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Do you have a fetish? what is it? when did you know you liked said fetish? what makes something a fetish? does anyone know?

 

Womens feet. For a long time now. Not why or how it started though tbh

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I don't have any fetishes, but (when I was considerably younger) I used to have a few kinks. (If you're not clear on the difference, Google the two.) To the best of my recollection, they all involved my wife. The ones that occur to me are/were (in no particular order):

1. Going out in public with my wife when she's wearing very revealing clothing (i.e. sheer blouse w/o a bra or short skirt w/o any underwear),
2. Photographing my wife nude or semi-nude,
3. Watching my best friend and my wife fuck (and then sometimes joining in the action).

I/we do none of that anymore as we've both grown old, stiff, sore, and tired, and neither of us are particularly exciting to look at. (Also, our friend moved out of state for a new job years ago and we've completely lost touch with him.)

Ahh, youth. It's totally wasted on the young!

 

I've got my share of kinks but not so much fetishes.
Oh, I love fishnet stockings but I want to see the entire woman in them.
It frustrates me when the photographer just shows the legs.
I'm just not a big fan of dividing women into parts.
I love a beautiful ass with a jeweled butt plug in it but I want to see the woman enjoying the sensation of having it there more.
The dictionary definition of fetish is

To see a woman's ankles strapped firmly to the couch legs and her naked body bent over the arm, with her own arms lashed firmly at her sides with cotton rope while I alternate between using a Hitachi magic wand and a flat camel hair brush on her exposed flesh, until she has orgasmed so many times she passes out, pretty much makes my day.

 

Boobs. That is my fetish. all shapes and sizes. small ones, perky ones, saggy ones. I just love boobs.
I love to watch, but that may be a kink

 

Going by the strict definition, I have no fetishes.

However, if we want to relax that a bit and just say, "Hey, other than boobs & butts (which are nice), anything else get you turned on?"


Um, yeah, actually. Two things.

Legs, for one:


I think it started in high school- although I went to a public school, there was a minor dress code and no short skirts/shorts were allowed. Therefore, it wasn't until I was sitting in geometry class and realizing I was paying virtually no attention to whatever the hell the teacher was saying and instead concentrating on the lower limbs of all the girls sitting just ahead of me all wearing shorts and skirts.

I mean, seriously- I could stare at this stuff all day and never get bored.


I've had a few near-accidents because of this- sometimes gawking at some woman walking by has led me to step into traffic, or into light poles, or off a flight of stairs. The risk has always been worth it, though.

Oh, the other thing- Asian women:


I'm not entirely sure what this place is, but I'm guessing... heaven?

Where did this interest start? Oh, probably in the aforementioned geometry class- we had a considerable number of foreign female Asians who were a hell of a lot smarter than us and always came to class dressed to kill.

 

I haven't had a partner in quite some time. I know what I like as far as porn, hentai, etc, but 2D kinks aren't always a direct translation to 3D. I fear I may too far down the MGTOW path...

 

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MGTOW is short for Men Going Their Own Way... They have a vocal radical element that gives them a bad name. It's mostly men who have given up on the dating scene and to just be a bachelor.

 

Not sure about fetish vs kink...

I like to tease my SO in public (my fave is at crowded rock concerts).
Blindfolds and handcuffs are pretty darn fun.
Anything rough is also amazing.
And i like the occassional bit of pain mixed in with my pleasure.

 

What is "CFNM"?

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If you please what is "MGTOW"? I feel rather daft today.

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Oops. and that one was answered. Sorry about that!

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My kinks list is ridiculously long and ever changing. Fetishes though mostly men's hands, being tight laced in a corset, spanking, and yeah that's enough (over)sharing for one day.

View: https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=zXT_IOt81Xs

 

Is there such thing as oversharing on TFP?

 

I personally am not opposed to you sharing AS MUCH as you're comfortable with... ;-)

 

That's a fun one

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I'm not sure where one draws the line between fetish and just variations of normal sex.

Things I've done which some would call a fetish.

• "Wife swapping"
• Orgies
• being watched in person having sex with my wife or someone else
  
• being watched by 100's on cam with my wife
• cam sex with women I've met online (mutual masturbation)
• exhibitionism (non-illegal)

None of that really feels like a fetish, just more of things which can turn you on. With the definition of fetish being "a form of sexual desire in which gratification is linked to an abnormal degree to a particular object, item of clothing, part of the body, etc.: " I can't say I have any real fetishes. I like nice boobs and a nice body, pretty face that sort of thing, but thats not to an "abnormal degree". Things like feet or types of clothing etc don't matter to me. I remember a TFP poster many years ago who was upset because she had what she thought of as ugly feet, my reply to her was that if shes naked and I'm looking at her feet I'm doing something wrong.

I'm kind of surprised that I don't have a fetish that I can pin point, and having a fetish seems pretty "in vogue" lately. Things like BDSM and such are practically main stream these days.

 

That's an interesting point(s).
In which case, are what's commonly thought of as fetishes now decreasing in that bdsm and s and m are becoming more normal....so then in future perhaos it'll be just sort of age play, scat play etc., that stays being a fetish (i.e. not "normal".

So is society reaching a point where more and more becomes normal (as long as it's legal)? Sorry if that sounds waffley.

 

Ok thinking a bit about this I'd say the closet thing to a fetish would be the exhibitionism side. When you look up exhibitionism its always the bit about exposing yourself to someone unsuspecting. This isn't it at all though for me and I've never even streaked or the like. I enjoy being naked when its "socially acceptable". Its not nudism in that there is a definite sexual component, but in itself it isn't sexually stimulating either.

Its also not a required part of my sex life or drive. I've only read one very brief description of this sort of thing in psychology literature as almost all of it focuses on the illegal sort of exhibitionism as a compulsion. That one brief bit said basically for people like me its fine. So I got that going for me.

Which is nice.