got sexiest :\

rsl12 · 04-25-2003, 04:37 AM

an illustrative example would be helpful. has there been ANY reported cases of women raping men in the US?

BoCo · 04-25-2003, 04:49 AM

Quote:

Originally posted by Ghost Bladder
BoCo what if she used a strap on?

Stay away from my ass, woman!!!

04-24-2003, 03:31 PM	#1 (permalink)
marcopolo I am the anomaly. Location: Motown	Can a woman rape a man? I got into this convo today with a co-worker. Needless to say, we still haven't come up with a decent answer. So, is it possible for a woman to rape a man? I personally have yet to hear a man object to sex ,but then again, there maybe an exception to this rule . Possibly with an, ahem foreign object ... what do you think ? __________________ Those who can't laugh at themselves leave the job to others.

04-24-2003, 03:39 PM	#4 (permalink)
Lebell Cracking the Whip Location: Sexymama's arms...	Very possible, just not as common. For example, when you get an erection in your sleep it is generally just a physical reaction and not to erotica. Fear can occassionally cause the same reaction. Not commonly, but it can. Also, rape can mean sodomy as well as unwanted physical contact. __________________ "Of all tyrannies, a tyranny exercised for the good of its victims may be the most oppressive. It may be better to live under robber barons than under omnipotent moral busybodies. The robber baron's cruelty may sometimes sleep, his cupidity may at some point be satiated; but those who torment us for our own good will torment us without end, for they do so with the approval of their own conscience." – C. S. Lewis The ONLY sponsors we have are YOU! Please Donate!

04-24-2003, 03:43 PM	#5 (permalink)
snowy Kick Ass Kunoichi Location: Oregon	It totally depends on the definition of rape being used--and there are lots of different definitions. It's easier to see how a woman can rape a man if one defines rape as saying no to sexual contact but sexual contact happening anyways, despite the no. Women (being one myself) can be very psychologically manipulative--but then again, so can men. Hopefully, though, in that kind of situation, the man has the power to walk away. __________________ If I am not better, at least I am different. --Jean-Jacques Rousseau

04-24-2003, 03:46 PM	#6 (permalink)
yournamehere Invisible Location: tentative, at best	Rape can mean "without knowledge" as well as "without consent". Also, I imagine it's possible for a man to be rendered incabable of giving consent (sleeping, drugs, alcohol), but still be "up" to the task. I had a friend who passed out at a party once - he woke up to a really ugly girl blowing him. I suppose by definition he was being raped. I know for a fact he puked. __________________ If you want to avoid 95% of internet spelling errors: "If your ridiculous pants are too loose, you're definitely going to lose them. Tell your two loser friends over there that they're going to lose theirs, too." It won't hurt your fashion sense, either.

04-24-2003, 03:49 PM	#7 (permalink)
vermin Indifferent to anti-matter Location: Tucson, AZ	Have you never seen a hideous woman? A cock-ring could be used to force an erection. A handgun to discourage resistance. It'd have to be woman-on-top you'd think. __________________ If puns were sausages, this would be the wurst.

04-24-2003, 03:32 PM	#2 (permalink)
degrawj I'm still waiting... Location: West Linn, OR	of course it's possible. it's just not common for a man to admit to being raped by a woman.

04-24-2003, 03:39 PM	#3 (permalink)
Macheath Junkie Location: Sydney, Australia	Yes I think it would be possible, but I suppose the feeling of violation might be more based on being psychologically manipulated than simple brute force. This, as degrawj said, would also make the man less likely to talk about it.

04-24-2003, 03:50 PM	#8 (permalink)
onodrim Cosmically Curious Location: Chicago, IL	Its more rare I'm sure, bur definently possible. __________________ "The world is so exquisite with so much love and moral depth, that there is no reason to deceive ourselves with pretty stories for which there’s little good evidence. Far better it seems to me, in our vulnerability, is to look death in the eye and to be grateful every day for the brief but magnificent opportunity that life provides" -Carl Sagan

04-24-2003, 03:54 PM	#9 (permalink)
Somenosuke Insane Location: The 7th Level..	Yes, it's possible. __________________ Sex is not the answer. Sex is the question. Yes is the answer.

04-24-2003, 04:02 PM	#10 (permalink)
Rodao Banned	Definitely possible, although this doesn't happen anywhere near as often as male/female rape. Haven't you guys ever seent he movie Thursday ? Or was it Tuesday ? I don't remember.

04-24-2003, 04:05 PM	#11 (permalink)
Grondar Junkie Location: Pa, USA	I used to wonder this. It is certainly possible, but it rarely happens from what I have heard/read. __________________ "Yes, I rather like this God fellow. He's very theatrical, you know, a pestilence here, a plague there. Omnipotence. Gotta get me some of that." -Stewie

04-24-2003, 04:14 PM	#12 (permalink)
Zello Crazy Location: Vincennes, IN	Good luck trying to file a complaint on that. I've never actually heard of it happening but I would guess it has happened. __________________ Sorry, you can not add yourself to your own list.

04-24-2003, 04:20 PM	#13 (permalink)
uncle phil comfortably numb... Super Moderator Location: upstate	what lebell said, as well as age differences in most states (new hampshire and oregon come to mind recently...) __________________ "We were wrong, terribly wrong. (We) should not have tried to fight a guerrilla war with conventional military tactics against a foe willing to absorb enormous casualties...in a country lacking the fundamental political stability necessary to conduct effective military and pacification operations. It could not be done and it was not done." - Robert S. McNamara ----------------------------------------- "We will take our napalm and flame throwers out of the land that scarcely knows the use of matches... We will leave you your small joys and smaller troubles." - Eugene McCarthy in "Vietnam Message" ----------------------------------------- never wrestle with a pig. you both get dirty; the pig likes it.

04-24-2003, 04:27 PM	#14 (permalink)
Peetster Right Now Location: Home	Clearly possible, but most guys would not think of it in those terms.

04-24-2003, 04:29 PM	#15 (permalink)
BigJayz Crazy Location: Sunny So. Cal.	Definately!!! And I don't think I'd mind being raped by the right woman!!!

04-24-2003, 05:34 PM	#18 (permalink)
The_Dude The GrandDaddy of them all! Location: Austin, TX	why not? __________________ "Luck is what happens when preparation meets opportunity." - Darrel K Royal

04-24-2003, 04:37 PM	#16 (permalink)
Sun Tzu Conspiracy Realist Location: The Event Horizon	I know Im perverted, but the thought a woman raping me is a turn on. (provided there's no strap on or similiar direction being considered--then its turning into a bad scenerio) __________________ *To confine our attention to terrestrial matters would be to limit the human spirit.- Stephen Hawking*

04-24-2003, 04:42 PM	#17 (permalink)
Daval Junkie Location: The True North Strong and Free!	I think it would be possible, but the shame factor especially for men would cause most to be unreported __________________ "It is impossible to obtain a conviction for sodomy from an English jury. Half of them don't believe that it can physically be done, and the other half are doing it." Winston Churchill

04-24-2003, 05:35 PM	#19 (permalink)
BoCo Fear the bunny Location: Hanging off the tip of the Right Wing	If I wanted it, then I'd be hard, and it wouldn't be rape. If I didn't want it, then I wouldn't be hard, and she couldn't fuck me. So, no, I don't think it's really possible. __________________ Activism is a way for useless people to feel important.

04-24-2003, 05:38 PM	#20 (permalink)
ARTelevision I change Location: USA	no difference between genders in my book - so it's a no brainer. __________________ create evolution

04-24-2003, 05:39 PM	#21 (permalink)
Binder Insane Location: between lost and confused	i think not only is it possible, but it is a reality. it just happens much less frequently than men raping women.

04-24-2003, 05:51 PM	#24 (permalink)
Somenosuke Insane Location: The 7th Level..	There are going to be times in people's lives where they are going to respond to stimulation whether it's wanted or not. If a woman gets wet while being groped rudely, that doesn't mean she likes it. The body is going to respond to the stimulation whether the person feels it should or not. This is not to say that a person's desire not to become physically aroused could not override the body's natural response, but in some cases, that just isn't possible. __________________ Sex is not the answer. Sex is the question. Yes is the answer.

04-24-2003, 06:00 PM	#25 (permalink)
Ghost Bladder Banned	Hasn't anyone heard the statistic of straight men being raped by other men, which often results in the victim getting hard? Your porksword has a mind of it's own.

04-24-2003, 06:45 PM	#26 (permalink)
jets Insane	Yes. Some bitches are huge. __________________ Hey. Wasn't Me.

04-24-2003, 06:48 PM	#27 (permalink)
Johnny Rotten lost and found Location: Berkeley	Well, I imagine it's not too farfetched once a strap-on gets involved. __________________ "The idea that money doesn't buy you happiness is a lie put about by the rich, to stop the poor from killing them." -- Michael Caine

04-24-2003, 07:15 PM	#28 (permalink)
SecretMethod70 Human Administrator Location: Chicago	Definitely possible. I'm pretty sure it's not as common as the other way around - the genetic wiring just isn't there in females to create the same frequency. But it's definitely possible and does happen. __________________ Le temps détruit tout "Musicians are the carriers and communicators of spirit in the most immediate sense." - Kurt Elling

04-24-2003, 07:19 PM	#29 (permalink)
Spungfoo Insane Location: Pittsburgh, PA	Yes, it does happen... I know someone who's girlfriend would fuck him (violently)while he was asleep.

04-24-2003, 07:35 PM	#30 (permalink)
juanvaldes Banned Location: shittown, CA	Yes. But were all horney bastards so it's not very common

04-24-2003, 08:21 PM	#32 (permalink)
duckduck Psycho Location: Where hockey pucks run rampant	Definitely. This was kinda touched on in Crichton's book that became a movie with Demi Moore and Michael Douglas (I forget the name). __________________ Lead me, follow me, or get out of my way!

04-24-2003, 10:55 PM	#33 (permalink)
Cynthetiq Tilted Cat Head Administrator Location: Manhattan, NY	hmm.... remember Mr. Wallace from Pulp Fiction... oh that's right we're not supposed to talk about that scene with the gimp. __________________ I don't care if you are black, white, purple, green, Chinese, Japanese, Korean, hippie, cop, bum, admin, user, English, Irish, French, Catholic, Protestant, Jewish, Buddhist, Muslim, indian, cowboy, tall, short, fat, skinny, emo, punk, mod, rocker, straight, gay, lesbian, jock, nerd, geek, Democrat, Republican, Libertarian, Independent, driver, pedestrian, or bicyclist, either you're an asshole or you're not. What's the best nation in the world? DO-NATION!

04-24-2003, 11:08 PM	#34 (permalink)
Oilman Banned	I think if a man is raped, he is still fairly happy, he still "got laid" even if it was forced upon him... On a serious note, I never heard of a woman raping a man (or even a man raping a man). I think guys are to macho to admit it anyways

04-24-2003, 11:13 PM	#35 (permalink)
mpedrummer2 Insane	Micheal Crichton wrote a book about this...Disclosure, I think...might be a movie too...I forget. __________________ My sig can beat up your honor student.

04-24-2003, 11:34 PM	#36 (permalink)
Dragonlich 42, baby! Location: The Netherlands	As usual, the fantasy isn't quite as nice as reality. Fantasy: gorgeous woman (women?) tie you to your bed, force you to have hot monkey love with them, you both enjoy it. Reality: hideous, fat, scary-looking thing (once a woman) ties you up, kicks your arse, insults you for being a wimp, forces you to have an erection (not that hard with the proper physiological stimulus), and rides you. She then leaves before you even come. You cry like a baby and feel utterly violated and dirty. (And this doesn't even include a strap-on...) Remember, kids... rape isn't about sex, it's about power.

04-25-2003, 12:14 AM	#37 (permalink)
Nad Adam Psycho Location: Sweden	It's possible, it just takes a lot of determination. __________________ Happy shall he be, that taketh and dasheth thy little ones against the stones. - Psalms 137:9

04-25-2003, 03:24 AM	#38 (permalink)
Spidey Crazy Location: Wellington, New Zealand	In New Zealand there is this fucked up law. Women can legally have sex with people under 16 without concent, while males can't have sex with females under the age of 16 WITH concent. got sexiest :\

04-25-2003, 04:37 AM	#39 (permalink)
rsl12 On the lam Location: northern va	an illustrative example would be helpful. has there been ANY reported cases of women raping men in the US? __________________ oh baby oh baby, i like gravy.