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"Good enough" partner

Discussion in 'Tilted Life and Sexuality' started by girldetective, Dec 7, 2015.

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  1. omega

    omega Very Tilted

    Guys just say that even the worst blowjob is great, but it's really not true. If a guy told a woman that her blowjob was not very good, she would stop doing it. A lot of women have an inflated belief in their blowjob abilities because guys lie to them. What woman wants to fuck a guy who says she is lousy at blowjobs? Not everyone can be good. Most are average, some are bad. It's a bell curve. It's kind of like how most guys won't complain about the woman doing the laundry when she doesn't do a good job because she will just turn around and say "well you can do it then". Trust me, if I could blow myself, I would.
     
    omega, Dec 21, 2015
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  2. Lindy

    Lindy Moderator Staff Member

    Location:
    Nebraska
    I think a lot of women suck cock as an accommodation, but aren't really into it. So , you're right, they'll never be good at it, they just want to get done with it.
    There's a porn clip out there on the interweb of a young, thin, pornstar Ron Jeremy sucking his own.
     
    Lindy, Dec 21, 2015
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  3. cynthetiq

    cynthetiq Administrator Staff Member Donor

    Location:
    New York City
    oh and if you aren't getting that, your friends say, "You deserve better."

    just like the dog, the bone, and the river.
     
    cynthetiq, Dec 21, 2015
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  4. Chris Noyb

    Chris Noyb Get in, buckle up, hang on, & be quiet.

    Location:
    Large City, TX

    Good points. I still think that someone saying they "trained" their SO or spouse sounds a bit off. I'm pretty sure that many? some? folks would not like to hear that they were "trained" to be better in bed, cook their SO's favorite dishes, do housework, keep up with home repairs, etc.

    Obviously the relationship dynamics vary from couple to couple. What's fine between Bob & Sue might not be fine between Tom & Kim.
     
    Chris Noyb, Dec 21, 2015
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  5. Borla

    Borla Moderator Staff Member

    My wife and I often joke that we've "trained" each other in various aspects of our relationship. If it is totally one-sided, that is domineering IMO. But when it is a give and take, it becomes symbiotic.
     
    Borla, Dec 21, 2015
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  6. snowy

    snowy so kawaii Staff Member

    Agreed.
     
    snowy, Dec 21, 2015
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  7. omega

    omega Very Tilted

    That's from one of the devil in miss Jones movies.
     
    omega, Dec 26, 2015
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  8. Daniel_

    Daniel_ The devil made me do it...

    Location:
    The United Kingdom, naturally
    "Good enough" isn't a whole verdict, it's the start of a description.

    "Good enough that I know I have found home", "good enough that I can be happy".

    The problem with "good enough" isn't the words, it's the punctuation.

    "Good. Enough!"
     
    Daniel_, Dec 27, 2015
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