Fellatio/Blow Jobs, Deep Throating

AlwaysCurious · Sep 8, 2017

I had a quick search and couldn't find any posts related to this (though if I'm wrong, I do apologise).

So the other day I was giving my bf a blow job, which is something he always enjoys and is guaranteed to get him vocal, which I enjoy.

However, something I'm struggling with is being able to keep going for long enough to avoid the inevitable jaw ache, which often results in finishing him off in other ways. Which is fine ofc but I really want to be able to finish him off with my mouth.
Not to mention I have such an annoying gag reflex that so far Deep Throating him is a distant dream.

Any tips? What do you or your partners enjoy? Any other fellatio related comments are welcome.

Wildmermaid · Sep 8, 2017

I have a freaking migraine, but will totally be back to this thread when my brain works again. Love oral love to give blow jobs, love the erm... outcome of them too!

Lindy · Sep 9, 2017

AlwaysCurious said: ↑

....However, something I'm struggling with is being able to keep going for long enough to avoid the inevitable jaw ache, which often results in finishing him off in other ways. Which is fine ofc but I really want to be able to finish him off with my mouth.
Not to mention I have such an annoying gag reflex that so far Deep Throating him is a distant dream.

Any tips? What do you or your partners enjoy? Any other fellatio related comments are welcome.
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I love giving head, and have since I first started at age 14. Wow, that's over twenty-five years of sucking cock.

It's easy enough to go to one of those "other ways" as soon as your jaw starts to get achy, and then back to giving head after your jaw takes a break. Also, a hybridized bj mixed with ball sucking, hand job, tit job, etc. works well for me and mine.

I think that the pure mouth only, no hands bj is just something for porn movies. Directors like it because it keeps the almighty cock always visible. My guy actually likes the mix of bj with PIV, hand job, and titty fucking.

I can deep throat without any of that disgusting fake gagging that's so common in porn. But my guy isn't that into it, so it's not on the "playlist" that often.

AlwaysCurious · Sep 9, 2017

Lindy said: ↑

I love giving head, and have since I first started at age 14. Wow, that's over twenty-five years of sucking cock.

It's easy enough to go to one of those "other ways" as soon as your jaw starts to get achy, and then back to giving head after your jaw takes a break. Also, a hybridized bj mixed with ball sucking, hand job, tit job, etc. works well for me and mine.

I think that the pure mouth only, no hands bj is just something for porn movies. Directors like it because it keeps the almighty cock always visible. My guy actually likes the mix of bj with PIV, hand job, and titty fucking.

I can deep throat without any of that disgusting fake gagging that's so common in porn. But my guy isn't that into it, so it's not on the "playlist" that often.
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Damn that is a long time!

Tbh me and my bf do mix things up a lot, PIV, and handjobs being the usual ones, but there are occassions where I'd like to spend more time focussing on just oral.

HOW do you manage that without gagging? I have thought about buying those throat numbing sprays but I'm wondering if there's a way to go for it without that.

Wildmermaid · Sep 9, 2017

Bravo @Lindy! Sounds like you have some serious skills! Wow deep throating impresses me , but sadly is not a skill I have. I've tried but it just does not work. I cry and such which has worked for some, lol. Being held by my long pigtails, face fucked by my former Daddy, he liked that it made me weep, and I liked the subby aspect, so it worked out. Husband not into that, but oh he likes the blow jobs I give him very much indeed. *grin* It surprised him for years that I enjoy it, but now he's just glad. His other girlfriends were not into giving head, and I just pounce when the mood strikes one of us lol.

Lindy · Sep 10, 2017

AlwaysCurious said: ↑

Damn that is a long time!

Tbh me and my bf do mix things up a lot, PIV, and handjobs being the usual ones, but there are occassions where I'd like to spend more time focussing on just oral.

HOW do you manage that without gagging? I have thought about buying those throat numbing sprays but I'm wondering if there's a way to go for it without that.
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Make sure your tongue is out of the way. Push the tip of your tongue all the way forward past your lower teeth and down towards your chin. Don't try to deep throat with you tongue in your mouth. Like the emoji. Then push gradually and back off as soon as the gag starts to set in. Concentrate. Then go back down. Breathe through your nose. Repeat. You can gradually loose most of the gag reflex. But back off as soon as the gag starts. Don't force it too soon. That sets in panic and fear of not being able to breathe. Try taking a little bit deeper each time. My cousin says that she uses lube. Butter. I've never tried it.
It does help if the cock is really hard! Now, who doesn't like a hard cock? I can't deep throat a semi-stiffy. It just keeps bending off to the side , fills up my oral cavity, and won't go "down." And a long banana shape cock (curved and thinner at the head) will go down easier than a knobby mushroom. But I prefer fucking the knobby mushroom. Sig calls it his helmet.

Wildmermaid said: ↑

Bravo @Lindy! Sounds like you have some serious skills! Wow deep throating impresses me , but sadly is not a skill I have. I've tried but it just does not work. I cry and such which has worked for some, lol. Being held by my long pigtails, face fucked by my former Daddy, he liked that it made me weep, and I liked the subby aspect, so it worked out. Husband not into that, but oh he likes the blow jobs I give him very much indeed. *grin* It surprised him for years that I enjoy it, but now he's just glad. His other girlfriends were not into giving head, and I just pounce when the mood strikes one of us lol.
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When I was fifteen I had about a four-month long fling with a twenty-six year old Adonis. I learned how to do lots of things in those four months. He was a strong teacher and I was the willing student. Nowadays he would be called an "abuser" and statutory rapist even though at fifteen I was the instigator. Not legal for me to consent. But he was so hot! Like the Marlboro man without the cigarettes. I was a selfish little bitch. We finally split because I thought that he thought that I was ugly. He didn't want to be seen out with me. That wasn't true, I found out from him ten years later. (You can't completely escape your past in a small town. It walks the same streets that you do.) He was afraid of getting caught and going to jail. He is a topic for another thread.

AlwaysCurious · Sep 10, 2017

Lindy said: ↑

Make sure your tongue is out of the way. Push the tip of your tongue all the way forward past your lower teeth and down towards your chin. Don't try to deep throat with you tongue in your mouth. Like the emoji. Then push gradually and back off as soon as the gag starts to set in. Concentrate. Then go back down. Breathe through your nose. Repeat. You can gradually loose most of the gag reflex. But back off as soon as the gag starts. Don't force it too soon. That sets in panic and fear of not being able to breathe. Try taking a little bit deeper each time. My cousin says that she uses lube. Butter. I've never tried it.
It does help if the cock is really hard! Now, who doesn't like a hard cock? I can't deep throat a semi-stiffy. It just keeps bending off to the side , fills up my oral cavity, and won't go "down." And a long banana shape cock (curved and thinner at the head) will go down easier than a knobby mushroom. But I prefer fucking the knobby mushroom. Sig calls it his helmet.
When I was fifteen I had about a four-month long fling with a twenty-six year old Adonis. I learned how to do lots of things in those four months. He was a strong teacher and I was the willing student. Nowadays he would be called an "abuser" and statutory rapist even though at fifteen I was the instigator. Not legal for me to consent. But he was so hot! Like the Marlboro man without the cigarettes. I was a selfish little bitch. We finally split because I thought that he thought that I was ugly. He didn't want to be seen out with me. That wasn't true, I found out from him ten years later. (You can't completely escape your past in a small town. It walks the same streets that you do.) He was afraid of getting caught and going to jail. He is a topic for another thread.
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Damn, thanks for those tips! I will definitely be trying those out when I next see my bf (LDR but we currently are both still in our summer break from uni).
My bf is slightly curved. I've found that it's a lot easier when I'm on my back with my head slightly hanging off the bed and he's standing.

Gosh...that's a lot of learning.
My bf and I are each other's firsts but thankfully we're both freaky, have quite the libido and are up for trying almost anything once. So we've learned a lot with and from each other even though we started off inexperienced.

Truth be told I get that age of consent is there for a reason but also it is a thing that different people mature differently and at different ages. My brain is unsure how to rationalise it all.

ralphie250 · Sep 10, 2017

Sadly my wife does not do it never ever......

But this is the best thread ever

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AlwaysCurious · Sep 10, 2017

Also, just thought: for all the receivers of this tasty act...what do you especially like?

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snowy · Sep 17, 2017

I usually do what @Lindy suggests: move to something else, then come back. I can deepthroat like a champ. The trick for me was learning to relax my throat and breathe correctly. Damn, I can't think about it or I get all hot and bothered. I love, love, love it.

ralphie250 · Sep 17, 2017

This is the best thread ever in the whole wide interweb

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gruffman27 · Sep 17, 2017

Lindy said: ↑

Make sure your tongue is out of the way. Push the tip of your tongue all the way forward past your lower teeth and down towards your chin. Don't try to deep throat with you tongue in your mouth. Like the emoji. Then push gradually and back off as soon as the gag starts to set in. Concentrate. Then go back down. Breathe through your nose. Repeat. You can gradually loose most of the gag reflex. But back off as soon as the gag starts. Don't force it too soon. That sets in panic and fear of not being able to breathe. Try taking a little bit deeper each time. My cousin says that she uses lube. Butter. I've never tried it.
It does help if the cock is really hard! Now, who doesn't like a hard cock? I can't deep throat a semi-stiffy. It just keeps bending off to the side , fills up my oral cavity, and won't go "down." And a long banana shape cock (curved and thinner at the head) will go down easier than a knobby mushroom. But I prefer fucking the knobby mushroom. Sig calls it his helmet.
When I was fifteen I had about a four-month long fling with a twenty-six year old Adonis. I learned how to do lots of things in those four months. He was a strong teacher and I was the willing student. Nowadays he would be called an "abuser" and statutory rapist even though at fifteen I was the instigator. Not legal for me to consent. But he was so hot! Like the Marlboro man without the cigarettes. I was a selfish little bitch. We finally split because I thought that he thought that I was ugly. He didn't want to be seen out with me. That wasn't true, I found out from him ten years later. (You can't completely escape your past in a small town. It walks the same streets that you do.) He was afraid of getting caught and going to jail. He is a topic for another thread.
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Wow, Lindy, best advice ever. One other thing, practice, practice, practice!

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Lindy · Sep 18, 2017

gruffman27 said: ↑

Wow, Lindy, best advice ever. One other thing, practice, practice, practice!
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I've always liked what Japanese violin pedagogue Shinichi Suzuki said about practice: "Knowledge is not skill. Knowledge plus ten thousand times is skill."

I'm workin' on it.

Azharen · Oct 10, 2017

Love this thread.

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Japchae · Oct 12, 2017

Yesterday morning I was reminded that one should not give a blowjob after eating a few bites of granola.

fflowley · Oct 13, 2017

Help me out here.....is this a problem for the blower, or for the blowee?

Japchae · Oct 13, 2017

Can be both. Nothing is quite as startling as something small and hard suddenly appearing in one's mouth during a blowjob. As for the recipient, sometimes those little bits get abrasive.

DextersDee · Oct 13, 2017

ralphie250 said: ↑

Sadly my wife does not do it never ever......

But this is the best thread ever

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I know no woman that does not give head...

MrMD069 · Oct 13, 2017

My wife LOVES to blow me. She's very talented. I think the secret to her success is that I never pushed her. She was very inexperienced when we first started dating. I let her do her thing and over time she's come to love it all. She took to it right away and swallowed the first time she blew me. Deep throat, face fucking, cum swallowing, she's a pro a them all. Yeah, I'm a lucky bastard and I know it.

ralphie250 · Oct 13, 2017

DextersDee said: ↑

I know no woman that does not give head...
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now you do

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