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Advise me please?

Discussion in 'Tilted Life and Sexuality' started by nvous, Jan 17, 2014.

  1. nvous

    nvous New Member

    Does anyone have an idea on how to make a blowjob last longer? My husband does not have any issues lasting during any form of intercourse, but when he's in or near my mouth it, just goes too fast for me! How do I slow the process down?
     
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  2. rogue49

    rogue49 Tech Kung Fu Artist Staff Member

    Location:
    Baltimore/DC
    Get him off first once or twice...then attempt it.

    That or use a condom to decrease sensitivity, but I suggest the former.
     
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  3. nvous

    nvous New Member

    Thanks! I'll try that!!
     
  4. fflowley

    fflowley Don't just do something, stand there!

    There was a young lady I knew in college who gave a spectacular BJ.
    She would hold the base of my cock firmly encircled in her thumb and index finger. I wouldn't/couldn't cum when she was doing that.
     
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  5. snowy

    snowy so kawaii Staff Member

    Yeah, that's a classic trick.
     
  6. kramus

    kramus what I might see Donor

    There may be too much focus on Mr Happy. More eye play, air kisses, warm breath and eyelash brushing, hair sweeps and brushes with your cheeks and chin all around the midsection of yr fellow. Pay attention to his belly and thighs. Gripping of his thighs and ass with your hands while massaging his belly with yr breasts is a lovely thing to do and lets his over-heated cock rest from direct stimulation. That is worth repeating. Give his over-heated cock an occasional break from direct stimulation. You can spend a lot of time circling around the cock, coming in for enough contact to keep the precum flowing and yet trying to hold off from the absolute edge he seems to topple over too readily. Try giving his shin warm wet pussy kisses while leaning back and enjoying the moment yourself - generally backing off to present yourself while asking what else he likes. Get him to direct just how he'll want you to keep working him both during and after the money shot. Tell him you plan on milking him until he is completely limp over and over until you feel you are doing it perfectly. Then you plan on playing with his pleasure in future blow jobs you will be giving him down the road. If he shoots off quickly anyway work on paying him some really hot after-orgasm attention while telling him he is not getting away from you that easily. Seriously, the after-cum period is just as important as any other when involved in a great blow job. Extend that post-cum attention time. Continue to work his cock and belly and thighs (I think of it as being gentled down). The whole experience seems to last a lot longer. Perception of time is relative, after all :)
     
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  7. snowy

    snowy so kawaii Staff Member

    One of my favorite maneuvers is to pull back and just breathe on the head, my tongue occasionally darting out for a lick. It's a long, slow tease. I also do this to start off the BJ before going in deep.
     
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  8. Leto

    Leto Slightly Tilted

    Location:
    Toronto

    it would be better put as:

    There was a young lady from college
    Who gave me exceedingly good ball-age
    She would grab the base of my member
    With encircled thumb and fore-finger
    And I just couldn't cum without her knowledge

    meh... or something like that. I'm bad at those. :)
     
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  9. nvous

    nvous New Member

    I have decided that I needed to experiment.. more blowjobs, more teasing, more skin on, extremely sensitive skin. Last night I went to town. I would get him excited enough to almost finish, then back off and play around elsewhere until he was calmed down enough for me to take him again. He loved it, and it felt great being able to show my appreciation of his trophy dick. ;)
     
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  10. Chris Noyb

    Chris Noyb Get in, buckle up, hang on, & be quiet. Donor

    Location:
    Large City, TX
    Somewhere in TFP 4 there is a blowjob guide, it contains a lot of great information. I searched for it in the archives in Tilted Sexuality, but gave up after page seven, maybe someone smarter & more diligent than me will find it and post a link.

    Edit: I'm a duhmbass, it helps to have the correct site name when using search engines.

    The Ultimate Blow Job Guide - Tilted Forum Project Discussion Community
     
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  11. Cayvmann

    Cayvmann Very Tilted

    You could practice on me... ( just kidding ). I am jealous though. Good for you for enjoying it and wanting more pleasure out of it. My wife is not a fan of bjs or me lasting a very long time.

    My first gf used to tease me mercilessly, getting me close, then stopping. She sometimes even thumped my testicles, though not very hard (didn't need to be). The good and bad of the teasing was that I lasted a long time during sex/blowjobs. The bad part was I lasted too long during blowjobs...
     
  12. jon.abrams.39

    jon.abrams.39 New Member

    Location:
    Phoenix, Arizona