Having a big dick isn't all its cracked up to be

IM limited E the tightness of the vagina can vary at any stage. My wife can be tight after a few orgasms from oral and/or manual stimulation, or loose (as loose as she ever gets, which is what makes us a good fit), or she can damn near 'lock me out or in' after a few intercourse Os. According to her she can squeeze intentionally when she concentrates, such as intentionally milking me when she's riding cowgirl, but many times her vagina just does what it does on its own.

 

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This is interesting to me, because my experience is quite the opposite and obviously some have this issue too. My wife can have multiple orgasms, her record is over 20, but from the first one on shes tighter. We can still have sex after and it can be good, but less good then if she didn't orgasm first and I have to go in SLOW.

This has been my experience with most women but there are a few caveats.

While my sample size of women I've had sex with is largish, the number who I've had sex with, without condoms is only 2. My wife and a long term FWB. The FWB is also the only women who could take all of me without issue, so the tightness after an orgasm wasn't a problem there at all.

The rest have all been with condoms which makes it harder to judge wetness and tightness is what it is. So I could be wrong there in some cases. I do judge how a woman is reacting to oral tactically so I know that most did get tighter, and less lubed (its hard to describe, its not less fluid but thicker).

Some though didn't and to be honest, I thought they were faking since I didn't feel the vaginal walls contract and pulse like a real orgasm. Being not all women orgasm quite the same perhaps they weren't faking and I simply misjudged.

 

Never felt a girl get dry during orgasm. They get wetter. I've also noticed with women who tend to get super wet I also feel them get hotter down there as they come. I love that. Especially if they start to convulse along with the sudden increase in temperature.
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This video is relevant.

 

It sure helps as you get older, I can stick it in and just kegle her to orgasm. Forget anal though. Some things are better some are not.

 

How about having a big dick but having a wife who isn't interested?

 

This is something I don't get. When my wife started to go into nesting mode libido I shook that up in a hurry, you can't let that stand. I love my wife but if we didn't have a sex life, we'd be divorced, we could even been friends after, but marriage is more than a bff.

 

If only it was that simple

 

I can't comment on your scenario but in mine, when she started to flag, I confronted it head on. Reddit has a sub /r/deadbeadrooms about this very topic, and while mine never got that bad, I've read that sub occasionally and while I don't comment I'd like to shake some of them.

I read this after we fixed our issues, but I think a lot of it is good common sense in this process.

http://www.amazon.com/The-Married-Life-Primer-2011/dp/1460981731

I saw it recommended somewhere and I er... found... a pdf on line of it. Its a quick easy read with some good ideas.