Pegging Attitudes

Since I'm a newbie, I figured I'd start of with a bang...pun intended.
What is everyone's attitude towards pegging? It generally is depicted in a darker ,BDSM way but I'm talking about erotic pegging.
Ever been asked or have you asked? And what was the reaction? Hey Ladies, does the idea excite you or make you run for the door? And lastly, fellas, does the idea make you feel weird or turn your crank or maybe its something you've never thought of.
And go!

JB

 

Not being familiar with this type of pegging (nor having any interest in it, either) my only contribution to this thread will be my own experience with "pegging":

 

Well, it is an acquired taste for sure and not for everyone. Was just curious because I've met people who thought it was strictly a BDSM and were genuinely surprised that it could be an erotic and highly sensual exchange. As for rimming, that can be done just about anytime so I guess the answer would be yes to that scenario.

JB

 

It's fucking great. However most women are not very good at hip thrusting and of course they generally don't get any direct stimulation out of it. With experience it does not hurt. But it does take practice and cannot be rushed or forced. The orgasm is amazing because it is not just based around your dick. You get much more of your body involved in enjoying it. To heighten the sensation, have her wear the strapon over her jeans. The denim on your ass is exquisite. And wait til she grabs you by the hips to pull you onto her. Don't knock it until you try it.

 

That's usually what happens when going that route.

 

I agree with Omega....it is amazing. Definitely a completely different orgasm...cant really even call it that it's an assgasm, full body, repeatable or multiple and when your done you're generally in a heap of sweat and unable to move correctly for 20 minutes! Lol
Patience and communication is key because generally it's very awkward for her... especially in the beginning and thats where most folks either embrace or shut down..the angles, the thrusting movement and the inability to actually "feel" the strap on. So yah take it effing slow, talk alot, lots of lube and what ever you do ladies, don't sink it to tbe bottom on the first stroke...makes for an early night.
I've been fortunate because I've had women who were all enthusiastic, patient and loving. They made it fun and super fucking erotic and after a couple of decades, I find myself in the position of being the enthusiastic, patient and loving partner now to a whole group of women who just want to learn. Kind of a trip! Just one guys story here!

JB

 

Speaking of pegging, got some yesterday after years. It's interesting in that regular ramming by a handheld dildo is very intense and a much faster speed, pegging brings the other sensations of hips bamging together, hams placement, etc... very fulfilling in its own way. Told her once a quarter would probably be good.

 

I think subliminally I keep hoping the thread title will change to "pregging".
Because those pregnant, curvy ladies....mmm mmmm fine!

 

Would that be a sticky?

 

Which is one of the reasons I don't ask too often. I know it doesn't really do much for her. And its not filling a kink for her. She just ends up turned on and I am spent. But she will do it on occasion.

 

I'm a experimenter curious. But I've always wandered about sex toys and a link between some cervical cancers and what actually goes inside and what the toy is made of and where. There are some deadly chemical agents being used by some county's on products in the sex industry all-around the world. If you want to come multiple orgasms and masturbate be a investigater ask questions not a mad masturbater.

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My desires in this are moot, my wife wouldn't think of it, she extremely anti-anal-anything.

 

A lot of sexual stimulation occurs in the brain. My wife has orgasmed while pegging me, but not every time. The faster she thrusts the more likely she is to cum.

This happens using a 'standard' harness and dildo. They make harnesses that have built in dildos for her pleasure, vaginal, and anal if desired. There are 'no harness' pegging dildos, one end 'hooks' into the vagina (the reviews I've read on the net, and here at TFP, are mixed).

There's always inserting a vibrating egg or similar toy, wearing vibrating panties, etc.

The first harness we had was panty style, but crotchless, so my wife could stimulate herself, or I could.



One thing I've mentioned in similar threads is the style of harness. In our experience the sturdy harnesses, which are considered unattractive and too masculine (!!!) by some women, work much better than the 'thong' style ones which do not hold the dildo tight against the pelvis.

Any harness can rub raw spots if the wearer isn't used to wearing it, and some designs don't match the body type. Wearing full coverage panties, some type of workout shorts, etc can help prevent or reduce this (and they can help to hold a 'toy for her' in place).

 

Many sites actually recommend using better quality condoms with sex toys, especially for anal play.


BTW/FTR our pegging activity has fallen off considerably over the last few years for a variety of reasons.

 

I got some this afternoon, but no orgasm. It feels amazingly great nearly every time (there have been times when I simply couldn't handle it), but I rarely get a full erection, much less cum (without a helping hand).

 

Kinda living vicariously through your post. If we're being totally honest

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